8 modi in cui gli empatici amano in modo diverso

Essere amati da qualcuno è il sentimento più ipnotico di questo mondo, ma essere amati da un empatico è qualcosa che va oltre il descrivibile.

It is selfless, it’s intense and it’s something you have probably never felt before.

When an empath decides to love you, it’s going to be like you’re experiencing a love from another planet.

Oftentimes you’ll catch yourself wondering what is it that you did to deserve to be loved by such a special creature and the answer is: probably not much. Because empaths don’t love like normal people.

Empatici amare in modo diverso.

Sono donatori naturali

    

Believe it or not, there are people out there who are not selfish and who don’t think only about their own well-being.

Gli empatici sono quelle persone che ci fanno ringraziare Dio ogni giorno di esistere su questa terra.

They’re like human-shaped angels. So imagine being loved by someone like this. It’s a blessing, don’t you think?

Quando gli empatici amano, viene loro spontaneo dare tutto quello che possono a voi.

Whatever they think you deserve-you’ll get without ever needing to ask.

They give their love and time selflessly to the person they love and because they’re natural givers, they won’t hold anything back from you.

Sometimes you’ll even get more than you deserved because giving to others comes naturally to empaths.

Empath’s heart is constantly broken

An empath’s heart is constantly broken by injustice, by inequalities, by the amount of toxicity in others and by being hurt by people.

So, the least of your worries will be that you’ll ever get hurt by an empath.

They are very aware of the pain in this world and that’s why they’ll do anything they can to protect your heart.

You won’t have to worry that you’ll be cheated on, that they’ll ghost on you or anything like that because, when it comes to empaths, mettono sempre le vostre esigenze prima delle loro.

They act differently when they’re hurt

Some might think that empaths got used to being hurt, but actually the only feeling a human being can’t get used to is the pain.

When empaths are hurt, they will never project their pain on you, so that’s something you should never worry about.

Ma si allontaneranno e potrebbero dimenticarsi di voi per un momento o due per guarire.

The worst thing you can do is let them be. When empaths are hurt, don’t leave them alone. Yes, give them some time, but be there for them.

Show them that they’re not alone because that’s when they need to know the most that there is someone out there who cares. This is your time to give back all the love you received from an empath.

Il loro cuore è spesso in gabbia 

Often, it may seem to an inexperienced observer that empaths are people who love so easily. But that’s a huge mistake.

Quando gli empatici sono stati feriti troppe volte, quando danno il loro amore a troppe persone sbagliate e dopo essere stati spezzati, hanno la tendenza a ingabbiare il loro cuore.

When they don’t find anyone to tell them everything is going to be okay and that they’re not alone, they’ll lock their heart and it gets almost impossible to approach them.

La cosa più egoista da fare sarebbe decidere di non lottare per loro.

Don’t give up just like that when you see someone like this has their heart caged.

Fight just like an empath would fight for your love. Because when empaths decide to open a long-time caged heart, you’re the one who gets all the love that was being held back.

Hanno bisogno di spazio

Gli empatici amano le persone ma don’t enjoy being surrounded by others all the time.

A volte può essere troppo opprimente per loro essere circondati da persone.

Empaths need time to process their emotions, they need time to rest from everything that’s overbearing to them, so don’t try to fight it.

This ‘space’ doesn’t mean they’re out there ‘hunting’ for someone new or that they got fed up with you.

It means they’re recharging and that they’ll get back to you as soon as they get a chance.

The positive side of this story is the fact that empaths are not clingy. They’re never too much.

Because they understand the benefits of space, you’ll always have enough space for yourself.

You’ll be able to breathe while being in a relationship. And you’ll know you’re loved even when the person who loves you isn’t around you.

L'onestà è il loro obiettivo finale 

Per quanto dolorosa possa essere, gli empatici si schierano sempre con la verità. Odiano mentire e odiano che gli si menta.

They are some of the most forceful advocates of ‘better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie’.

Because empaths like truth, you’ll never be lied to. You’ll always be clear with where you stand with them.

You won’t ever need to worry that an empath is lying to you or that you’re being manipulated.

You’ll always get the truth in your relationship, and this is something many couples lack.

Sono altamente intuitivi

Quello che non molti sanno degli empatici è che hanno un'intuizione molto sviluppata.

Hanno la capacità di vedere molte cose e molte emozioni invisibili agli occhi degli altri.

That’s why you’ll sometimes have the feeling you’re being spied on or something like that.

But it’s not what you think. Because of their intuition, empaths often sense things you don’t say to them. Oftentimes they know how you feel before you realize it yourself.

You won’t be able to hide your feelings from an empath and the best part is that they’ll always be there for you.

They’ll always help you to handle your feelings and they’ll know exactly what to do in any situation. Your emotions will always be an empath’s priority.

A volte può sembrare di essere in compagnia di un essere magicamente dotato di poteri speciali che siamo stati portati a credere non esistano negli esseri umani.

Questo può essere sia una benedizione che una maledizione. Gli empatici non si lasciano sfuggire nulla, perché vedono, sentono e si connettono con tutto in ogni momento.

Il loro amore è intenso 

L'amore con un empatico sarà intenso. Sarà onesto e sarà qualcosa che non avete mai sperimentato prima.

If you’re lucky to be loved by an empath, you’ll see colors and shades you have never known before.

Empaths are energetically sensitive, they pick up on everything that’s happening around them and they’ll be in tune with you almost all the time.

What you’ll feel with an empath is something people refer to as ‘alien love’ because it’s something a normal human could never give you.

Essere amati da un empatico sarà uno degli amori più appaganti che abbiate mai provato.

You’ll have someone who’ll always be there for you and who’ll treat you as a priority.

Someone who’ll care for you and who’ll always give you more than you deserve.

It will be different. It will be nothing you ever experienced before. Don’t wonder where you got it from. Embrace it.