7 coisas más que ele fará depois de uma separação
Quando um rapaz está a passar por uma separação, no início vai estar bem, mas depois é provável que fique um pouco, digamos, fora de pista. Ele fará coisas para a fazer sentir ciúmes ou para que sinta saudades dele e o queira de volta.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that he really wants you back, but it’s just in his nature to do these kinds of things.
Estas são as 7 coisas mais maldosas que o teu ex vai fazer depois de acabares com ele:
1. Atividade nas redes sociais
He will become more active on every social media platform you’re using too. He will post pictures of him in clubs with other girls or ones of him traveling somewhere – everything in order to show that he is doing great after you and that he is enjoying life better than when he was with you.
Also, there will be some heartbreaking quotes posted, clearly addressed to you. But you won’t worry about it, as you’re better than that.
2. Bondade
Ele será extremamente gentil e amigável com os outros, especialmente com os vossos amigos em comum. Se ele vir algum deles na rua, será recebido com um grande sorriso e um convite para uma bebida.
He will talk again about how good he is feeling and how fun his life is now, in case you hadn’t seen that on Facebook and your friends can now tell you that.
3. Falar mal
He will want everyone to know his side of the story as well. “It was not my fault, I took a lot of shit too.”
4. Enviar-lhe mensagens
Por vezes, envia-lhe uma mensagem irrelevante, provavelmente com o único objetivo de a irritar e de a enlouquecer.
Ver também: Why Do You Keep Texting Me If You’re Not Into Me?
5. Evitar-te em público
When he sees you in public, he will try to avoid talking to you or avoid you completely. Even worse, he will walk right next to you but won’t even say, “Hi.”
Isto só prova que ele nunca foi homem suficiente, nem mesmo quando vocês estavam juntos.
6. Encontrar uma nova namorada
There is nothing wrong with moving on and finding someone new quickly but he will force himself to do so, and when he does, he’ll be sure that you’re the first one to know.
It will feed his ego knowing that you’re aware of his new girlfriend and that you’re aware of how awesome his life now is. Of course, you’ll handle that like a real lady and congratulate him, not giving him anything to feed his ego.
7. Tentar recuperar-te
At the end of the day, he will realize what he lost and will try to get you back. He will send you messages, he will promise that he’s changed and that you should give him another chance. But you’ll be smarter than that.
You’ll know that a guy like that never changes and that you’re perfectly fine on your own by now, or have found someone who is finally worthy of you. It’s a win-win situation for you anyways.
Ver também: Coisas que os homens fazem depois de uma separação
