5 Manipulações sorrateiras que os homens usam para seduzir qualquer rapariga

Os homens podem ser divididos em dois grupos. No primeiro, há os homens que são genuinamente simpáticos. São gentis e compassivos. Preocupam-se com as suas mulheres e fazem um esforço extra para as fazer felizes.

Unfortunately, there aren’t a lot of them left but they are not a myth—they truly exist. It’s just that you have to be crazy lucky to stumble upon one. But, even if you do, you won’t buy his niceness crap because all you’ve seen so far are manipulative and self-centered bastards, so you trust no one.

And that is the answer to the question: “Where are they all hiding?” They are not. You just can’t recognize them in the sea of sneaky bastards.

The second group of men is the one you encounter regularly—the perfect textbook examples of douchebags. Now, I won’t question their existence in this world because as there has to be good and evil in this world, so do there have to be douchebags and good guys to set the balance.

To truly look at things objectively, there are women who are looking for the same thing as these men—occasional hookups, casual relationships, late night booty calls.

They are matches made in heaven, so, why don’t they stick together? There wouldn’t be any broken hearts or crazy rage outbursts.

But, no…that would be too easy. The problem presents itself when these men run into women who are looking for something serious, for a commitment.

That’s when their sneakiness comes to light. I will never understand why they have to meddle with nice girls who just want to love someone and to be loved when there are plenty of women who are looking for the same things as they are.

That is just not cool. It’s not fine to mess with someone else’s feelings when you know you don’t want to settle down. But sadly, that happens every day—and to most of the women in this heartless dating world.

To prevent this from happening to you, let’s take a sneak peek into these men’s brains to see through their manipulations and techniques on ‘how to seduce a girl’ and take advantage of her:

Escondem a sua intenção de o seduzir

This is one of the most common manipulations men will try on women. They will pretend they are not interested in you, so you put your guard down and then when you least expect it, they come after you like you’re their prey.

Nas suas mentes distorcidas, pensam que o que uma mulher não consegue detetar, não pode rejeitar.

It can’t get more sexist and disgusting than that, but somehow they usually get away with it—only because they are perfect manipulative bastards with no sense of compassion whatsoever.

Or they act as if they’re interested in you

Fingem que estão interessados em algo mais sério. Levam-no a jantares de luxo, a encontros e até se oferecem para pagar tudo. Isto é uma armadilha.

Their goal is to make you feel safe and comfortable in their presence. They want you to trust them. But the catch is that they won’t tell you they like you—they will just fake their actions and fool you into thinking they like you.

O próximo passo é cortar-lhe o contacto por completo. Deixará de responder às suas chamadas e cessará qualquer contacto consigo. Isto vai ser uma surpresa para si, porque pensava que ele estava realmente interessado em si.

Mas isto ainda não acabou. Depois, voltam a contactá-lo e dizem-lhe que só querem ser amigos. Esta é uma manipulação clássica que funciona sempre para eles.

You get lost and you wonder why he doesn’t want anything with you because you had such a nice time together and you go after him—which was his plan all along.

Dir-te-ão que te amam

After you’ve had a few dates, they will be ready for something more. You are too, but you are still unsure of him. You are still questioning his intentions and whether he is the one you want to do it with.

Bem, eles também têm uma solução para esse tipo de situação.

Eles preparam algo especial para si. Querem arrebatar-te. Então, ele leva-a a jantar e depois voltam para casa dele. Toda a ação está prestes a acontecer.

There will be a bit of foreplay, but as soon as he goes for the prize, you’ll probably stop him. And that’s when he will use the three-word weapon because he knows you need to hear that in order for him to get what he wants.

They will ‘be there for you’

Fingem que te protegem, aconteça o que acontecer. Enganam-no para que pense que pode partilhar tudo com ele. Fingir interesse é uma das coisas em que são melhores.

They will put on the mask of a sympathetic friend who is listening to his friend’s problems, preferably relationship problems.

Enquanto lhes derramas a tua alma e o teu coração, eles manipulam cuidadosamente o seu caminho até à tua mente. Absorvem cada palavra que dizes e mostram-te um apoio ilimitado.

You’ll probably fall for that trick because you’ve put your guard down and you’re going to fall into his trap.

São misteriosos

They will put on this mysterious mask because they know you won’t be able to resist them. They will never tell you everything about themselves because they want you to keep coming back for more.

If they told you everything on your first date, they probably wouldn’t be that interesting anymore.

Esta é a sua forma de entrar na nossa cabeça. É a forma que têm de o fazer pensar mais neles. Falam sempre de forma ambígua para o deixar a pensar no que é que estão realmente a pensar.

This is how they are going to manipulate you into being with them. And all you’re going to be left with is a broken heart.