Come conquistare il cuore di una ragazza: 9 modi validi per farla tua

Winning a girl’s heart is a mighty task but if you’ve set your eyes on a particular lady who has completely taken over il tuo cuorepreparatevi alla corsa sfrenata di rendendola tua!

L'amore reciproco è qualcosa che tutti sogniamo di trovare e mantenere il più a lungo possibile.

Falling in love is a daunting experience, because a man in love is capable of doing things he normally wouldn’t dream of doing.

Ma l'amore ha un modo di giocare con la nostra mente e di farci vedere fino a che punto siamo disposti a spingerci, una volta consumati da quell'emozione insaziabile!

If you are dead set on winning this girl’s heart, it must mean she’s got you pretty hooked, right?

That’s okay, the more intense your feelings, the stronger your sense of pursuit and your chances of succeeding can only go upwards from there!

La cosa più interessante da notare qui è che per win a girl’s heart, it’s really not necessary to go out of your way and do anything extraordinary.

Girls aren’t that complicated, to be honest with you. It’s just that once we’ve had our expectations met, we refuse to lower them for guys who can’t be bothered.

We don’t require grand gestures that will prove your undying love and commitment and we don’t need you to be our knight in shining armor!

Coerenza e impegno sono due delle componenti più basilari, ma estremamente importanti, che tutti cerchiamo in un partner romantico.

But it’s funny how hard it is to find someone who will actually prove that good men aren’t such a rare breed after all.

     

This is why it may seem difficult winning a girl over, when in fact, the girl you’re so into is probably just looking to find somebody who is here to stay, that’s all.

These days, most men seem to be into the whole ‘hit it and quit it’ shtick, which gives a bad reputation to those with sincere and genuine intentions.

Don’t be discouraged by this. All you need to do is show this girl that you’re interested in her for real and booty calls and that those type of things are the furthest thing from your mind!

The journey to her heart is not going to be without its obstacles but if you’re truly into her, you’ll make the effort and show her what un vero uomo è.

Prove to her that her faith in men is not in vain and show her that the guy she’s been waiting for is right there in front of her.

All you need to do is be upfront and real with her and no matter what happens—stick around.

It’s true, there isn’t a universal recipe on how to win a girl’s heart per se but based on many years of experience, I can honestly say that there are certain approaches that will definitely enhance your chances of winning this girl over!

Prestate attenzione e leggete attentamente.

Here are 9 proven ways that will for sure help you win your girl’s heart. And remember—be a man of action, not a man of words! If you ask me, hat’s the most valuable consigli sulle relazioni you’ll ever receive. 

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La fiducia è fondamentale

Le ragazze notano queste cose più di quanto pensiate.

If you approach this girl with your hands shaking and your voice cracking at the very beginning of the conversation, it’s most definitely not going to leave a good impression.

I know you’re nervous, and that’s totally normal and fine. I’m just saying don’t approach her until you’ve got all your ducks in a row.

Fatevi un'iniezione se necessario, fatevi coraggio, chiamate il vostro migliore amico e fatelo calmare.

Don’t look at it as this great quest. Just try to see it from a chill standpoint.

You like this girl, she’s right there and you’re going to go and say hi.

You have an idea of what you could say and in case it doesn’t go well, you can always excuse yourself and use the restroom.

Lì, potrete ricomporvi, pensare a qualcos'altro di cui parlare e sperare che tutto vada bene.

La cosa più importante è non farle vedere quanto siete nervosi.

If you appear confident, she’s going to be immediately attracted to this quality and give you the benefit of the doubt.

Just don’t put too much pressure on yourself and you’ll be fine.

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Prestate attenzione alle cose di cui parla, anche se sembrano insignificanti.

Le ragazze adorano quando ti ricordi di qualcosa che hanno menzionato a caso qualche settimana fa, senza pensare che ti sarebbe rimasto in mente.

Ma ecco che la sorprendete con quei simpatici orecchini di cui si è innamorata qualche settimana fa quando era dalle vostre parti!

Sono queste le piccole cose che ricordiamo e apprezziamo.

It’s not the gifts, it’s the attentiveness on your part!

It means you actually listen when she talks and care enough to remember stuff she wouldn’t expect you ever would.

See, it’s so simple. Just paying attention to her and keeping in mind the piccole cose she mentions so you can show her later that you’re in it for the long haul as opposed to just wasting her time.

Being attentive, showing you care about all parts of her life and knowing how to make her happy is all it takes to win a girl’s heart.

Once you guys realize how simple it really is making a girl’s day, hopefully you’re going to put in the effort and do those little things more often.

Farla sentire sicura e protetta intorno a voi

You don’t have to have the body of a Greek god or be in the best shape of your life.

That is not what I’m talking about here. Physical strength is not a prerequisite for her to feel protected.

Far sì che si senta al sicuro con te è molto più di questo.

Siate il suo porto sicuro. Siate la persona a cui si rivolge quando il mondo la butta giù.

Be her words of encouragement when she’s doubting herself and show her the strength she has within when she feels like she can’t go on.

Be the person who she goes to for everything when she doesn’t know what to do with herself. No judgment and no excuses, simply essere presenti.

Make her see that you are a constant in a world full of elusive people. When she sees she’s got a real rock in you, her heart is going to be all yours.

You don’t have to be her superhero, you just have to make her see you would do anything for her.

Even when it’s out of your hands, listen to her and comfort her because sometimes, that is all she’s going to need.

Dimostratele che siete un buon ascoltatore.

Fatele capire che non tutti i ragazzi ascoltano solo quando vogliono qualcosa in cambio.

Dimostratele che non avete paura di comunicare con lei su tutto e per tutto.

Lasciate che si sfoghi con voi e che si sfoghi. Ascoltate solo per il gusto di ascoltare e non solo per rispondere.

Get rid of any judgmental thoughts and try to understand where she’s coming from.

Don’t ever make her feel like she can’t tell you certain things because she feels you wouldn’t understand.

I strongly suggest that you learn to just listen to her because if you can’t, that’s a sure-fire way to perderla.

You can’t win the heart of a girl by only listening to her when it suits you. It doesn’t matter if you’re in the middle of a video game—pause it.

It doesn’t matter if you were just about to watch a game, it can wait five minutes.

Her time is precious, so prove to her you’re not wasting it by being there when she needs you, regardless of how inconvenient it may be for you at that very moment.

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Show her you can take care of yourself and don’t need her to keep you in check

Alcuni uomini cercano una fidanzata, ma in realtà vogliono qualcuno che gli prepari il pranzo, gli faccia il bucato e gli pulisca la casa.

Let me just tell you right now, if that’s what you’re looking for, you’re barking up the wrong tree.

No girl is interested in that. Ever. She’s not your mom and you’re a grown-ass man. Take care of yourself!

Make your own lunch, tidy up after you make a mess and do your own laundry. It’s called being a grown-up.

Any woman who sees that you just want her to take care of you is going to run in the other direction—and rightfully so.

If you want to win her heart, show her you’re an adult human being who takes care of himself with all aspects of your life. If you fail at it, you can always resort to learning come manifestare a qualcuno la propria simpatia. JK!

Show her that you are organized, ambitious and don’t take anything for granted.

Le piacerà quando vedrà che siete così mantenuti e maturi e solo allora potrà immaginarsi con voi.

Nessuna ragazza cerca un immature mama’s boy, ricordatelo.

Show her that you’re much more than just what the eye can see and she’ll be letting her walls down, slowly but surely.

Fatele dei complimenti quando meno se l'aspetta e rendetele la giornata più bella.

If you notice your girl is having a particularly lousy day, try to brighten it with a compliment or two but only if it’s genuine and comes from the heart.

Maybe she’s not in the best mood or doesn’t seem to want to talk about it but that’s okay.

Dille solo quanto ti sembra bella stamattina quando si è svegliata e quanto sei fortunato ad averla.

Ditele quanto siete orgogliosi di lei e, se il problema è legato al lavoro, fatele i complimenti per le sue idee e la sua creatività.

But always speak from the heart. If you’re being dishonest she’s going to be able to tell.

Things she doesn’t feel she’s good at are the things you need to pump her up about. Make her see she’s so much better than she thinks she is.

Una parola gentile da parte dell'uomo a cui lei tiene significherà tutto il mondo, garantito!

Forse non cambierà la realtà della sua situazione, ma cambierà maledettamente il suo atteggiamento e il suo modo di fare. farla sorridereanche solo per pochi secondi.

Baciarla con passione e spesso

You never need an excuse to kiss your girl. She could be having the most amazing day or her week could be a total disaster; either way… kiss her with such passion that she’ll forget about anything that’s on her mind.

Un bacio, soprattutto se inaspettato, è la migliore medicina per qualsiasi cosa.

È una circostanza rara in cui ci si dimentica del mondo in un istante, lasciandosi andare e godendosi la sensazione.

If you’re sitting in a bar and talking about something, just pause for a second, look her deep in the eyes, smile for a second and give her a long, passionate kiss.

If you’re just chilling at home, watching a movie, just turn around and without hesitation give her a kiss and show her how crazy you are about her. A kiss is always a good idea, so don’t be afraid to get to it.

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Sorprendetela con gesti carini e romantici

Yes, girls love romance. That’s no secret. You don’t need to rent out a casino and get the world’s most famous violinist to serenade you as you dine on lobster and drink the most expensive wine there is.

Romance is not about money and places, it’s about something personal and intimate you know would mean a lot to her.

Take her to a place you know she used to love going to when she was a kid but hasn’t visited in ages.

Portatela a fare una passeggiata al chiaro di luna lungo la spiaggia, portatele dei fiori e rimanete sdraiati ad ascoltare il rumore delle onde che si infrangono e a guardare le stelle.

Mandatele una di quelle brevi storie romantiche della buonanotte. 

It’s those priceless, intimate moments that are the epitome of romance. Things you will remember and cherish forever.

Where it’s just you and her and a private moment that nobody can ever take away from you.

Siate onesti riguardo ai vostri sentimenti e alle vostre intenzioni

Le donne hanno un sesto senso quando si tratta di giochi mentali e di mentire. Quindi fatevi un favore e siate voi stessi.

Don’t lie, don’t trick her and don’t say things you don’t mean; she’ll know.

Se vi sentite in un certo modo, diteglielo. Le piacerebbe sapere che cosa provate per lei e che cosa sta succedendo.

Se avete un problema con qualcosa, parlatene con lei. Apprezzerà la vostra onestà.

That is the way to a girl’s heart. Whatever you may feel and however you may think she’s going to take it, give her the benefit of the doubt.

Le donne sceglierebbero sempre la verità, per quanto scomoda possa essere, piuttosto che farsi mentire.

So don’t even try being dishonest. It’s a complete waste of your time, as well as hers.

If you’re serious about her, practice transparency and never deviate from it.

Siate onesti e fedeli a voi stessi: solo così riuscirete a conquistare il suo cuore.