14 segni sicuri che il vostro capo si preoccupa per voi

Quali sono i segni che il vostro capo tiene a voi? Come si fa a sapere se è interessato al vostro sviluppo professionale e se investe nei vostri progressi?

Ebbene, questi segnali qui sotto vi daranno tutte le risposte di cui avete bisogno!

Segni che il vostro capo tiene a voi

How to tell if your boss likes you: Of course, I’m not talking about liking you in a romantic way or desiderare di dormire con te – I mean appreciating you as an employee and liking you as a person!

1. Incoraggia la crescita professionale

One of the surefire signs your boss cares about you can be seen through how he always pushes you forward to become better at what you do. Of course, they won’t appear out of the blue and give you a promotion you didn’t work for.

Tuttavia, vi indirizzerà sulla strada per ottenere quella promozione. A buon capo incoraggia il vostro crescita professionale.

Non è intimidito dai vostri potenziali progressi. Al contrario, non vede l'ora di farlo, proprio come voi.

This person is not only occupied with the company’s progress. He wants you to move forward together with the company.

Would your growth mean that they would no longer be your superior? Would your promotion put you two in the same position in the company’s hierarchy?

Probabilmente sì. Tuttavia, quest'uomo è tutt'altro che egocentrico. Nonostante tutto, vi dà la possibilità di crescere professionalmente.

2. Vi dà una convalida

Un cattivo capo non vi darà mai una conferma. Non vi farebbe mai i complimenti, non vi direbbe che avete fatto un buon lavoro su quel progetto importante, né si complimenterebbe con le vostre capacità di lavorare in squadra.

Al contrario, continuerebbe a cercare difetti e imperfezioni in tutto ciò che fate.

Don’t get me wrong – a buon capo won’t praise you when you don’t deserve it either. That wouldn’t be unfair to other employees, but it would also be unfair to you.

You would think that you’re doing a great job and that your work ethic is spotless. Consequently, you would continue behaving in the same manner, thinking that you’re making progress.

But your boss doesn’t do this. He gives you validation when you earn it. He makes sure you feel worthy, and he wants you to be aware of how much he appreciates you and everything you’re doing for the company.

3. Vi elogia davanti agli altri

Come si fa a sapere di avere un buon capo? È una persona che elogia il vostro buon lavoro davanti agli altri, soprattutto davanti ai vostri superiori.

Of course, he’s not too obvious about it. After all, the last thing you want is to make others jealous. You don’t want your colleagues to accuse him of having favorites and treating you better than everyone else.

Anche se tiene di più a voi, deve mantenere la professionalità e gestire tutti i suoi collaboratori in modo equo.

Nevertheless, this doesn’t prevent him from using every chance he gets to talk about your amazing skill set. This is one of the obvious signs your boss cares about you.

4. Ma vi critica in privato

Of course, not everything you do is perfect. After all, you’re just a human being and not a machine.

It’s perfectly natural that you make a mistake once in a while. And while you think that your boss would be great if he pretended he didn’t see it and let it slide, that is absolutely wrong.

Ciò significherebbe che sta permettendo il vostro cattivo comportamento, e sa che questo non contribuirebbe mai al vostro sviluppo professionale.

Critica costruttiva

Yes, he criticizes you, but he’s always a constructive critic. He’ll never yell at you just because someone else annoyed him or because he got up on the wrong side of the bed.

He’ll tell you where and when you made a mistake, why it was a wrong move, what impact it had on the company, and most importantly, give you advice on how not to make the same mistakes again.

Let’s be honest. You don’t like receiving this criticism. After all, who does?

However, it’s easier for you to understand his point of view when he explains everything in detail like this. Besides, you know he’s doing it all for your own good.

E, naturalmente, a volte he’s testing you to see how you’ll react to his criticism. Will you make things right, or will you take it personally?

5. Rispetta l'equilibrio tra lavoro e vita privata

As much as you love your career, you know that life isn’t all about work. Being too obsessed with your professional growth and disregarding your personal life can greatly impact la vostra salute mentale.

E il vostro capo ne è consapevole. Ti apprezza come dipendente, ma rispetta il tuo equilibrio tra lavoro e vita privata.

Uno dei segni che il vostro capo tiene a voi è che non vi chiama mai dopo l'orario di lavoro. Non si aspetta mai che facciate gli straordinari senza essere pagati.

He understands that this is your job – nothing more than that – and he most certainly doesn’t expect the company to be the center of your universe.

Inoltre, l'ultima cosa che vuole è sovraccaricarvi. He knows that you’ll perform better at work if you have enough time to rest and forget about your job responsibilities.

He might not tell you this, but trust me – he takes care of your personal development as well. Once again, you’re a human being, and that’s how he perceives you. He doesn’t see you as a source of unlimited work.

6. Vi dà credito

Il peggior tipo di capo è quello che si prende tutto il merito delle cose che l'intero team è riuscito a fare. Sì, probabilmente era il leader e probabilmente ha dato il via a tutto.

However, it’s not fair to take all the credit because he most certainly didn’t do all the work on his own.

Per fortuna il vostro capo non è così. Vi dà credito ogni volta che fate qualcosa.

He can’t wait to tell your supervisors that you’ve learned a nuova abilità in modo che possano vedervi come candidati per una promozione o un aumento.

And you know what the best part is? It’s that you don’t even have to be present for him to give you credit. You don’t have to remind him to do so – it’s part of his work ethic and another thing that makes him an exceptional human being.

7. Fiducia

Quando il vostro capo si fida di voi, sapete che apprezza e rispetta il vostro lavoro. Innanzitutto, crede nelle vostre capacità di giudizio.

He doesn’t have to check everything you do, and he most certainly doesn’t have to clean up after your mess. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you’re flawless and that you’ll never make a mistake.

However, he trusts you enough to know that you’ll notice your mistakes and correct them along the way.

Don’t get me wrong – you still require some kind of supervision. After all, he is your boss, and it’s his job to oversee everything you do.

Tuttavia, Immaginate la fiducia che ha in voi quando vi lascia fare la maggior parte del lavoro da soli. He’s not doing it because he’s lazy or wants to avoid doing his job.

Ricordate che tutto ciò che fate è una sua responsabilità. Quindi, se commettete un errore, la responsabilità ricade su di lui.

Ma nonostante questo, vi dà autonomia e libertà. Immaginate quanto si fida di voi.

8. Il vostro sforzo viene premiato

Everything you do for the company doesn’t go unnoticed. You may think that your boss isn’t paying attention to everything you do, but trust me, you couldn’t be more wrong.

Dopo tutto, pensate che tutte quelle lodi e quei complimenti siano stati vani? Ogni singolo sforzo che fate è e sarà ricompensato.

And I’m not talking about your boss telling you “buon lavoro” or something like that. Even though this is also great to hear, he makes sure you get a bonus, a raise, or a promotion whenever he sees that you deserve it.

Don’t worry – he’s not giving you anything on a silver platter. You deserved everything you’ve gotten, and you should be proud of yourself!

9. Vi offre nuove opportunità

One of the hardest things in every business is opening new doors. Let’s be straight – you don’t need anyone to give you a raise or a promotion just because they like you.

Tuttavia, il fatto che qualcuno vi presenti nuove opportunità significa molto. E quella persona è il vostro capo.

È disponibile un nuovo corso di istruzione o di formazione? C'è la possibilità di ottenere un tutoraggio?

He’ll make sure you get it – because you’re the one who deserves it the most. What you’ll do with your newly acquired knowledge and skillset dipende da voi.

Tuttavia, dovreste apprezzare queste opportunità e assicurarvi di non deludere il vostro capo.

10. Ascolta la vostra opinione

Uno dei segni che il vostro capo tiene a voi è che ascolta ciò che avete da dire. Vi consulta sulle decisioni importanti e chiede il vostro parere.

Naturalmente, he’s still the one making the final call, but if you’re being honest, your opinion is always taken into consideration.

If you complain to him about something, he won’t just shake it off. Instead, he’ll look into the problem and see what he can do to help you out.

To him, you’re more than just an employee. He sees you as his right hand and someone he could never make it work without!

11. Si preoccupa di voi personalmente

Uno dei maggiori segnali che il vostro capo si preoccupa di voi è che fa tutto ciò che è in suo potere per rendere il vostro ambiente di lavoro as pleasant and comfortable as possible. This person is genuinely interested in how you feel – not only how well you do your job.

But his concern doesn’t end here. He also cares about you personally.

No, I’m not talking about him being in love with you. But the truth is that you’re more than coworkers.

With time, you two have become friends. I’m not saying that you’ll go on vacation together, but it’s not unusual to exchange birthday gifts, know each other’s family members’ names or catch up about your lives every now and then.

After all, you spend so much time together daily. It’s perfectly normal that you care about each other’s mental health, well-being, and other needs.

12. Incontri individuali

Do you have a lot of one-on-one meetings? Well, that’s for a reason. Utilizzate queste riunioni come un punto di apprendimento e fatene buon uso.

Dovete tenere presente che il vostro capo è estremamente impegnato. Se trova il tempo di farvi da mentore e di insegnarvi qualcosa di nuovo, significa che tiene molto ai vostri progressi.

13. Doesn’t have an ego problem

A good boss doesn’t have an ego problem. He apologizes when he’s done something wrong and admits when you were right, even if it means he was wrong.

Il vostro supervisore sa che non si tratta di una gara. He is not here to show you that he’s better than you and that you could never rise to his level.

Si considera il vostro mentore. You becoming more successful than him wouldn’t crush his ego. Instead, it would make him proud!

14. Putting you in charge when he’s not around

Maybe you’re not your boss’s deputy on paper, but you’re definitely the one in charge of his duties when he’s absent. At first, you probably weren’t that happy about all of your new responsibilities – as if you didn’t have enough work to do yourself.

Tuttavia, ora vi rendete conto che questa è una cosa fantastica. E se il vostro capo ottiene una promozione? Chi pensate che lo sostituirà?

That’s right – this kind of training opens many doors for you.

And the best part is that he doesn’t check in with you all the time when he’s away. No, this is not because he doesn’t care about you.

He behaves like this because he’s totally relaxed and knows that you’ve got everything covered.

Per concludere:

Don’t take these signs that your boss cares about you for granted. They’re not a free pass to goof off or shirk your duties.

Al contrario, hanno una grande responsabilità. Che servano da promemoria per dare sempre il meglio di sé.