10 sinais de que você é apenas uma booty call para ele
Don’t get me wrong, I have nothing against the concept of a booty call.
But when you want a serious relationship, when you’re ready to commit to your lover, because you see how compatible you are, being a booty call isn’t really something you want.
If both partners are defining the relationship like that, then it’s not a problem.
When the guy in the relationship doesn’t want to commit or isn’t willing to take the relationship further, even though you are starting to fall in love with him, it can get really painful.
Without having to be direct with him about this topic, there are some signs you can look out for to know for sure if you’re only a booty call to him.
He doesn’t text you at a reasonable hour
He won’t text you throughout the day to see if you’re doing okay, he won’t even call to ask to see you during the day.
He will probably text you past midnight and he’s probably horny.
He probably couldn’t find another girl to go home with him, so he calls his plan B—you.
Todos os teus encontros acabam no quarto
You know that you might be his booty call if your ‘dates’ don’t include walks, restaurants or bars (or anything related to you two being in public), but rather just a little chat with you before he takes you to his apartment.
He’s never there for you
Ele simplesmente desaparece sempre que precisas de apoio emocional ou mental.
He doesn’t want to know about your problems and if you start talking about them he will just say that he has other plans and that he needs to rush off.
When you call him saying that you’re not feeling too good, he might just tell you that he’s busy.
You’ve never met any of his friends or family
He doesn’t include you in group activities. Ever. He doesn’t want you to be around his friends, because they might know by now that you’re nothing but a hit-and-run’ girl.
And also, in case his family don’t live halfway across the country, he makes sure you don’t cross paths with them.
Se nunca viu nenhum dos membros da sua família nem conheceu nenhum dos seus amigos, então pode ser apenas uma booty call para ele.
Tudo gira em torno do sexo
If every time you try talking with him or even texting him, he turns it into an opportunity for him to tell you how much he looks forward to hooking up with you, then you’re just a booty call.
É claro que, nas relações, os parceiros tendem a ficar excitados quando estão separados e falam sobre como gostariam de ter sexo agora mesmo, mas se everything he’s talking about refers to sex, then there’s a problem.
Ele nunca passa a noite
He doesn’t want to cuddle after sex and he’s gone right after it’s done. He simply never stays the night.
You’ve seen him flirt with other women
Ele fá-lo constantemente. À sua frente, nas suas costas, e até pode estar a namoriscar com os seus amigos.
Além disso, de alguma forma, ele está sempre a mencionar outras mulheres nas conversas.
He may not be dating them, but he makes sure that you know that you’re not the only woman in his life.
He doesn’t want to talk about serious topics with you
He just runs away or he puts up walls so you can’t talk to him.
He doesn’t want to talk to you about your relationship because you might find out that he doesn’t have feelings for you and you’ll bring him into an awkward situation.
You’re simply not important enough for him to talk with you about this, because, believe me, he won’t shed a tear if you leave.
He doesn’t plan a future together
He never talks about your future, and he doesn’t even plan dates in advance.
Tudo o que ele faz é telefonar-lhe e exigir vê-la imediatamente, porque o planeamento pode dar-lhe a falsa ideia de que ele gosta mesmo de si.
Ele muda o seu comportamento depois do sexo
Before you lie down with him, he’s the cutest, sweetest guy alive, but right after he gets what he wants, he turns into a real asshole. This is the biggest warning sign out there.
