5 Sinais que ele dá que mostram que ele quer ficar casual
Como saber o que ele quer de si? Será que ele quer que sejas a namorada dele ou ele gosta que as coisas fiquem como estão?
A vossa relação tem futuro ou ele considera que não passa de uma aventura casual e sem sentido? Estão a caminhar na mesma direção?
Be honest – how many times have these and similar questions been bothering you?
Bem, aqui tem 5 dicas infalíveis sinais de que um homem planeia manter as coisas casuais and that it’s time for you to walk away from him, if you strive for something more out of this relationship.
He’s not interested in your life
The first sign that a guy doesn’t want anything serious with you is the fact that he isn’t concerned about any aspect of your life.
This man doesn’t show any interest in your daily activities, job, hobbies, likes, and dislikes.
He doesn’t even think of meeting your friends and family.
He obviously doesn’t see you as a person worthy of his attention and he doesn’t put an effort into being your friend besides your lover.
Nem vos inclui na sua
O mesmo se passa com a vida dele: simplesmente nunca te fez parte dela.
E, se pensarmos bem, não sabemos nada sobre esse homem que dorme ao nosso lado.
At first, you assumed that he might be an introvert who doesn’t let anyone in, but later on, you saw that this guy has no intention of revealing any personal details about himself.
If this is the case, I hate to be the one to tell you that he clearly doesn’t want your lives intertwining because that would make it harder for him to leave once he decides to do so.
Besides, he doesn’t have the need to form any deeper bond with you and that is why he doesn’t share much of his personal information.
Ele nunca fala sobre o futuro
You’re nowhere to be found in this man’s future and he never uses the plural “we” when talking about it.
It’s not that he just doesn’t talk about marriage and other things related to your relationship, he doesn’t include you in his short or long term plans either.
When you’re with a guy like this, you can’t help but notice that he doesn’t see your relationship as something that might last.
Instead, he sees it as a short term fling, nothing more, because he obviously doesn’t plan on you sticking around for much longer.
Ele só está interessado em sexo
O maior sinal de alerta de que um homem quer manter as coisas casuais é a forma como ele a trata como se fosse apenas uma booty call.
Yes, we are all interested in having sex with the person we are attracted to and having a man we like being all over us all the time is a compliment, but if this is all that he’s doing, it’s time to question this relationship.
This guy is always too busy to spend time with you except when you’re inviting him over.
Ele está sempre com vontade de fazer sexo, mas está sempre demasiado cansado para a ouvir ou para sair consigo.
Além disso, depois de terminarem a ação no quarto, ele nunca a convida para dormir em casa dele e nunca passa a noite ao seu lado.
De repente, o seu humor muda, pois conseguiu o que queria.
He isn’t consistent
Another undeniable sign that he doesn’t want anything serious is the fact that you never know where you stand with this man.
He isn’t consistent nor clear about his feelings, and whenever you try talking things through, he avoids the conversation.
Mesmo assim ele recusa-se a rotular as coisashá alturas em que ele age como o melhor namorado de sempre.
Times when you’re certain of his love and when you get your hopes up that you two will take your relationship to the next level.
Then he suddenly disappears, making it clear that he doesn’t owe you an explanation about what he’s doing or who he’s spending his time with.
Times when he disappoints you all over again and makes sure you realize that you’re not as special to him as you might think.
