5 segni che è un mammone emotivamente immaturo

La fiducia e il rispetto reciproci sono essenziali per il successo di ogni relazione. Se non ci sono i presupposti per farlo, la vostra relazione è condannata.

Quello che sento dire sempre più spesso dalle giovani donne di tutto il mondo è che si imbattono in un'immaturità, mama’s boys.

At first, these men are so fun to be around. They are very relaxed, nice, easy going, lovable…everything. But they lack one important thing—maturity.

If you want a serious relationship you don’t need a boy by your side. You need a man.

You need someone to communicate your problems to and not someone who will sweep them under the rug. Usually, they all swear and pretend they are like that, but later they live up to their ‘mama’s boy’ name.

Emotionally immature men affect the health of your relationship. They are like a weed in the rosebush—it needs to be plucked out.

Se siete stanchi di fare tutto da soli, allora state meglio da soli che in una relazione in cui dovete fare da babysitter a qualcuno.

He doesn’t know how to behave

In some situations, he acts inappropriately. He may even embarrass you. He doesn’t get that certain behavior is not appropriate. He actually acts like a kid.

It’s the same when you have to keep reminding your child what’s wrong and what’s right. It’s the same with uomini emotivamente immaturi.

He’s selfish

He always puts his needs first. It’s ok to love and respect yourself, as long as that doesn’t become narcissism. He is a bit more on the narcissistic side than on the self-caring side.

You really can’t count on him to help you, even if his ass is at stake, too.

He can’t commit

He’s still at the party stage and he will always be. He cannot settle down or commit to anybody because he’s emotionally unavailable.

Non farà mai un accordo 100% con nessuno, nemmeno con voi, perché sa che potrebbe arrivare qualcosa di più divertente e interessante.

He doesn’t talk about his feelings

He’s always cracking jokes and he can never talk about anything serious.

Even if you tell him to stop, that it’s not the time for joking, he will make fun of the whole situation somehow, just to avoid getting into a deep serious conversation. It’s very immature of him to ignore your feelings or even his own.

Quando le cose si fanno difficili, si tira indietro

In situazioni di stress, vi volterà le spalle. A causa della sua immaturità, non è un partner alla pari con voi.

He doesn’t take things seriously, or he pretends just not to care. Maybe it’s his way of dealing with difficulties—but it’s a wrong way.

Non si suppone che tu sia quella che ha tutto sotto controllo. Questo tipo di relazioni vi prosciugherà.

Relationships are supposed to be about partnership and about making each other into the better versions of yourselves—not about picking up the crumbs of what is supposed to be the real deal behind someone.