7 segnali a prova di bomba che non vi apprezza più
Ricordate i tempi in cui eravate tutto il suo mondo? Vi riempiva di attenzioni e andava in capo al mondo per voi, ma ora non più così tanto. Cosa è successo, dove è andato tutto storto?
If you feel things are not like they used to be, he has probably lost interest in you but doesn’t know how to tell you.
Avete perso la scintilla iniziale che vi ha fatto incontrare. Dopo che la chimica si è esaurita, non rimane più nulla. Siete semplicemente dati per scontati.
Per saperne di più su come affrontare il fatto di essere dati per scontati, consultate questo link, perché ha aiutato molto anche me: Don’t be taken for granted
Don’t stick around in this kind of relationship because let’s face it, you deserve so much more than that.
Meritate qualcuno che vi ami per quello che siete, difetti e tutto il resto.
You don’t deserve someone who will flee at the first sign of trouble. These men are nothing more than pure cowards unable to commit.
Signs he doesn’t appreciate you like he used to:
1. Non chiede mai un consiglio
That is probably because he doesn’t want your advice. Your opinion doesn’t matter to him that much.
He doesn’t feel you’re important enough to include you in his decision-making process.
He feels you are just not important and if you thought you could spend the rest of your life with him, you’re wrong because that life isn’t worth living, not with someone who doesn’t appreciate you at all.
2. He doesn’t listen when you talk
Every time you have got something to say, he tunes out because he simply doesn’t care about what you’re talking about.
Either he feels that you’re just not that interesting or he thinks nothing you say is important.
Either way, he’s being an asshole and you should leave him. Don’t waste your life thinking he will come around and dandogli una seconda possibilità. Si può fare molto meglio di così.
3. You’re always at his disposal
Avete sempre tempo per lui e per le cose di cui ha bisogno. Sarebbe del tutto normale se lui facesse lo stesso per voi.
It’s called love. People who love each other are ready to sacrifice their time if the other one needs them.
Loro mollano tutto e corrono ad aiutare il partner, ma nel vostro caso le cose sono un po' diverse. Voi fate sempre qualcosa per lui, mentre lui non fa mai nulla per voi. Questo non è giusto!
4. He never says thank you’
I’m not saying he should walk right behind you, appreciating every single move you make, I’m just saying he should have those two words packed together in his vocabulary.
He doesn’t appreciate the things you do, ergo he doesn’t respect you and the final result is that he doesn’t love you.
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who thinks of you as convenient and doesn’t love you, not even one bit?
5. Fa progetti per conto suo
You are not included in his plan-making. Maybe just at the last minute, if he had something planned but his friend canceled, then he’ll ask you and pretend like he was planning on asking you all along.
Well, he wasn’t. It’s just because he has no one to go with. Or what’s even worse, he assumes that you have all the time in the world, so he goes ahead and makes plans without consulting you and brings you in last-minute.
He doesn’t even ask you if you would you like to go wherever he is planning on going, he just says that you are going.
Don’t let anyone treat you that way. Don’t let anyone be in control del vostro tempo libero. Questo è semplicemente sbagliato.
6. Non ricorda mai le date speciali
If it’s your birthday or your anniversary, he won’t remember, let alone surprise you with something. That is how much he cares.
You may even get that crap talk about how every day is special and why should you celebrate that one with him, but don’t fall for it.
It’s just a lame-ass excuse for the fact he forgot because he simply doesn’t care.
7. He doesn’t give a damn about your feelings
This may be just pure selfishness but in this case, it’s selfishness wrapped together with not giving a damn about you.
He doesn’t care about your feelings or what makes you happy or sad.
Questi sono i segni di una relazione non sana, da cui da cui dovreste uscire il prima possibile. Take some advice and get out. It’s better to be single than sad.
