5 mensagens de Natal que receberás se ele tiver saudades tuas

Text messaging isn’t exactly the way to go when you want to express your feelings. How many times has it happened to you that you’ve received a text and you had no idea whether to be angry, insulted or to laugh?

It just isn’t the same as when you say something to someone in person. You can’t hear the tone of what they are trying to say, so you end up reading between the lines even though there is nothing to read.

Sometimes you look for hidden meanings where there are no hidden meanings and the other way around. But this intensifies even more around the holidays. You know you’re going to get a text, but you don’t know in what manner.

Então, como é que se pode interpretar o que um homem está a tentar dizer-nos sem cometer um erro?

Is he just wishing you a Merry Christmas like a friend or does his text have an agenda? Maybe he is trying to tell you that he misses you and wants to spend the holidays with you, and you just don’t see it.

The bottom line is, texting is so unpredictable, and you, as we all do, need a guide to help you crack the real meaning behind the text you’ve received.

Leia com atenção os seguintes textos natalícios que significam, sem dúvida, que ele é verdadeiramente sente a sua falta:

“You know, I was just at your favorite bar. There was mistletoe everywhere!”

First of all, he remembered what your favorite bar is, which means he listened to you, and second of all, this sentence doesn’t have to do anything with him liking the bar you like.

Ele só quer meter conversa e fazer-te saber que tem saudades tuas. Se lhe perguntares, não há nada que ele gostasse mais do que levar-te lá e beijar-te debaixo do azevinho.

“I just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas.”

Aqui está, a mensagem de texto mais ambígua que se pode receber durante as férias. Porque tanto as pessoas que gostam de si como people who don’t like you enviar-vos-á esta mensagem. Como é que pode saber quem é quem?

Bem, um rapaz que gosta de si hesitará em enviar-lhe a mensagem, pelo que provavelmente se atrasará um pouco a carregar no botão de envio. Por isso, a mensagem que receber mais tarde é provavelmente a que mais tarde será enviada.

Also, you know in your gut that there is something going on between the two of you. Especially, if you know he would never send you something like that or if he doesn’t care that much about Christmas.

Then you can be sure, he likes you and truly misses you, and that’s the reason he sent you this text.

“I’ve heard your ex is going to spend the holidays at home as well.”

Okay, this is not small talk. This is an ‘I miss you and want you back’ alert. You can get the hint of jealousy out of this text, right?

Well, you’re absolutely right. He is jealous, and he’s scared he’ll lose you to your ex since, you know, it’s Christmas. You may well bump into each other at a party just happening to stand beneath the mistletoe and the old flame comes bursting back.

É este o cenário que se passa na cabeça dele neste momento e, acredita, ele está cheio de medo. Sabes, ele gosta mesmo de ti e quer que voltes o mais depressa possível.

“Feeling really lucky I met you this year”

O Natal é uma época de amor e de caridade. Queremos passá-lo com as pessoas de quem gostamos. Não apenas com a família, mas também com as pessoas que nos são próximas de uma forma diferente.

So if you get a text like this from someone special read: “I miss you!” because that is what it is really about. He didn’t suddenly realize that he’s glad you’re in his life.

He’s known that for a long time, and now that you’re not around, he wants you to know that. That and that’s he’s hopelessly in love with you and doesn’t want to spend another minute without you in his life.

“We should totally spend next Christmas together.”

This is an ‘I miss you’ alert and not only that! He’s saying he misses you, but he also has already made plans for the future.

This guy is so serious about you, and he really wants to be with you. He’s even probably your forever person. He’s already suggesting what you should do next year.

Só os casais que têm a certeza de que vão estar juntos daqui a um ano é que vão fazer esse tipo de planos. E, pelo que parece, ele parece mais do que pronto.

Give yourself the best Christmas present ever and let the man who sent texts like these into your heart. You’re not going to be sorry.