12 Zodiaci e il tipo di uomini che attraggono in base al loro segno

Vi siete mai chieste perché certi uomini sembrano essere attratti da voi come le api dal miele? O perché sembri attrarre sempre lo stesso tipo di uomo, come se fosse scritto nelle stelle?

Ok, forse lo è. L'astrologia non rivela solo le nostre peculiarità e personalità, ma anche l'energia che proiettiamo nel mondo e gli individui che attiriamo.

And believe me, whether you’re into astrology or just here for the tea, you’re going to view yourself (and the males you attract) in a completely new light.

So, are you ready to discover what your sign says about the males you can’t seem to shake? Let’s get started…

1. Ariete (Il bambino grande)

Ci si innamora di uomini che si comportano come bamboccioni. Evitano le responsabilità e l'etichettatura, in modo da avere una via d'uscita da qualsiasi cosa in qualsiasi momento.

Non ammetteranno mai che voi due avete una relazione, in modo che se lui si stufa e vuole andarsene, può andarsene senza alcun vincolo. Sono troppo egoisti per occuparsi di qualcuno che non sia loro.

But here’s the thing—your fiery Aries energy often sees their helplessness as a challenge. You think you can whip them into shape, but instead, you end up exhausted by their antics. Your natural leadership makes you believe you can guide them, but they’re too stubborn and immature to truly listen. In their eyes, your independence and resilience are attractive, yet they fail to rise to your level.

Ultimately, these men might cling to you because they see you as their anchor, even if they won’t commit. They mirror your passion with fleeting bursts of charm, but their lack of follow-through leaves you questioning why you ever gave them a chance. The lesson? Don’t let your need for excitement overshadow your need for stability.

2. Toro (Vecchio ma caldo)

Well, the type of man you’re attracted to is not boys; they are men. You hate instability and boys create instability, but men take it away. The other thing is that he is a player.

No matter how old and how grey their beards are, no matter how rich they are (and usually this is more than true), they can rock Taurus’s world. But, don’t let the maturity of an ‘old’ man fool you. That doesn’t mean he wants a relationship. If he has been alone until now, he will probably be alone for the rest of his life.

These seasoned charmers captivate you with their sophistication and poise. They seem to have all the answers, and their air of self-assurance draws you in like a moth to a flame. You’re all about the finer things in life, and these men know exactly how to cater to that—fine wine, intellectual conversation, and experiences that make you feel cherished. However, their aloofness often leaves you questioning whether they see you as a partner or just another conquest.

Nel profondo, desiderate una persona con i piedi per terra come voi, ma questi uomini si divertono a mantenere le cose in modo informale. Sebbene possiate essere tentate dalla loro mondanità, ricordate che la sostanza conta più del fascino superficiale. Fidatevi del vostro istinto quando vi sembra che il loro fascino sia più una maschera che una finestra sulla loro anima.

3. Gemelli (L'uomo pigro)

They put zero effort into any kind of relationship. They will lay back and wait for you to do all the work. The thing is they are so irresistible that you fall into the trap and do everything for them—although you shouldn’t.

You shouldn’t blame yourself for attracting this kind of man, but wake up and move on. There is no future there.

Gemini, your quick wit and energy deserve a partner who matches your pace, but lazy men see you as a convenience. They’re drawn to your resourcefulness and adaptability, leaning on you to fill the gaps in their lives. Their nonchalance might feel like a refreshing contrast at first, but it quickly turns into frustration when you realize they expect you to carry the emotional and logistical weight.

Ironically, they often leave you feeling mentally drained despite their laid-back demeanor. The duality of your sign craves both intellectual stimulation and playful banter, and yet these men rarely provide either in a sustainable way. Once you recognize that you’re worth someone who contributes equally, you’ll stop settling for men who rely on you to do it all.

4. Cancro (L'uomo bisognoso)

You are a natural caretaker and you’ve got so much love to give. It makes you who you are and you can’t change it. That’s why you attract needy men; men that are a lot of work but don’t give anything in return.

Then you fall in love and before you know it, they are sucking the life out of you. These men don’t know how to be alone. They need someone to take care of them, and after a while, this becomes exhausting.

Your empathetic nature makes you a magnet for men who crave nurturing but don’t reciprocate it. They see your emotional intelligence as a sanctuary, but they rarely offer the same refuge in return. At first, their vulnerability might appeal to your protective instincts, but over time, it becomes a heavy burden that leaves you questioning your own happiness.

The truth is, your deep emotional reservoir deserves to be met with equal care and respect. While it’s in your nature to give, you must remember that a healthy relationship requires balance. Instead of shouldering their baggage, find someone who uplifts you just as much as you uplift them.

5. Leone (L'uomo aggressivamente onesto)

If you are going to attract a ladies’ man, you are going to attract an aggressively honest one. Manipulations and mind games are not your things and people can’t easily twist you around their little fingers.

If you are going to run into an idiot, it’s better to run into someone who will be honest from the start about their intentions than lie about them and tell you when it’s too late and you’re in it too deep.

As a Leo, your magnetic personality draws men who are bold and upfront, yet often abrasive. Their honesty might appeal to you at first—it feels like a refreshing break from deception—but their delivery can lack the tact and charm you secretly crave. These men admire your confidence and presence, yet their inability to meet your emotional needs leaves you yearning for more depth.

You don’t back down easily, so you often engage in heated debates with these men, trying to uncover what’s beneath their blunt exterior. But no matter how much they respect your fiery passion, they seldom match your level of emotional intelligence. Don’t dim your light for someone who thrives on brutal truths without offering the kindness you deserve.

6. Vergine (L'uomo intelligente)

Quest'uomo stimolerà il vostro corpo e la vostra mente. Potrebbe essere un ragazzo della vostra classe e potrete fare ogni sorta di birichinate tra una lezione e l'altra e scambiarvi informazioni intelligenti durante le lezioni.

They are the kind of guys that will watch a documentary you were saving for time alone with you. But, of course, don’t expect them to stick around longer than one semester, because, underneath it all, they are still just ladies’ men,

Virgo, your sharp intellect and curious mind are like magnets for men who thrive on stimulating conversations and meaningful exchanges. These men know how to hold your attention with their knowledge and wit, making them almost irresistible. But their charm often lies in their fleeting presence—they drop profound insights and intriguing ideas only to move on before you can build something lasting.

La loro imprevedibilità può sembrare eccitante all'inizio, ma alla fine noterete la loro incoerenza, che si scontra con il vostro bisogno di stabilità e struttura. Sebbene abbiate a cuore la connessione intellettuale, ricordate che un vero partner apprezzerà anche gli aspetti pratici ed emotivi di una relazione, non solo quelli mentali.

7. Bilancia (Il ricco)

You love the nice stuff and if anyone wants any kind of relationship with you, they have to make a huge effort. You want flowers, fancy restaurants—you want it all. And let’s be honest, you deserve it all.

He has to have a good job and a nice income. You know it’s not serious. He is a ladies’ man, but if you can’t avoid him, it’s better that he is a rich ladies’ man than just a ladies’ man.

Il vostro amore per la bellezza e l'armonia vi fa gravitare naturalmente verso uomini che possono garantirvi una vita di lusso. Questi uomini ammirano il vostro gusto raffinato e la vostra eleganza e spesso vi viziano con regali sontuosi e gesti eclatanti. Ma mentre le cene e gli accessori firmati possono impressionarvi, notate subito che il loro affetto può sembrare transazionale piuttosto che sentito.

Deep down, you want a partner who appreciates you for who you are, not just for the aesthetic perfection you embody. While it’s tempting to get swept up in the glittering world they offer, don’t lose sight of your desire for genuine connection. True love isn’t just about opulence—it’s about authenticity.

8. Scorpione (L'uomo ad alta libido)

You have a very high libido which means that your ladies’ man has to be at least nearly as ready for action as you are. You need a man who has a nice tool and knows how to use it. Nothing else is that important.

There won’t be broken hearts and tears because both of you will get out of this relationship exactly what you are looking for—amazing bedroom fun with no strings attached.

Scorpio, your intensity and passion attract men who exude raw, magnetic energy. They’re drawn to the mysterious aura you project, and their own confidence in the bedroom matches your unapologetic sensuality. These connections often burn bright and fast, leaving little room for emotional depth but plenty of mutual satisfaction.

However, your emotional side sometimes craves more than just physical compatibility. While it’s thrilling to have a partner who matches your fire, you might find yourself wondering if there’s someone out there who can ignite your heart and soul as deeply as your desires. Don’t settle for surface-level connections if your instincts tell you to seek something profound.

9. Sagittario (L'uomo umoristico)

You are a joker and you like good humor. That’s why you attract this kind of man. They love to joke, but the downside to this is that they never take anything seriously.

Although you love to laugh, there are times when you want to be serious and say your feelings out loud, so you expect the same from him. Well, you’re not getting that from him. He is not a ladies’ man for no reason.

Sagittario, la vostra natura libera e avventurosa vi rende irresistibili agli uomini dall'ingegno acuto e dalla risata contagiosa. Questi uomini adorano la vostra capacità di mantenere le cose leggere e amano il modo in cui il vostro ottimismo si irradia. Insieme, create un mondo di scherzi e avventure condivise che all'inizio è esilarante.

But when the laughter fades, you might find yourself longing for a deeper connection—a moment when you can be vulnerable and express your emotions without being met with sarcasm. While humor is important, don’t ignore your need for sincerity and emotional reciprocity. The right partner will know when to laugh with you and when to hold space for your deeper truths.

10. Capricorno (L'uomo dal grande ego)

You like men that are kind of narcissistic. They only care about themselves and what they’re wearing and how people perceive them. The reason why they like you is that you’re all-together and classy, but after some time, that doesn’t cut it.

You want more because you know you deserve more. You get the feeling that they don’t care about you and the truth is they probably don’t, but it’s not you, it’s their cold heart.

Capricorno, il vostro forte senso di ambizione e grazia attrae uomini che ammirano il vostro portamento, ma che spesso non riescono ad eguagliare la vostra profondità emotiva. Questi uomini sono innamorati della vostra capacità di tenere tutto insieme, vedendovi come un trofeo piuttosto che come una vera partner. La loro ossessione per le apparenze spesso mette in ombra la capacità di coltivare un legame significativo.

While you respect their drive and ambition, their self-centeredness leaves you feeling unappreciated and unseen. It’s a stark contrast to the stability and loyalty you crave. Trust yourself to walk away from relationships where your worth isn’t fully recognized. A love built on mutual respect will align with your grounded and determined nature.

11. Acquario (L'uomo amico)

You really don’t care what other people think of you and that’s why you’re going to do whatever you feel like doing. Sleep with your friend? Sure, why not?

But on the other hand, for you to have any kind of relationship with anybody, you have to have a deep connection with that person. That’s why friends work perfectly. The only thing is you should never do it because it never ends well.

Your unconventional and independent spirit draws men who value friendship above all else. They’re intrigued by your open-mindedness and intellectual curiosity, and these qualities often create a foundation of trust that’s hard to find elsewhere. However, when the lines between friendship and romance blur, things can get messy.

While you cherish the idea of love rooted in deep connection, you also struggle with vulnerability. These “friend” men can feel safe initially, but their inability to meet your emotional needs often leads to frustration. To avoid heartache, focus on partners who align with your ideals but also bring the emotional stability you secretly crave.

12. Pesci (L'uomo ingannevole)

Farebbe finta di essere qualsiasi cosa tu voglia che sia solo per entrare nei tuoi pantaloni. Per esempio, siete estremamente sensibili e profondi. Ti piacciono le persone intelligenti con cui puoi avere conversazioni significative.

You fall for these men because they pretend to be all those things and they are far from it. They are just very good actors. But, that doesn’t last for long. His insecurity soon sees the light of the day and before you know it, the whole thing is over.

La vostra natura sognante ed empatica vi rende suscettibili agli uomini che sono esperti nel dirvi esattamente ciò che volete sentire. Fanno leva sui vostri ideali romantici, tessendo una storia che sembra una favola, solo per farvi scoprire che era tutta un'illusione. All'inizio il loro fascino potrebbe spiazzarvi, ma la loro mancanza di autenticità diventa evidente con il passare del tempo.

Your tendency to see the best in people often keeps you from recognizing red flags early on. While your capacity for love is boundless, it’s essential to stay grounded and trust your intuition. The right person will embrace your depth without needing to fabricate a persona to win your heart.

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