Come amare una donna che non è mai stata amata

Una donna che non è mai stata amata è una creatura rara e selvaggia. Non può essere domata. Si può solo scegliere di percorrere il sentiero accanto a lei, ma lei non si lascerà mai guidare da voi.

She’ll always be la dominante. Non è mai dipesa da nessuno e non lo farà mai. Se vi innamorate di lei, dovete essere preparati.

She doesn’t come with a manual, although she should. She had a lot of time to build a life for herself without anyone’s help so she won’t let anyone ruin it for her.

She’s very patient because she waits for someone to love her. That makes you think she’s relaxed but she won’t put up with anyone’s shit.

She values time so she doesn’t let anyone waste hers. L'unica persona che la amava era lei stessa.

Il tipo di sicurezza e di rispetto che ha per se stessa fa paura alle persone normali, perché non sono abituate a essere così forti.

If you love her and if she loves you, she’ll be able to walk through hell with you without asking for anything.

Ma se le costate la pace e le mentite, preparatevi a essere spediti in quell'inferno.

Why wasn’t she loved?

A volte una donna può allenarsi a essere indipendente e forte. Ma per essere veramente forti, bisogna nascere combattenti. Dal momento in cui è nata, è stata una combattente.

Even as a child, she was independent and very picky when it came to friends. When a woman’s aware of her own value, she will only want the best for herself.

Non ha mai dubitato di se stessa. Le sue lacrime non si vedevano da nessuna parte. Doveva essere presente per tutti nella sua vita, perché era l'unica abbastanza forte da essere la loro roccia.

She never asked for help. Not because she’s too proud to do so but because she never needed it. Anything that others can do in a week, she’s going to finish in only one day.

That’s how dedicated she is to anything she does. Imagine how dedicated she’d be to the man who loved her? Could you handle that kind of love?

Nessuno prima di lui ci era riuscito. Erano semplicemente troppo deboli per restituire l'amore che lei era pronta a dare. Nessuno nella sua vita era stato in grado di gestire una tale quantità di emozioni e di dedizione.

That’s why she should come with a manual. If you’re not ready to deal with her, then don’t even think about falling for her.

Come amarla?

Alcuni direbbero che si aspetta troppo dall'amore. Ma la verità è che queste persone non hanno idea di cosa sia l'amore. Lei si aspetta tutto ciò che l'amore dovrebbe essere veramente.

It should be magical and overwhelming. It should be felt in every pore of one’s skin. But don’t think that this is enough. No matter how strong the love is, it’s not enough.

She’s been working on herself too hard and she won’t let some amore tossico destroy everything she’s built. To her, respect and love go hand in hand.

If you don’t respect her, she’ll never believe that you love her. She doesn’t expect you to give her the world. She can get it on her own, it’s no big deal.

Ma si aspetta che le teniate la mano quando esce a prenderla. Si aspetta che tu sia la roccia che lei è per tutti gli altri.

Her personality would never let her fall for someone who didn’t respect her or support her. But she also expects her partner to be as smart as she is.

If she wasn’t smart she wouldn’t have been able to survive everything she survived. She loves the fact that she’s smart and considers that the best personality trait she has.

Not only do you need to be smart, you also need to be a feminist. She would never date someone who didn’t understand that men and women are completely equal in anything in life.

No man ever fixed her car. She always did it, so no man should ever dare to say that it’s not a woman’s job. A job has no gender. It just has to be done.

She’s very opinionated about everything. She loves her life and she chooses her truth. She chooses to see only the good things in life, those things that feed her soul.

Non ha mai avuto problemi a tagliare i ponti con chi portava negatività nel suo mondo.

If you don’t want her to drive you away then you must be a smart man who loves her as much as she loves him and who understands feminism and brings positivity into her life.

She, for sure, won’t settle for less. She’s been single all her life and has no problem with that. If you’re in her life to make it better, then you’re welcome to stay.

But in case you’re costing her her peace, she’ll pack her things before you even know it.