10 coisas que deves saber antes de te apaixonares por uma pessoa estranha
Se alguma vez namorou com uma pessoa estranha, provavelmente sabe que a sua vida nessa altura era tudo menos aborrecida. Eles são uma espécie de mistura de boas almas e comportamentos estranhos, mas no final, namorar com eles vale mesmo a pena.
Quando nos apaixonamos por eles, não há volta a dar, mas há algumas coisas que temos de ter em conta!
1. A sua estranheza é um pouco atractiva
É aborrecido sair com as mesmas pessoas a toda a hora. Todos aqueles gajos certinhos, com roupas elegantes e carros fantásticos, com boas carreiras, nunca nos farão rir como um gajo esquisito.
Ele tem algo dentro dele que nos faz rir e que nos faz sentir bem quando estamos com ele. No fim de contas, a sua estranheza não é assim tão má.
2. Detestam encontros típicos
Don’t expect your guy to take you to a fancy restaurant and to a movie afterwards. He will probably pick you up with his bicycle and won’t buy you any flowers or chocolates. He doesn’t like typical dating and he has his own estilo de namoro.
So, be prepared to go out on a first date with him to an amusement park or some other place that he finds cool. He is everything but ‘normal’, so trust me when I say that you will have the best night of your life if you decide to go out with him.
3. He will ‘take out’ your own weirdness
The fact is that we are all weird in our own ways. Your weirdo doesn’t have any problem sharing that with the rest of the world while you will probably need a couple of beers to loosen it up.
De qualquer forma. Ser um pouco estranho nunca matou ninguém, por isso vai em frente e sê selvagem, nem que seja por uma noite.
4. They probably won’t hang out with your friends
Do you know why? Because your friends are normal people, and they will definitely feel uncomfortable or they will even judge him for acting like that. If he chose you, it doesn’t mean that he will enjoy hanging out with your friends as well. So, don’t push it!
5. O seu estilo de dança é, hmmm, estranho
When a weird person dances, it is all but socially acceptable. They don’t have any problem making fools out of themselves and the fact that the rest of the people in the club think they are crazy doesn’t mean anything to them.
Têm os seus próprios mundos e estão a desfrutar ao máximo das suas vidas.
6. Detestam reuniões sociais
Weird people just don’t get why people have to gather in order to enjoy themselves. Weirdos can do that alone, just sitting on a couch and watching TV for about—a week.
So, don’t even bother to invite your man to some social gatherings because that is not his cup of tea, and he definitely won’t have any fun there.
7. Estão sempre a fazer piadas
And when they do that, they don’t care if it is an inappropriate situation. That doesn’t mean they are heartless—it is totally the opposite. They just can’t find the right timing but those who criticize them probably don’t have any sense of humor.
8. Ajudam-nos a aprender coisas novas sobre nós próprios
O problema de passar tempo com pessoas estranhas é que aprender a aceitar-se a si próprio even if you thought that won’t happen anytime soon.
You learn that it is okay to be weird sometimes and being like that doesn’t offend others. It is just a way to shake the stress away and to enjoy life to the fullest.
9. Don’t ask them about explanations
If you are in love with a weird person and you decide to ask him why he is like that, your conversation can go in a totally wrong direction. So, never ask them for any explanations because they can’t give them to you.
They are just the way they are so don’t try to change them. Just accept them like that or don’t try anything with them.
10. Revelam sempre coisas estranhas sobre si próprios
When you meet someone, you can’t know their deepest secrets right away. That is something you get to know if you stick around.
Com pessoas esquisitas, é ainda mais divertido, porque pode revelar que o seu esquisito acredita mesmo que os extraterrestres dirigem o governo e que estão a partilhar informações ultra-secretas com ele. Uma loucura, não é?
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