5 sinais de que ele é um menino da mamãe emocionalmente imaturo
A confiança e o respeito mútuos são essenciais para o sucesso de qualquer relação. Se não tiver as bases para isso, considere a sua relação condenada.
O que ouço cada vez mais de jovens mulheres de todo o mundo é que estão a tropeçar na imaturidade, mama’s boys.
At first, these men are so fun to be around. They are very relaxed, nice, easy going, lovable…everything. But they lack one important thing—maturity.
If you want a serious relationship you don’t need a boy by your side. You need a man.
You need someone to communicate your problems to and not someone who will sweep them under the rug. Usually, they all swear and pretend they are like that, but later they live up to their ‘mama’s boy’ name.
Emotionally immature men affect the health of your relationship. They are like a weed in the rosebush—it needs to be plucked out.
Se está farto de fazer tudo sozinho, então está melhor sozinho do que numa relação em que tem de tomar conta de alguém.
He doesn’t know how to behave
In some situations, he acts inappropriately. He may even embarrass you. He doesn’t get that certain behavior is not appropriate. He actually acts like a kid.
It’s the same when you have to keep reminding your child what’s wrong and what’s right. It’s the same with homens emocionalmente imaturos.
He’s selfish
He always puts his needs first. It’s ok to love and respect yourself, as long as that doesn’t become narcissism. He is a bit more on the narcissistic side than on the self-caring side.
You really can’t count on him to help you, even if his ass is at stake, too.
He can’t commit
He’s still at the party stage and he will always be. He cannot settle down or commit to anybody because he’s emotionally unavailable.
Ele nunca fará um acordo 100% com ninguém, nem mesmo consigo, porque sabe que pode surgir algo mais divertido e interessante.
He doesn’t talk about his feelings
He’s always cracking jokes and he can never talk about anything serious.
Even if you tell him to stop, that it’s not the time for joking, he will make fun of the whole situation somehow, just to avoid getting into a deep serious conversation. It’s very immature of him to ignore your feelings or even his own.
Quando as coisas ficam difíceis, ele afasta-se
Em situações de stress, vira-lhe as costas. Devido à sua imaturidade, não é um parceiro igual a si.
He doesn’t take things seriously, or he pretends just not to care. Maybe it’s his way of dealing with difficulties—but it’s a wrong way.
Não é suposto ser a pessoa que tem tudo sob o seu controlo. Esse tipo de relações vai esgotar-nos.
Relationships are supposed to be about partnership and about making each other into the better versions of yourselves—not about picking up the crumbs of what is supposed to be the real deal behind someone.
