10 lados que experimentas quando estás apaixonada por ele
There is one person out there who has the ability to make you feel some emotions you have never experienced before with anyone else. You all know that love cannot be just a perfect road without any flaws—but the day you cross the path of this specific man, you feel like it is a no-brainer. You feel this way because of the effect he has on you.
1. Boas vibrações
He makes you feel a bunch of pleasant feelings. You don’t have to worry about anything with him, and it feels good.
Ficamos tranquilos e confortáveis quando ele está ao nosso lado; ele faz-nos rir e, de alguma forma, faz-nos sentir abençoados.
Abençoada porque sabe que, no fundo, no fundo, é a sortuda que tem a oportunidade de criar uma relação única, uma ligação única com ele, simplesmente porque ele concordou em deixá-la entrar no seu mundo.
2. Segurança
He is neither Captain America nor Professor X—and he’s perfectly aware of that—but you cannot help feeling safe with him and within your relationship.
Fazemos o nosso melhor para que ambos se sintam assim, se sintam à vontade e felizes, mesmo sabendo que são dois indivíduos independentes. Não há melhor sensação do que estar apaixonado mas ser livre.
3. De espírito aberto
Pensa nele como sendo especial porque não só a faz sentir que é fantástica, mas na realidade, ele também é excecional.
Aprecia-o genuinamente pelo que ele é. Ele tem defeitos, claro, como qualquer outra pessoa. Mas o que pensas sobre essa afirmação não é outra coisa senão: “And so what? Nobody’s perfect.”
4. Positividade
When it comes time to thinking of him, your brain doesn’t function the same way. Your mind experiments with an unlimited number of ideas and dreams; your words are meaningful; your feelings are intense; your adoration has no limits; your sweetness is pure; your honesty is genuine.
You do feel confident about being yourself with him. You are not scared of thinking about the future and including him in it. You don’t wonder if he will still be close to you in several months and/or years because you peacefully feel like you don’t need to wonder—he will.
5. Atenção
You observe him. You may stop doing whatever you are doing at a specific moment just to look at him, and you don’t get tired of doing it.
You simply adore that human being you are looking at. You just don’t do it in a creepy way. He might ask you sometimes why you are doing that… just listen to your heart; it gives you the answer.
6. Gestão da raiva
You don’t have time to be angry toward him. You are mad sometimes, of course—you are human after all—but it does not last more than a few minutes – or a few hours se estiveres mesmo, mesmo, mesmo zangado. Se for esse o caso, acalme-se, pense com clareza e abra o tópico. A sua raiva desaparecerá.
7. Adoração profunda
Ama, ama genuinamente e nunca pára. Estás aqui e lá para os outros, mas o mais importante é que estás aqui e lá para ele.
You care for any relationship you have with anyone close to you, but the one you share with him is one of your favorite ones. That man doesn’t need to try being a light in your life to feel that way. That is just who he is—your light.
8. Honestidade
You don’t need to play any mind games, to lie about your feelings, to try any kind of manipulation, and to have any kind of freaking control.
Tudo parece natural. Confia nele. Talvez não consigas dar uma razão para isso, portanto, Porquê? Simplesmente porque o seu instinto o diz, e ele nunca está errado.
9. Sem medo
“What if” doesn’t exist – or at the very least, it doesn’t last because you fight for what you sincerely wish, and you dare to live new adventures with him. You are aware that life is short, and you know you don’t want to waste your relationship.
On the other hand, you don’t rush anything because you know good things take time to come, always.
10. Realista
In the end—yes, you love him to the point that you always try to think before saying anything hurtful, painful or regretful. É ser estúpido?
É, de facto, o comportamento de alguém que nunca toma nada como garantido, e especialmente essa pessoa em particular.
Por Mathilde Clemence Personne
