5 razões para deixar de lado um homem que não tem a certeza sobre si
Mesmo que ele seja o homem mais giro que já viste, nunca deixes que ele ou qualquer outra pessoa te tomem por garantida.
A vida é realmente curta e passá-la com alguém que tem de pensar duas vezes para estar consigo é simplesmente uma loucura.
Maybe you don’t think of it that way, maybe you think he’ll change in time, that he just needs time to set his priorities and get his life in order but what you don’t take into account is that time flies by much faster than you think and with just the snap of your fingers, you’ll find yourself crying over a life wasted on a man who never gave all of him.
Diga adeus aos sentimentos contraditórios na sua relação, simplesmente porque você, minha querida, merece muito mais do que isso.
I know that getting rid of a person who meant something to you is not an easy thing to do but when you look at everything you might miss out on because you’re wasting time with a man who doesn’t deserve you, it’s better to end it now.
Eis as razões pelas quais tem de o deixar ir porque ele está um pouco inseguro em relação a si:
He wants to break up but doesn’t have the courage
Tens de fazer o trabalho sujo por ele.
You have no other choice if you want to get out of that relationship while you’re still pretty normal and pretty sane.
His feelings for you have probably changed but he doesn’t have the courage to admit it, so he strings you along.
Or the other possible reason why he hasn’t broken up with you is that he needs you.
Todos nós temos momentos em que nos sentimos vulneráveis, necessitados e sozinhos.
Nesses momentos, procuramos companhia ou a coisa mais próxima que temos do amor para nos confortar.
That’s what he does. He chooses to go to you because he doesn’t want to be alone.
In those moments, you’re more than enough for what he needs. He goes back to you, you take him in and you connect.
But what happens when he’s in a period of feeling strong and secure? In those moments, he becomes unsure about you once again.
Ele questiona se é a pessoa certa para ele.
This is why you should walk away from that relationship. If you stay, you’ll continue living through periods of happiness followed by periods of pain.
Quer mesmo que a sua felicidade dependa do estado emocional em que ele se encontra?
O que é que acontece quando ele ganha coragem?
It’s simple.
You get your heart broken and he walks away from your relationship without a single worry on his mind because he’s been feeling like doing this for a long time and now he has finally done it.
If only you were quicker… it wouldn’t cost you the tears and the broken heart. Think about it.
Why would you wait to get dumped in the vain hope of him coming around? You’re risking your life from that point on.
The fact of who dumped who has everything to do with this case. Don’t be stupid by taking the bullet which you weren’t supposed to take.
Há outros homens por aí
Why waste your life on someone who sometimes loves you and sometimes doesn’t?
By staying with a man who is unsure about you, you’re unconsciously depriving yourself of meeting a man who’ll be all in when it comes to you.
He won’t have moments of doubt, he’ll never question your love for him or his love for you.
Even when he’s with you, you’re not getting all of his attention
Um homem que não tem a certeza sobre si não está na relação até ao fim.
Ele nunca está totalmente presente, nem investe qualquer capacidade para construir o que temos para sermos melhores e mais fortes.
There are things that people do for each other because of love, things that they don’t feel like doing but they do anyway just to make that person happy.
The man you’re dating won’t sacrifice his time, nor will he put more effort into doing something he doesn’t feel like doing, even if it means you’re going to enjoy his gesture.
He doesn’t care enough for you to go the extra mile.
A man who isn’t sure about you will always keep you at arm’s length. He will hold back his feelings and he will never fully open up to you.
O pior é que pensamos que está tudo bem.
Pensamos que é assim que uma relação deve ser.
It’s like you’re used to getting so little because no one showed you how much you’re supposed to get.
When you think about this situation from an objective point of view, you’ll realize that his behavior is not fair.
He’s taking advantage of youO vosso tempo e o vosso amor.
As relações já são suficientemente difíceis, mesmo com a pessoa certa
Mesmo que encontre a pessoa certa, essa relação também precisa de ser trabalhada.
It’s not so easy to include someone in your life even if they are the person you’ve been waiting for.
São necessários muitos compromissos e esforços para que as coisas funcionem.
The harder you try, the happier you’ll be.
Relationships are pointless if you’re not trying to be everything your person needs. Being just enough won’t cut it.
Trying hard and becoming just enough will drain you and you’ll get to the point where you won’t be able to keep up anymore.
Haverá sempre uma altura em que o seu homem estará numa fase estranha da sua vida.
He will always be unsure about something because he isn’t in the right place or he is dealing with something that is too much to handle.
But you know what? Those are his problems and if he’s the one who has to deal with them, it’s only fair for him to let you go.
You are not put on this earth to entertain someone. You won’t give your love and your energy to someone who doesn’t appreciate either and uses you instead.
The time has come for you to ask yourself: “And what about me?”
