12 señales sexys del lenguaje corporal que te hacen irresistible para los hombres

Qué es Lenguaje corporal?

Cuando se trata de tus mejores amigos, parents, and people you’re generally familiar with, you have zero problems communicating with them. But when it comes to a man you’re head over heels for, it’s like the cat caught your tongue!

De repente, pronunciar una sola palabra resulta aterrador. Y es entonces cuando el lenguaje corporal resulta útil.

Verás, lo sepas o no, emites muchas vibraciones con tu cuerpo, sin ni siquiera ser consciente de ello. Así es como se comunican las personas cuando les fallan las palabras.

Body language has probably saved your ass more times than you’re aware!

El contacto visual, las expresiones faciales, una buena postura y muchas otras cosas pueden resultar muy atractivas. signos del lenguaje corporal que atraigan al sexo opuesto. Eso sí, hay que saber utilizarlos con sabiduría.

Luckily, you’re probably already doing okay, but here you’ll learn to perfect your craft.

Los tres siguientes son los medios de comunicación más importantes entre las personas (por este orden):

•  Body language

•  Tone of voice

•  Words spoken

So you see now how crucial body language is. This is something that can come in really handy when you want to win over that hot guy you can’t stop dreaming about!

Las palabras son prácticamente innecesarias si utilizas estos increíbles consejos de lenguaje corporal y lo llevas al siguiente nivel.

Si simplemente te lo propones, tu cuerpo sabrá qué hacer.

A veces, basta con inclinarse suavemente hacia él, mirarle a los ojos y flirtear sin usar palabras.

Give him a sexy yet coy look, and when you lean back from him, he won’t know what hit him.

Pero hay muchos más consejos y trucos para seducir a un chico sin pasar demasiado tiempo pensando en cómo abordarle y qué decirle.

Seduction is not a test, so let’s not make it into something tedious, but rather make it fun and spicy!

El lenguaje corporal femenino es una herramienta poderosa (y seductora) cuando se utiliza correctamente.

Puede crear tensión sexual that will drive you both insane and make you feel like it’s the first time you’re feeling this way.

So, let’s get going and learn the art of using your gorgeous body to make him yearn after you!

1. Utiliza el poder de tu sonrisa

You don’t have to be among the most attractive women on the planet to be able to seducir a un chico.

Basta con una sonrisa sincera y genuina para iluminar su mundo durante un segundo. 

Una sonrisa es algo tan sencillo, pero tiene tanto significado. Significa felicidad y saca el niño que llevas dentro.

It tells him you’re genuine and don’t take yourself too seriously.

A veces la vida es un asco, pero en lugar de perder horas preocupándote, ponle una sonrisa preciosa y hazle ver tu punto de vista positivo.

Show him that when he’s worried, frustrated, and in a bad place, there is still someone out there who will be there with a smile on her face showing him it’s not all that bad.

And yes, I’m aware that a smile won’t solve anyone’s problems, but it WILL make it better for a short period of time. And I’d take that any day.

2. Apúntale al ombligo

I know that right now you’re probably thinking that I’m insane, but hear me out. It’s actually really simple.

Researchers have discovered that guys respond very positively to seeing a girl’s belly button! It shows him you’re comfortable around him and establishes trust!

Even if your head is turned from him, it’ll still do the trick!

3. Tócalo moderadamente

If you’re on a date with a guy and you’re constantly invading his personal space, touching him (or his crotch), rubbing him, and not giving him any breathing room, it doesn’t really make him lust after you.

It feels a bit excessive and it’s suffocating him. The guy literally has no space to sit without you being all over him. But check this scenario.

You’re sitting at dinner, having a lovely conversation, keeping contacto visualy ambos prestan atención a lo que dice el otro.

De vez en cuando, le toca suavemente la mano (casi como por accidente) y se retira a los pocos segundos.

You give him a little smile and then fix your T-shirt (or whatever you’re wearing) which makes you accidentally brush his shoulder.

This will feel sexy, mysterious, and he’ll be wondering if you’re doing this on purpose or by total coincidence.

Either way, he’s going to feel very open to this. A touch can mean so much when you don’t overdo it.

4. Nunca cruces los brazos

Cruzar los brazos transmite exactamente las vibraciones que quieres evitar. Pareces desconectada del chico y desinteresada por tu cita.

It can also make him think you’re feeling attacked and insecure.

So unless these are the signals you’re going for, my suggestion is to keep your arms how you normally keep them and avoid crossing them at all costs.

5. Haz una pose de poder

This sounds way more complicated than it actually is. You don’t have to be a boss ass bitch to strike a power pose.

It’s all about carrying yourself with confidence and grace! ANY girl can do this with ease.

Don’t slouch, but rather stand firmly with your shoulders to the back.

As I’ve already mentioned above, keep your hands down or on the table if you’re sitting, but never cross them.

Another idea is to put your hands on your hips, or simply choose one. Keep your head high, your eyes locked at the ”target,” and act as fiercely as you look.

6. Mírale a los ojos

I’ve already mentioned it, but the importance of eye contact cannot be stressed enough.

Se trata de una herramienta de lenguaje corporal extremadamente poderosa que hace que cualquiera se sienta más a gusto en tu presencia. Piensa en tus conversaciones durante un segundo.

Try to remember how it makes you feel when the person you’re having a conversation with keeps evading your look and twirls around the room as if totally uninterested.

Y ahora recuerda el efecto completamente opuesto que tiene en ti el contacto visual firme. 

Te hace sentir validado, escuchado y visto. Demuestra respeto y carácter.

Para que veas lo importante que es que le mires directamente a los ojos mientras flirteas con él.

You want him to know that you’ve got eyes only for him. And that’s all there is to it. Pay attention to him and you’ll get him hooked.

7. Usa tus labios para seducirle

Tus labios son probablemente lo primero en lo que se fija un chico y, sinceramente, ¿quién puede culparle?

Tus labios son la parte del cuerpo más atractiva para él y probablemente fantasee con besarlos más de lo que crees.

Use this to your advantage. Guys love the color red. Especially on a woman’s lips. It screams passion and fierceness.

It makes you look bold, confident, and sexy AF. Try on a sexy red lipstick and see how he responds. My guess is he won’t be able to stop staring at you.

Next thing you can do is bite your lower lip (it NEVER fails to make the guy hot for you) or to subtly lick your lips. It’s always the simplest things that do the trick!

8. Juega con tu pelo

You can do so much with that hair of yours. And don’t even feel bad if it’s not that long, so what?

Aún puedes jugar seductoramente con un mechón de pelo sobre la oreja. Pero para las que tienen el pelo largo, las opciones son infinitas.

You can flip your hair to the back. You can look him in the eye as you’re placing your hair behind your ear.

You can pick a lock of your hair and play with it as you’re having a conversation with him. Put your hair in front of him and proudly display it.

The trick is to not overdo it. You don’t want the guy to think you’re some hair-obsessed gal. Pick one or two of these, tops, and use it wisely.

El pelo es una parte sexy de la mujer que a los hombres les encanta. atraído por. So you really don’t even have to try that hard. He’s probably already hooked.

9. Utilizar expresiones faciales para mostrar interés

¿Sabía que la gente hace unas 25.000 expresiones faciales al día?

La gente usa la cara para expresar sus sentimientos mucho más a menudo que la voz, así que toma nota y usa tu cara para mostrarle cómo te sientes.

You can do this very simply. At first, pay attention to what he’s talking about and nod as he’s speaking.

That will show him that he hasn’t lost you.

Entonces, puedes inclinar un poco el cuello hacia un lado, lo que deja al descubierto tu cuello (la parte del cuerpo más vulnerable) e insinúa que confías en él.

Mirroring his expressions is also a fun idea. Just carefully observe not to smile if he’s talking about something serious or actually laugh if that wasn’t his intention.

Everything in moderation. He’s going to notice that you are carefully listening and reacting accordingly, which makes you look like a desirable partner in his eyes.

10. Inclínate suavemente hacia él

Imagine you’re talking to a friend, colleague, or really anyone you normally converse with, and you notice they’ve leaned in as you’re speaking on a serious matter.

How does that make you feel? I’m guessing quite nice, as it shows you’ve got their undivided attention.

Do the exact same thing to this guy. Lean in when you want him to know you’re listening.

Si te echas hacia atrás, demuestra falta de interés, así que nunca recurras a eso.

Always lean a bit forward, as it shows him you’re interested in what he’s saying and it subconsciously makes him more atraído por ti.

11. Ponte algo que te haga parecer (y sentir) feroz

My opinion is that one should never do, say, or wear something they aren’t comfortable with. If it doesn’t make you feel good, just leave it.

Así que sé fiel a ti misma. La mejor forma de sentirte bien en su compañía es si llevas algo que te haga sentir como tú misma y completamente cómoda.

Puede ser cualquier camiseta con la que te sientas increíble y unos vaqueros pitillo.

It can be a hot little black number in which you feel like a bombshell. Or it can be something completely different. It’s up to you!

If you feel comfortable, it is much more likely that you’re going to appear relaxed and like you’re having a good time with him.

So don’t listen to your friends who keep telling you to slut it up (unless that’s what YOU want as well). Be YOU!

12. Don’t plan too much, go with the flow

I can give you all the tips on sexy body language signs in the world, but at the end of the day, it’s all up to you and him.

You really can’t know what this guy likes until you try! Some guys like it when you seductively lean in and shamelessly flirt, and others love it when you play coy.

You can’t plan these things. All you can do is read up, keep all of these useful tips in mind, and if it feels appropriate, use them!

You’ll be able to tell then and there, and not a minute sooner.

So my last tip is to simply be yourself. Don’t change your behavior excessively.

Utilízalos a tu favor, pero simplemente para acentuar y resaltar tus ya de por sí sorprendentes rasgos.

Este tipo debe amarte por quién eres. Use your body language to seduce him, but never cross any lines you’re not comfortable with.

Reflexiones finales

Seducing a man might seem like a mighty task, but it really isn’t. It is all about using what God gave you to the best of your ability.

Todos estos fabulosos consejos y consejos sobre relaciones are here simply to help you use what you’ve already got. And I’m sure you’ve got plenty!

It’s not about becoming somebody you’re not. It’s about showing yourself that you’ve got what it takes to win over any man that you want. And if it doesn’t work, know that it’s not you.

Algunos hombres simplemente están ciegos ante las cosas asombrosas que tienen delante.

Ponte algo que te haga sentir bien, maquíllate tanto (o tan poco) como desees y cálzate tus zapatillas o tacones favoritos.

When you feel the most like yourself, you’ve got the best shot to impress your desired man. And if he doesn’t like you for you – his loss!