5 señales que él da y que demuestran que quiere seguir casado
¿Cómo saber lo que quiere de ti? ¿Tiene quiere que seas su novia ¿o le gusta que las cosas sigan como están?
¿Vuestra relación tiene futuro o él no la considera más que una aventura casual y sin sentido? ¿Vais en la misma dirección?
Be honest – how many times have these and similar questions been bothering you?
Pues aquí tienes 5 infalibles señales de que un chico planea mantener las cosas casuales and that it’s time for you to walk away from him, if you strive for something more out of this relationship.
He’s not interested in your life
The first sign that a guy doesn’t want anything serious with you is the fact that he isn’t concerned about any aspect of your life.
This man doesn’t show any interest in your daily activities, job, hobbies, likes, and dislikes.
He doesn’t even think of meeting your friends and family.
He obviously doesn’t see you as a person worthy of his attention and he doesn’t put an effort into being your friend besides your lover.
Ni te incluye en su
Lo mismo ocurre con su vida: simplemente nunca te ha hecho partícipe de ella.
Y cuando te pones a pensarlo, no sabes nada de ese hombre que duerme a tu lado.
At first, you assumed that he might be an introvert who doesn’t let anyone in, but later on, you saw that this guy has no intention of revealing any personal details about himself.
If this is the case, I hate to be the one to tell you that he clearly doesn’t want your lives intertwining because that would make it harder for him to leave once he decides to do so.
Besides, he doesn’t have the need to form any deeper bond with you and that is why he doesn’t share much of his personal information.
Nunca habla del futuro
You’re nowhere to be found in this man’s future and he never uses the plural “we” when talking about it.
It’s not that he just doesn’t talk about marriage and other things related to your relationship, he doesn’t include you in his short or long term plans either.
When you’re with a guy like this, you can’t help but notice that he doesn’t see your relationship as something that might last.
Instead, he sees it as a short term fling, nothing more, because he obviously doesn’t plan on you sticking around for much longer.
Sólo le interesa el sexo
La mayor señal de que un chico quiere mantener las cosas casuales es la forma en que te trata como si no fueras más que una prostituta.
Yes, we are all interested in having sex with the person we are attracted to and having a man we like being all over us all the time is a compliment, but if this is all that he’s doing, it’s time to question this relationship.
This guy is always too busy to spend time with you except when you’re inviting him over.
Siempre tiene ganas de sexo, pero siempre está demasiado cansado para escucharte o para salir contigo.
Además, después de que los dos hayáis terminado con la acción del dormitorio, nunca te pide que te quedes a dormir en su casa y nunca pasa la noche a tu lado.
De repente, su humor cambia, ya que ha conseguido lo que quería.
He isn’t consistent
Another undeniable sign that he doesn’t want anything serious is the fact that you never know where you stand with this man.
He isn’t consistent nor clear about his feelings, and whenever you try talking things through, he avoids the conversation.
Aunque se niega a etiquetar las cosas...hay veces que actúa como el mejor novio del mundo.
Times when you’re certain of his love and when you get your hopes up that you two will take your relationship to the next level.
Then he suddenly disappears, making it clear that he doesn’t owe you an explanation about what he’s doing or who he’s spending his time with.
Times when he disappoints you all over again and makes sure you realize that you’re not as special to him as you might think.
