12 segni zodiacali: Che tipo di giocatore attrae sempre?

You probably noticed how certain types of people always seem to show up in your love life. It’s not just a coincidence—blame it on the stars! Your zodiac sign shapes not only who you are but also the kind of energy you attract in relationships.

Sometimes, this works out beautifully, leading to a perfect match. Other times, it’s a recipe for frustration, as you keep drawing in partners who aren’t quite what you need. Maybe they’re lazy lovers, emotional vampires, or those who just can’t get over their ex, the cosmic patterns are hard to ignore.

Astrology offers a fascinating way to understand these patterns. Each zodiac sign has a unique vibe, and it’s no surprise that certain types of people are irresistibly drawn to it.

Tuttavia, non tutti questi incontri sono destinati ad andare avanti. Riconoscere il tipo di giocatore che si tende ad attrarre è il primo passo per liberarsi dai cicli malsani e cercare il tipo di amore che ci appaga veramente.

So, let’s see what the stars have to say about the types of partners each zodiac sign seems to magnetize—and how to avoid falling into their traps.

1. Ariete

You always attract guys who don’t know what they really want from a relationship. Actually, they are crybabies, and they expect you to solve every problem they have. Being in a relationship is not an option for them, so they never truly give themselves all in.

They are selfish, and your emotions are not one of their priorities. This guy just wants to have some “innocent” fun and then he will buy you a one-way ticket.  

What makes this situation even more frustrating is how these men always seem to latch onto your vibrant, confident energy. Aries, you’re a natural-born leader, and these indecisive types are drawn to your ability to take charge.

They love that you’re a problem-solver—but instead of stepping up as an equal partner, they expect you to carry the weight of the entire relationship.  

You deserve someone who matches your fire and ambition, not someone who drains it. While these men may initially seem harmless or even endearing with their dependency, they’re ultimately holding you back from finding someone who can meet you at your level.

Next time, don’t hesitate to put your foot down and demand the same passion and commitment you bring to the table.

2. Toro

Attirate ragazzi che vogliono farvi il lavaggio del cervello. Quando alla fine vi conquistano con le loro parole dolci, si sentono supremi. Questo tipo di ragazzo si accorgerà facilmente della vostra lealtà e onestà e si approfitterà di voi.

The real truth is that these guys don’t care so much for other people. A guy like this will always wear the mask of a loving and caring guy, but those unlucky ones can tell you the real truth about him.  

Toro, la vostra incredibile lealtà e il vostro cuore gentile vi rendono una calamita per i manipolatori. Questi uomini amano la vostra affidabilità e faranno di tutto per sfruttarla, dando per scontata la vostra generosità.

They’ll shower you with sweet words and romantic gestures, but only to keep you hooked while they subtly erode your confidence.  

The good news? You’re sharper than they think. Once you notice the cracks in their façade, you’ll quickly realize that you deserve so much more.

Don’t let anyone make you question your worth—trust your instincts and prioritize partners who cherish your loyalty instead of using it as a tool for control. You’re a rare gem, and the right person will know how to treat you accordingly.

3. Gemelli

Purtroppo, attirate sempre uomini pigri. Vedono quanto siete ottimisti e positivi, quindi vi lasciano pianificare la loro vita, mentre loro si limitano a stare sul divano, totalmente disinteressati a qualsiasi cosa facciate.

Questa è una sfortuna assoluta, quindi sta a voi decidere se intrattenere sempre qualcuno o godervi la vita con il vostro vero partner.  

Gemini, your vibrant energy and creative spirit are like a beacon for men who lack ambition. They’re drawn to your lively personality, hoping to ride the wave of your enthusiasm without putting in any effort themselves.

It’s frustrating because, while you’re full of ideas and excitement, they’re content to sit back and let you do all the heavy lifting.  

La parte peggiore? Spesso all'inizio questi ragazzi sembrano affascinanti e promettono di essere all'altezza del vostro spirito avventuroso. Ma con il passare del tempo, la loro mancanza di grinta diventa impossibile da ignorare.

Don’t settle for someone who expects you to be the sole source of inspiration in the relationship. Find someone who challenges you intellectually and shares your zest for life—you deserve a partner who’s just as curious and adventurous as you are.

4. Il cancro

Men in your life tend to be emotional vampires. They would rather be with anyone than alone. They are so needy, and if they don’t get what they want, they can be very nasty.

This kind of guy is very selfish because he wants every single part of you, but he doesn’t give anything in return.  

Cancer, your nurturing nature makes you a target for these emotionally draining men. They see your compassion and assume you’ll always be there to pick up the pieces, no matter how much it costs you.

All'inizio possono sembrare affettuosi, e vi sommergono di attenzioni e affetto. Con il tempo, però, il loro bisogno diventa opprimente e vi fa sentire emotivamente esausti.  

These men are experts at guilt-tripping you into giving more than you should. It’s important to set boundaries and remember that love should be a two-way street.

You deserve someone who gives as much as they take, someone who appreciates your emotional depth without trying to drain it dry. Don’t be afraid to protect your heart—it’s far too precious to waste on someone who can’t meet your needs.

5. Leone

This kind of guy that finds you attractive lives in the past and he can’t get over some problems that are tearing him apart. He is emotionally attached to his ex.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but you are there just so he can take revenge on her. You are good-looking, popular, and smart, and that’s all he needs to make his ex jealous. That sucks, right?  

Leo, your magnetic charm and undeniable presence make you a prime target for these emotionally unavailable men. They’re drawn to your confidence and charisma, hoping to use you as a trophy to soothe their wounded egos.

At first, they’ll shower you with attention, making you feel like the center of their world. But as their true motives become clear, the disappointment can be crushing.  

It’s time to remind yourself that you’re nobody’s second choice or tool for revenge. You deserve someone who’s fully present and ready to appreciate all the amazing qualities you bring to a relationship.

Don’t settle for a man who’s stuck in the past—find someone who’s ready to build a future with you.

6. Vergine

Attirate uomini che vogliono che vi prendiate cura di loro come faceva la loro mamma.

Even though that is cute at the beginning, think twice if you don’t want to end up with someone who will act childish to everything you say or do.

Un uomo del genere non è assolutamente un maritino, e tutto quello che potete fare con lui è divertirvi, finire il vostro bicchiere di vino e andarvene.  

Vergine, la vostra natura pratica e accudente spesso attira uomini che cercano un custode piuttosto che un partner. Questi uomini ammirano la vostra attenzione ai dettagli e il modo in cui fate funzionare tutto senza sforzo, ma invece di apprezzarvi come una pari, iniziano ad appoggiarsi a voi per ogni piccola cosa.

It’s like they’ve decided you’re their personal life manager instead of their partner in love.  

All'inizio potreste trovare lusinghiero il loro affidamento, ma con il tempo diventa estenuante. Le relazioni dovrebbero essere basate sul sostegno reciproco, non sull'assistenza unilaterale.

Remember, Virgo, it’s okay to step back and prioritize your own needs. You’re not responsible for fixing someone’s life, and the right partner will value your dedication without taking advantage of it. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

7. Bilancia

The men in your life don’t consider love to be their top priority. What is more important to them is their social status and money. Lots of money. Actually, their money is an extension of their ego, and if it weren’t for it, they wouldn’t be so self-confident.

Questo tipo di ragazzo è solo per un incontro casuale e non cerca di nasconderlo. Sta a voi decidere se accettarlo o lasciarlo!  

Libra, your charm and elegance attract men who are obsessed with appearances. They’re drawn to your refined taste and social grace, seeing you as the perfect partner to elevate their image.

Purtroppo, la loro ossessione per lo status spesso mette in ombra la capacità di creare un legame emotivo genuino.  

Questi uomini possono riempirvi di regali e promesse, ma spesso si concentrano sul modo in cui completate la loro immagine piuttosto che su come vi adattate al loro cuore. Meritate molto di più che essere trattate come un giocattolo per le loro ambizioni sociali.

Seek a partner who values your inner beauty as much as your outward grace. When you find someone who loves you for who you are—not what you represent—you’ll finally experience the deep connection you crave.

8. Scorpione

You attract men who are superficial. They never have their hearts on their sleeve, and opening up to you is a “mission impossible” for them. For some reason, they never take their masks off.

È una sorta di meccanismo di difesa per loro. Anche se voi due avete caratteri totalmente opposti, lui non vi dirà mai cosa lo infastidisce davvero. È un enigma che non vuole aprirsi con voi.  

Scorpione, la vostra intensità e passione sono magnetiche, ma spesso attirano uomini emotivamente non disponibili. Questi uomini sono incuriositi dalla vostra profondità, ma hanno il terrore di eguagliarla.

They wear their masks tightly, afraid to reveal their true selves, and it leaves you constantly guessing about what’s really going on in their hearts.  

At first, their mystery may excite you, but over time, it becomes exhausting. You’re not here to solve someone else’s emotional puzzle—you deserve someone who’s open and vulnerable with you.

Trust your instincts, Scorpio. When you sense that someone isn’t willing to meet you halfway emotionally, don’t be afraid to walk away. You need a partner who isn’t intimidated by your depth but embraces it fully.

9. Sagittario

The men who find you attractive are never honest with you. You never know if he is joking or if he is acting for real. They love to joke, but that’s all you will get from them. They are not capable of committing to anything more serious than a simple joke, and that’s what makes them so irritating.

La cosa peggiore è che non ammetteranno mai che gli piacete davvero e, francamente, vi stancherete presto di questo gioco a nascondino.  

Sagittarius, your adventurous and carefree spirit seems to attract men who can’t take anything seriously. They’re drawn to your positive energy and sense of humor, but they often mistake your laid-back attitude as a signal that they don’t need to invest emotionally.

Questi burloni amano mantenere le cose leggere, ma rifuggono dalle conversazioni più profonde e dagli impegni che desiderate veramente.  

At first, their playful banter might be charming, but their inability to express genuine emotions quickly becomes tiresome. You deserve someone who isn’t afraid to be vulnerable and honest with you.

Let the players keep playing, Sagittarius, and save your heart for someone who’s ready to share in your adventures while offering real emotional depth.

10. Capricorno

You attract guys who are inconsiderate types. All he wants is to show off in front of his friends, and that’s all. You will never hear that he loves you or that he needs you.

His ego is big as The Great Wall of China, and you can’t do anything about it. So sister, don’t blame yourself, he is just not worth it!  

Capricorno, la vostra natura ambiziosa e radicata spesso attira uomini più concentrati sul proprio ego che sulla costruzione di una relazione significativa.

Questi tipi sono colpiti dalle vostre conquiste e dalla vostra indipendenza, ma invece di sostenervi, vi vedono come un altro modo per accrescere la propria immagine.  

Anche se inizialmente possono sembrare affascinanti e sicuri di sé, la loro vera natura diventa chiara quando il loro egocentrismo diventa protagonista. Danno priorità ai propri bisogni e desideri, facendovi sentire non apprezzati e non supportati.

Don’t waste your time trying to change them, Capricorn—you deserve a partner who’s as reliable and goal-oriented as you are. The right person will celebrate your accomplishments, not compete with them.

11. Acquario

You attract momma’s boys. Talking to them is so boring and you will realize you are not a good match after the first conversation.

In realtà, sono consapevoli del fatto che sono noiosi e uscire con te è la cosa migliore che gli sia capitata. La verità è che questa parata durerà solo finché non lo direte voi!

Aquarius, your independent and intellectual nature often attracts men who lack maturity. These momma’s boys are drawn to your strong sense of self, hoping you’ll guide them through life the way their mothers once did.

Purtroppo, raramente portano lo stesso livello di impegno o di indipendenza nella relazione.  

Anche se all'inizio possono sembrare dolci, la loro incapacità di farsi avanti come partner alla pari diventa presto frustrante. Vi meritate qualcuno che vi metta alla prova intellettualmente ed emotivamente, non qualcuno che si aspetta che siate voi a portare avanti la relazione.

Stand firm in your independence, Aquarius, and don’t settle for less than a partner who values and matches your unique strengths.

12. Pesci

Attirate uomini che vogliono solo l'intimità fisica. Vuole sembrare calmo, freddo e raccolto, ma in realtà è ansioso per il più piccolo fallimento che gli capita.

His insecurity makes him so vulnerable, and as much as he wants to hide it, he can’t. He is emotionally troubled, and having a long-term relationship with him is not an option.  

Pisces, your dreamy and compassionate nature often draws in men who see you as an escape from their insecurities. They’re captivated by your gentle energy, but instead of offering emotional stability, they use the relationship as a way to mask their own issues.  

All'inizio possono sembrare affascinanti e attenti, ma la loro mancanza di profondità emotiva diventa evidente col tempo. Vi meritate qualcuno che non solo ammiri la vostra gentilezza, ma che contribuisca anche alla vostra felicità e al vostro benessere.

Don’t let anyone take advantage of your empathetic heart. The right partner will meet you with the same level of emotional maturity and commitment that you offer.