12 sinais sensuais de linguagem corporal que a tornam irresistível para os homens

O que é Linguagem corporal?

Quando se trata de os teus melhores amigos, parents, and people you’re generally familiar with, you have zero problems communicating with them. But when it comes to a man you’re head over heels for, it’s like the cat caught your tongue!

De repente, proferir uma única palavra parece assustador. E é aí que a linguagem corporal se torna útil.

É que, quer saibamos ou não, emitimos muitas vibrações com o nosso corpo, sem sequer nos apercebermos disso. É assim que as pessoas comunicam umas com as outras quando as palavras lhes falham.

Body language has probably saved your ass more times than you’re aware!

O contacto visual, as expressões faciais, a boa postura e muitos outros aspectos podem ser utilizados como extremamente atractivos sinais de linguagem corporal que vão atrair o sexo oposto. No entanto, é preciso saber usá-los com sabedoria.

Luckily, you’re probably already doing okay, but here you’ll learn to perfect your craft.

Os três meios de comunicação mais importantes entre as pessoas (por esta ordem) são os seguintes

•  Body language

•  Tone of voice

•  Words spoken

So you see now how crucial body language is. This is something that can come in really handy when you want to win over that hot guy you can’t stop dreaming about!

As palavras são praticamente desnecessárias se utilizar estas fantásticas dicas de linguagem corporal e as levar para o próximo nível.

Se simplesmente se dedicar a isso, o seu corpo saberá o que fazer.

Por vezes, basta inclinar-se gentilmente, fixar o olhar nele e namoriscar sem usar palavras.

Give him a sexy yet coy look, and when you lean back from him, he won’t know what hit him.

Mas há muitas mais dicas e truques sobre como seduzir um rapaz sem perder muito tempo a pensar como abordá-lo e o que dizer.

Seduction is not a test, so let’s not make it into something tedious, but rather make it fun and spicy!

A linguagem corporal feminina é uma ferramenta poderosa (e sedutora) quando utilizada da forma correcta.

Pode criar tensão sexual that will drive you both insane and make you feel like it’s the first time you’re feeling this way.

So, let’s get going and learn the art of using your gorgeous body to make him yearn after you!

1. Use o poder do seu sorriso

You don’t have to be among the most attractive women on the planet to be able to seduzir um homem.

Basta um sorriso honesto e genuíno para iluminar o mundo dele por um segundo. 

Um sorriso é algo tão simples, mas tem tanto significado. Significa felicidade e traz ao de cima a criança que há em nós.

It tells him you’re genuine and don’t take yourself too seriously.

Por vezes, a vida é uma merda, mas em vez de perder horas a preocupar-se, ponha um sorriso lindo e faça-o ver o seu ponto de vista positivo.

Show him that when he’s worried, frustrated, and in a bad place, there is still someone out there who will be there with a smile on her face showing him it’s not all that bad.

And yes, I’m aware that a smile won’t solve anyone’s problems, but it WILL make it better for a short period of time. And I’d take that any day.

2. Aponta o teu umbigo para ele

I know that right now you’re probably thinking that I’m insane, but hear me out. It’s actually really simple.

Researchers have discovered that guys respond very positively to seeing a girl’s belly button! It shows him you’re comfortable around him and establishes trust!

Even if your head is turned from him, it’ll still do the trick!

3. Tocar-lhe moderadamente

If you’re on a date with a guy and you’re constantly invading his personal space, touching him (or his crotch), rubbing him, and not giving him any breathing room, it doesn’t really make him lust after you.

It feels a bit excessive and it’s suffocating him. The guy literally has no space to sit without you being all over him. But check this scenario.

You’re sitting at dinner, having a lovely conversation, keeping contacto visuale ambos prestam atenção ao que o outro está a dizer.

De vez em quando, toca-lhe suavemente na mão (quase sem querer) e afasta-se em segundos.

You give him a little smile and then fix your T-shirt (or whatever you’re wearing) which makes you accidentally brush his shoulder.

This will feel sexy, mysterious, and he’ll be wondering if you’re doing this on purpose or by total coincidence.

Either way, he’s going to feel very open to this. A touch can mean so much when you don’t overdo it.

4. Nunca cruzar os braços

Cruzar os braços transmite exatamente as vibrações que quer evitar. Faz com que pareça desligada do rapaz e que pareça desinteressada no seu encontro.

It can also make him think you’re feeling attacked and insecure.

So unless these are the signals you’re going for, my suggestion is to keep your arms how you normally keep them and avoid crossing them at all costs.

5. Fazer uma pose de poder

This sounds way more complicated than it actually is. You don’t have to be a boss ass bitch to strike a power pose.

It’s all about carrying yourself with confidence and grace! ANY girl can do this with ease.

Don’t slouch, but rather stand firmly with your shoulders to the back.

As I’ve already mentioned above, keep your hands down or on the table if you’re sitting, but never cross them.

Another idea is to put your hands on your hips, or simply choose one. Keep your head high, your eyes locked at the ”target,” and act as fiercely as you look.

6. Fixar os olhos no gajo

I’ve already mentioned it, but the importance of eye contact cannot be stressed enough.

Esta é uma ferramenta de linguagem corporal extremamente poderosa que faz com que qualquer pessoa se sinta mais à vontade na sua presença. Pense nas suas conversas por um segundo.

Try to remember how it makes you feel when the person you’re having a conversation with keeps evading your look and twirls around the room as if totally uninterested.

E agora lembre-se do efeito completamente oposto que o contacto visual firme tem em si. 

Faz-nos sentir validados, ouvidos e vistos. Demonstra respeito e carácter.

Assim, pode ver como é importante olhá-lo diretamente nos olhos enquanto namorisca com ele.

You want him to know that you’ve got eyes only for him. And that’s all there is to it. Pay attention to him and you’ll get him hooked.

7. Usa os teus lábios para o seduzir

Os seus lábios são provavelmente a primeira coisa em que um rapaz repara em si e, sinceramente, quem pode censurá-lo?

Os seus lábios são a parte do corpo mais atraente para ele e, provavelmente, ele fantasia beijá-los mais do que você imagina.

Use this to your advantage. Guys love the color red. Especially on a woman’s lips. It screams passion and fierceness.

It makes you look bold, confident, and sexy AF. Try on a sexy red lipstick and see how he responds. My guess is he won’t be able to stop staring at you.

Next thing you can do is bite your lower lip (it NEVER fails to make the guy hot for you) or to subtly lick your lips. It’s always the simplest things that do the trick!

8. Brincar com o cabelo

You can do so much with that hair of yours. And don’t even feel bad if it’s not that long, so what?

Pode continuar a brincar de forma sedutora com uma madeixa de cabelo sobre a orelha. Mas para quem tem cabelos compridos, as opções são infinitas.

You can flip your hair to the back. You can look him in the eye as you’re placing your hair behind your ear.

You can pick a lock of your hair and play with it as you’re having a conversation with him. Put your hair in front of him and proudly display it.

The trick is to not overdo it. You don’t want the guy to think you’re some hair-obsessed gal. Pick one or two of these, tops, and use it wisely.

O cabelo é uma parte sexy de uma mulher que os homens são extremamente atraídos para. So you really don’t even have to try that hard. He’s probably already hooked.

9. Utilizar expressões faciais para mostrar interesse

Sabia que as pessoas fazem cerca de 25.000 expressões faciais por dia?

As pessoas usam o rosto para exprimir os seus sentimentos com muito mais frequência do que a voz, por isso tome nota e use o seu rosto para lhe mostrar como se sente!

You can do this very simply. At first, pay attention to what he’s talking about and nod as he’s speaking.

That will show him that he hasn’t lost you.

Depois, pode inclinar um pouco o pescoço para um lado, o que revela o seu pescoço (a parte do corpo mais vulnerável) e insinua que confia nele.

Mirroring his expressions is also a fun idea. Just carefully observe not to smile if he’s talking about something serious or actually laugh if that wasn’t his intention.

Everything in moderation. He’s going to notice that you are carefully listening and reacting accordingly, which makes you look like a desirable partner in his eyes.

10. Inclinar-se suavemente para ele

Imagine you’re talking to a friend, colleague, or really anyone you normally converse with, and you notice they’ve leaned in as you’re speaking on a serious matter.

How does that make you feel? I’m guessing quite nice, as it shows you’ve got their undivided attention.

Do the exact same thing to this guy. Lean in when you want him to know you’re listening.

Se se inclinar para trás, isso demonstra falta de interesse, por isso nunca recorra a isso.

Always lean a bit forward, as it shows him you’re interested in what he’s saying and it subconsciously makes him more atraídos por si.

11. Usa algo que te faça parecer (e sentir) feroz

My opinion is that one should never do, say, or wear something they aren’t comfortable with. If it doesn’t make you feel good, just leave it.

Por isso, seja fiel a si própria. A melhor maneira de se sentir bem na companhia dele é vestir algo que a faça sentir-se como ela própria e completamente confortável.

Pode ser qualquer t-shirt com a qual se sinta bem e um par de calças de ganga justas.

It can be a hot little black number in which you feel like a bombshell. Or it can be something completely different. It’s up to you!

If you feel comfortable, it is much more likely that you’re going to appear relaxed and like you’re having a good time with him.

So don’t listen to your friends who keep telling you to slut it up (unless that’s what YOU want as well). Be YOU!

12. Don’t plan too much, go with the flow

I can give you all the tips on sexy body language signs in the world, but at the end of the day, it’s all up to you and him.

You really can’t know what this guy likes until you try! Some guys like it when you seductively lean in and shamelessly flirt, and others love it when you play coy.

You can’t plan these things. All you can do is read up, keep all of these useful tips in mind, and if it feels appropriate, use them!

You’ll be able to tell then and there, and not a minute sooner.

So my last tip is to simply be yourself. Don’t change your behavior excessively.

Utilize-os em seu benefício, mas apenas para acentuar e realçar as suas características já de si surpreendentes.

Este homem deve amar-te por quem és. Use your body language to seduce him, but never cross any lines you’re not comfortable with.

Considerações finais

Seducing a man might seem like a mighty task, but it really isn’t. It is all about using what God gave you to the best of your ability.

Todas estas dicas fabulosas e conselhos sobre relações are here simply to help you use what you’ve already got. And I’m sure you’ve got plenty!

It’s not about becoming somebody you’re not. It’s about showing yourself that you’ve got what it takes to win over any man that you want. And if it doesn’t work, know that it’s not you.

Alguns homens são simplesmente cegos para as coisas fantásticas que estão à sua frente.

Vista algo que a faça sentir-se bem, use a maquilhagem que quiser (ou tão pouca) e calce os seus ténis ou saltos preferidos.

When you feel the most like yourself, you’ve got the best shot to impress your desired man. And if he doesn’t like you for you – his loss!