5 subdole manipolazioni che gli uomini usano per sedurre qualsiasi ragazza

Gli uomini possono essere divisi in due gruppi. Nel primo, ci sono i ragazzi che sono genuinamente gentili. Sono gentili e compassionevoli. Si preoccupano delle loro donne e fanno di tutto per renderle felici.

Unfortunately, there aren’t a lot of them left but they are not a myth—they truly exist. It’s just that you have to be crazy lucky to stumble upon one. But, even if you do, you won’t buy his niceness crap because all you’ve seen so far are manipulative and self-centered bastards, so you trust no one.

And that is the answer to the question: “Where are they all hiding?” They are not. You just can’t recognize them in the sea of sneaky bastards.

The second group of men is the one you encounter regularly—the perfect textbook examples of douchebags. Now, I won’t question their existence in this world because as there has to be good and evil in this world, so do there have to be douchebags and good guys to set the balance.

To truly look at things objectively, there are women who are looking for the same thing as these men—occasional hookups, casual relationships, late night booty calls.

They are matches made in heaven, so, why don’t they stick together? There wouldn’t be any broken hearts or crazy rage outbursts.

But, no…that would be too easy. The problem presents itself when these men run into women who are looking for something serious, for a commitment.

That’s when their sneakiness comes to light. I will never understand why they have to meddle with nice girls who just want to love someone and to be loved when there are plenty of women who are looking for the same things as they are.

That is just not cool. It’s not fine to mess with someone else’s feelings when you know you don’t want to settle down. But sadly, that happens every day—and to most of the women in this heartless dating world.

To prevent this from happening to you, let’s take a sneak peek into these men’s brains to see through their manipulations and techniques on ‘how to seduce a girl’ and take advantage of her:

Nascondono la loro intenzione di sedurvi

This is one of the most common manipulations men will try on women. They will pretend they are not interested in you, so you put your guard down and then when you least expect it, they come after you like you’re their prey.

Nelle loro menti contorte, pensano che ciò che una donna non può rilevare, non può rifiutare.

It can’t get more sexist and disgusting than that, but somehow they usually get away with it—only because they are perfect manipulative bastards with no sense of compassion whatsoever.

Or they act as if they’re interested in you

Fingono di essere interessati a qualcosa di più serio. Vi porteranno a cene eleganti, appuntamenti e si offriranno di pagare tutto. Questa è una trappola.

Their goal is to make you feel safe and comfortable in their presence. They want you to trust them. But the catch is that they won’t tell you they like you—they will just fake their actions and fool you into thinking they like you.

La loro prossima mossa sarà quella di tagliarvi fuori completamente. Smetterà di rispondere alle vostre chiamate e cesserà ogni contatto con voi. Questo vi sorprenderà perché pensavate che lui fosse davvero interessato a voi.

Ma non è ancora finita. Si metteranno di nuovo in contatto con voi e vi diranno che vogliono solo essere amici. Si tratta di una classica manipolazione che funziona sempre.

You get lost and you wonder why he doesn’t want anything with you because you had such a nice time together and you go after him—which was his plan all along.

Vi diranno che vi amano

After you’ve had a few dates, they will be ready for something more. You are too, but you are still unsure of him. You are still questioning his intentions and whether he is the one you want to do it with.

Ebbene, hanno una soluzione anche per questo tipo di situazione.

Prepareranno qualcosa di speciale per voi. Vogliono farvi perdere la testa. Quindi, vi porta a cena e poi tornate a casa sua. Tutta l'azione sta per accadere.

There will be a bit of foreplay, but as soon as he goes for the prize, you’ll probably stop him. And that’s when he will use the three-word weapon because he knows you need to hear that in order for him to get what he wants.

They will ‘be there for you’

Fanno finta di coprirvi le spalle a prescindere da tutto. Vi inganneranno facendovi credere che potete condividere tutto con loro. Fingere interesse è una delle cose che sanno fare meglio.

They will put on the mask of a sympathetic friend who is listening to his friend’s problems, preferably relationship problems.

Mentre voi gli state rivelando la vostra anima e il vostro cuore, loro manipolano con cura la loro strada nella vostra mente. Assorbono ogni parola che pronunciate e vi mostrano un sostegno illimitato.

You’ll probably fall for that trick because you’ve put your guard down and you’re going to fall into his trap.

Sono misteriosi

They will put on this mysterious mask because they know you won’t be able to resist them. They will never tell you everything about themselves because they want you to keep coming back for more.

If they told you everything on your first date, they probably wouldn’t be that interesting anymore.

Questo è il loro modo di entrare nella vostra testa. È il loro modo di farvi pensare di più a loro. Parlano sempre in modo ambiguo per lasciarvi il dubbio su cosa stiano realmente pensando.

This is how they are going to manipulate you into being with them. And all you’re going to be left with is a broken heart.