20 sinais de alerta de que a sua mulher o está a trair
If you’re looking for signs your a mulher está a trair on you, it means that you already suspect that this might be the case because, otherwise, you wouldn’t be here in the first place.
I’m sorry to tell you that sometimes your gut speaks the truth without evidence, but still you hope that you are wrong about it (just like every guy out there).
But, today you are here because you have probably decided that it’s time to reveal the truth and get rid of all of your suspicions in order to regain your inner peace.
E fizeste o que estava certo!
Apesar de ser do sexo oposto ao vosso, considero necessário partilhar convosco o facto de que o número de mulheres que se declararam trair os seus parceiros aumentou 40 por cento desde 1990, segundo Esther Perel (psicoterapeuta, especialista em relações e Jornal de Notícias autor bestseller).
Even the most ingenious women don’t have the power of hiding their sinful actions eternally.
If their words don’t give them away, their subconscious will do it for sure!
Acho que chegou o momento em que as mulheres são iguais aos homens em todos os aspectos, o que inclui também a batota.
A verdade é que as mulheres também são muito boas a esconder pistas e sinais da sua infidelidade (ainda melhor do que a maioria dos homens) e é por isso que é tão difícil saber com certeza se ela é culpada de batota.
But, don’t worry. Even the most ingenious women (ingenious at cheating) don’t have the power of hiding their sinful actions eternally.
If their words don’t give them away, their subconscious will do it for sure!
Por isso, o que tem de fazer é prestar atenção às suas acções e procurar os sinais subtis da sua potencial infidelidade.
Don’t fret; you will not have to spend 12 hours in libraries or 6 hours surfing on the Internet in order to find everything you need.
Os 20 sinais seguintes abrangem todos os aspectos da vida dela (e mais) e, no final da leitura, terá cem por cento de certeza se a sua mulher o está a trair ou não!
20 SINAIS DE AVISO DE QUE A SUA MULHER O ESTÁ A TRAIR
1. Ela está sempre a chamar-te acidentalmente por outro nome
All this time she didn’t have problems memorizing your name, but lately she started (accidentally) calling you by another name.
If it happens once, she probably did it by mistake, but if she keeps calling you by some other dude’s name (especially in the bedroom), she might be guilty of cheating on you.
People do this because they subconsciously think about that person all the time and they can’t control when they will say the name of their secret lover in front of you.
When a Freudian slip like this occurs, they laugh it off, pretending that they did it accidentally, even though they are full aware that there’s a valid reason behind it.
2. She doesn’t post pictures of you anymore
Ela costumava publicar montes de fotografias de vocês os dois juntos no redes sociais, and now you can’t remember the last time she did it.
If she keeps posting pictures of herself (especially in semi-provocative poses), then she’s definitely not bored with social media.
A razão pela qual ela já não quer ser vista consigo em fotografias nas redes sociais pode ser porque quer parecer solteira para poder continuar a fazer coisas nas suas costas.
She also doesn’t want anyone to recognize her as a cheater (if they are not familiar with her real status) because I believe there are still some guys out there who really do mind whether she’s already in a relationship or single.
3. O telemóvel dela está sempre no silêncio
Her phone is somehow magically always on silent and she never answers her phone on time when you’re calling her.
Além disso, raramente se ouve dizer que alguém lhe está a telefonar (porque o telemóvel está no silêncio) e nota-se que she’s been texting someone a toda a hora, mesmo que não se ouça nenhuma notificação.
Obviously, she keeps her phone forever on silent because she’s afraid that you might ask her with whom she’s been texting all the time and she certainly doesn’t want to reveal her cheating nature.
She wants you to think that she’s all of a sudden antisocial and forgetful about turning on her mobile phone’s sound.
4. She no longer calls you “honey” or “babe”
You can’t remember the last time you heard her chamar-te por alguns nomes de estimação like “honey,” “babe,” “sweetheart,” or your special nickname.
She calls you specifically by your name or by some generic attention-grabber like “Hey…” or similar.
The reason why she no longer calls you by sweet names might be because she’s no longer interested in you romantically.
Ela vê-o mais como um amigo do que como um amante/namorado e é por isso que já não consegue tratá-lo por outros nomes que não os intencionalmente platónicos.
Se notar esta mudança na vossa relação, pergunte-lhe porque é que ela já não o trata por nomes específicos como antes.
If she starts stuttering when trying to answer your question, then you can be sure there’s something fishy going on.
5. She’s constantly staying late at work
Work, work, work… All of a sudden, she has so much work to do that she’s literally sleeping at her workplace.
Ficar constantemente até tarde no trabalho é uma das desculpas mais famosas para se entregar a prazeres adúlteros.
I mean, if you have to work so much, no one will tell you that you can’t because you have your supervisors and you can’t influence it.
É por isso que esta é uma desculpa perfeita quando se trata de esconder a infidelidade.
And while you think that she’s such a poor thing spending so much time slaving away, she’s probably somewhere else (way more cozy), thinking that her excuses are working like a charm.
But, pay attention to her mood when she comes back from her “job.”
Does she seem a little bit too happy for someone who is constantly staying late at work? Hmm…
she seem a little bit too happy for someone who is constantly staying late at work? Hmm…
6. She’s holding back on the sex
Este é também um dos maiores sinais de que a sua mulher está a traí-lo.
If she’s constantly complaining about the incessant headaches and shitty mood, there must be something more to it.
Perhaps she’s holding back on the sex because she’s no longer interested in having it with you.
Sei que parece duro, mas pode ser a verdade e é melhor descobrir mais cedo do que ficar na ignorância de uma potencial traição para sempre.
7. She’s drifted off
Tem ela parece distante de repente?
Acha que ela passa imenso tempo a sonhar acordada e a pensar noutra coisa em vez de estar presente no momento consigo?
E ela tem uma atitude algo agressiva quando lhe perguntamos sobre tudo isto?
Ela está distante porque a sua mente está claramente noutro lugar.
Ela pode estar a pensar na sua natureza traidora e a inventar a próxima desculpa que lhe permitirá sair do local e encontrar-se com o seu amante secreto.
And when you ask her why she’s been absent, she instantly manifests her hostile attitude because she’s afraid that you might uncover her little secret.
8. Ela mudou as suas palavras-passe
Durante todo este tempo, pode entrar em todas as contas dela sem qualquer problema e ela pode fazer o mesmo com as suas.
You trust yourself to the core and that is why you don’t have issues about sharing your passwords and everything with each other.
But, all of a sudden, you realize that she’s changed her passwords on social networks.
You can’t think of any valid reason why she would do so and it instantly comes to you that she might be hiding something from you.
E é bem possível que tenha razão.
Provavelmente, ela mudou as suas palavras-passe porque já não quer que faça parte da sua vida nas redes sociais.
Because, clearly, she’s got some secret business to do there without you knowing it.
9. She’s suddenly working too much on her looks
She has always taken good care of herself, but now she’s gone to extremes.
Suddenly, she’s spending too much time at the gym and too much money on sexy clothes, makeup, and some more clothes.
Her wardrobe and all the shelves in the house have become full of her new beauty arsenal and you’re wondering about the real reason behind it.
Ela pode ser trabalhar demasiado na sua aparência just to impress you, but if she’s constantly having her headaches when it comes to sexy time or exhibiting some of the other cheating signs, she might be doing all of this to impress someone else instead.
10. She’s protective of her phone
Her phone has become the most valuable possession to her and she simply can’t let you near it.
And she’s certainly not afraid that you’ll somehow break it, yet she’s scared that you might find out something that she doesn’t want you to.
When her phone rings or she receives a text message (if she’s forgotten to put it on silent), she instantly grabs her phone at the speed of light so that you don’t have a chance of seeing who is calling or texting her.
Um amante secreto, talvez?
11. She’s overly curious about your whereabouts
She never really paid that much attention about where you’re going, what you’re doing, and with whom, but now she’s overly curious about your whereabouts.
Ela exige saber especificamente todos os pormenores do seu plano diário e você começa a pensar como ela é encantadora.
But, she might be doing it because she doesn’t want you to intercept her amid her cheating actions and that is why she needs to know where you will be and when you will come back.
She is constantly devising perfect plans that will enable her to do whatever she wants, whenever, without you having a clue about it.
12. She’s avoiding your friends
Os teus amigos também eram amigos dela, mas agora ela anda a evitá-los.
Maybe she is desperately trying to avoid them because she’s afraid that they might know something about her or that they will ask her some tricky questions to find out more about her mysterious nature.
Also, she’s constantly too busy to hang out with you when you invite her because she got some other plans, or she has too much work to do.
But, in reality she’s probably spending time with her secret friend and thinking of her next excuse.
13. She’s avoiding certain places
Before, she wouldn’t mind where you were going to eat, as long as you were going. And she wasn’t so picky about other things either.
Mas, agora, parece evitar certos sítios sem razão aparente.
Também finge que já não gosta da comida para evitar entrar nesse local.
Talvez o amante secreto dela esteja a trabalhar lá? Ou ela esteve lá com ele muitas vezes e ele pode aparecer lá ao mesmo tempo que você?
Deve haver uma razão válida por detrás disso. É certamente bom perguntar-lhe mais sobre o assunto e insistir para que ela lho explique em pormenor.
14. She claims she’s unhappy
Many affairs start with a woman claiming that she’s unhappy in a relationship.
Many men don’t take this one too seriously because women are famous for PMS and constant overthinking about everything.
Mas, se ela está sempre a recordar-lhe o quanto é infeliz, deve haver mais qualquer coisa.
Maybe she’s trying to tell you that she’s no longer attracted to you or that the two of you are stuck in a rut and all of this makes her unhappy.
Or she’s glum because she already did something shitty behind your back and now she feels bad about it.
Whatever it is, her claiming that she’s unhappy is never a good sign in a relationship.
15. She’s ignoring you
She’s ignoring you in bed by estar constantemente a arranjar desculpasignora-o quando quer falar com ela sobre a vossa relação e ignora-o quando lhe faz determinadas perguntas sobre o seu paradeiro.
Ela sente-se imediatamente insultada por isso e culpa-o por a controlar.
But, the real reason why she is doing it is because she’s trying to avoid eye contact and any contact with you at all so that you don’t reveal her cheating nature.
And her acting insulted works like a shield for her sinful deeds, because the easiest way to ignore someone is to pretend that you’re insulted by them and they will likely soon stop questioning you.
16. Passam menos tempo juntos
Já não passam tanto tempo juntos como antes, porque ela está muito ocupada e não tem vontade de ir a lado nenhum consigo.
You’re more like friends than husband and wife and it is seen in every aspect of your together life.
There are no more cuddling sessions in front of the TV, you no longer go out for a drink, and you don’t do fun things together.
A única coisa que fazem é dormir um ao lado do outro sem ter relações sexuais por causa das constantes dores de cabeça e mudanças de humor dela.
You see, if you no longer spend quality time together because she’s sabotaging it, then you can be sure she’s doing it because of other selfish reasons of hers.
Ela pode estar a passar o seu tempo livre com outra pessoa enquanto continua a vender-lhe desculpas.
17. De repente, ela insiste em fazer viagens sozinha (em vez de ir consigo como antes)
Já não vão juntos às compras, a um passeio ou a qualquer outro sítio onde costumavam ir juntos.
Agora insiste em fazer viagens a solo para todo o lado, dizendo-lhe que precisa de algum tempo sozinho para si própria.
But, deep down in your soul, you know that this isn’t true.
She’s doing it because it is a perfect opportunity for her to visit her secret lover too and spend some time with him while telling you that she was in the middle of rush hour and she couldn’t make it earlier.
If you suspect that she’s doing all of this just because she’s driven by other selfish motives, you might want to ask her a little bit more about it.
But, remember not to be pushy. Just play it cool and smart, and I’m sure that her sinful nature will be revealed sooner than you think.
18. Ela traz novos movimentos para o quarto
De repente, ela insiste em tentar novas posições consigo e traz alguns movimentos novos para o quarto.
She’s no longer the same wife that you used to make love with.
She’s become wilder and her moves make you question where she has learned them.
Well, maybe her secret lover has taught her and now she’s trying to implement it in your bedroom, too.
E se ela acidentalmente gritar o nome dele enquanto faz sexo consigo, aí tem!
Then you can be sure that she’s changed because of someone else and not because of you or because she’s googled new hot positions day and night.
19. Passa demasiado tempo ao telemóvel/computador
If you’ve noticed that she spends too much time on her phone or computer telling you that she’s doing things for work (even though she is already spending too much time at her workplace), you can be sure that she’s lying.
She’s probably spending her time on social apps texting with other guys out there and waiting for the perfect time to meet with them.
20. Parece nervosa e pouco à vontade quando lhe faz perguntas
Além disso, um dos maiores sinais de que a sua mulher está enganar-vos é ela estar nervosa e desconfortável quando lhe fazem perguntas.
If you ask her about her late arrival home and she stutters while trying hard to find the perfect excuse, then you can be sure she’s playing dirty and trying to hide it from you.
E se continuar a insistir com ela para que lhe conte mais sobre o assunto, ela vai parecer cada vez mais confusa até rebentar, culpando-o de ser um marido demasiado controlador.
If she does this, don’t let her blame you for something that is her fault.
Não se esqueça de que, se tiver de lhe fazer constantemente perguntas e duvidar das suas acções, é porque há algo de muito errado com ela, e não consigo.
Se ela continuar a ignorar a verdade, pode fazer-lhe um ultimato e ver se ela admite o crime ou se o mantém em segredo.
IN CASE YOU’VE JUST REALIZED THAT YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING ON YOU…
In case that you’ve concluded your wife is definitely cheating on you, do not freak out or do some unnecessary actions that you might regret later.
Por muito estúpido que pareça, tente manter-se calmo e ver o lado positivo da situação. Além disso, prepare-se para recuperação de casos.
Se a sua mulher o está a trair, é melhor descobri-lo agora do que nunca, onde continua a viver a sua vida na ignorância e na falsa felicidade.
The rage and disappointment that you’re feeling now will disappear with time and, eventually, everything will fall into place and you’ll be truly happy as you deserve.
A melhor coisa a fazer é pôr a cabeça em ordem e tentar falar com ela sobre o assunto.
Ask her about her recent behavior and to tell you honestly if she’s been hiding something from you.
E se ela confirmar as suas suspeitas, tente não fazer nenhuma estupidez e tornar as coisas ainda piores do que já estão.
Lembre-se que mereces ser felizO que é que está em causa é a sua oportunidade de limpar a sua vida de toda a negatividade e começar a escrever um capítulo novo e mais saudável, em vez de perder tempo com o antigo que já não merece o seu tempo.
