7 coisas que aqueles que estão a lutar para encontrar o amor devem saber
You’ve been searching for love for some time now and started thinking that maybe it’s time to give up. You’ve resolved that some people are destined to stay single forever – and you’re one of them.
Wrong. You won’t find love if you merely give up. Every person has a soulmate and you are no exception.
A sua alma gémea está algures por aí, também ela pronta para o conhecer e pacientemente à espera.
Talvez todas as suas relações falhadas deixou-te com tantas inseguranças e fez-te pensar que não és amável.
Perhaps think it’s time to accept that you don’t deserve to be loved.
Errado de novo. Exatamente o contrário. Deus enviou-te essas pessoas para te fazer compreender que nem todos merecem o teu amor.
Ele queria mostrar-te como o amor verdadeiro nunca deve ser. Que, aconteça o que acontecer, tens de te apreciar a ti próprio e não deixar que os outros te tratem menos do que mereces.
Nunca perca a esperança ou desista do amor. Todos nós temos caminhos diferentes na vida, mas todos eles nos levam às nossas almas gémeas. Só tens de ser paciente e confiar no universo.
Aqui estão algumas coisas a que deve prestar atenção qualquer pessoa que esteja a lutar para encontrar o amor há já algum tempo.
1. O amor está dentro de ti
You shouldn’t be trying so hard to find love, because love is already there. Love is within you.
You need to love yourself first, then you’ll be ready to love another person.
Fall in love with yourself so you can enjoy your own company. Fall in love with yourself because you are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life, so it’s your duty to make that time wonderful.
When you learn to love yourself properly, you won’t let anyone else love you less than that.
Conhecerás o teu valor e não deixarás que os outros te façam sentir menos do que a joia inestimável que és.
Without sufficient self-love, you’ll never be capable of truly loving someone else. O amor-próprio é o maior amor de todos.
2. Confia no tempo da tua vida
Don’t rush anything. You should know that your soulmate is somewhere waiting for you too. They can’t wait to meet you because you’ll be everything they’ve been looking for.
You don’t need to search for your soulmate. Believe in fate – it’ll do the work for you.
Destiny will always find its way to bring soulmates together. It’s her job!
Maybe her timing isn’t always on your clock, but when you finally meet your soulmate, you’ll see that it was worth waiting for.
3. Deus está sempre do teu lado
Always trust in God’s plan because He has good reasons for all of His actions. Sometimes we can’t understand it, but trust me, God is always doing what’s the best for you.
Ele pode retirar alguém da sua vida porque essa pessoa era errada para si, ou porque alguém melhor ainda está para vir.
Sometimes, He even may allow some toxic people in your life. It’s not because He wants you to suffer, but because He wants to teach you a lesson.
He wants you to learn that not all people are worthy of your love and that you shouldn’t blindly trust the people who only say that they love you, without showing it.
4. Desfruta da tua liberdade
What’s wrong with being single? You’ll have the rest of your life to share it with someone else, so why shouldn’t you enjoy your freedom?
Believe me, one day you’ll regret these solo-flying days and be sorry for all the dreams that you could’ve fulfilled yet didn’t.
You won’t be able to do it later because of all those responsibilities that life will bring you afterwards.
This is the only time you’ll be free to do all the things you’ve always wanted to. This is the time of your life when you’ll be free to enjoy time spent with friends whenever you want.
You’ll never be able to get these days back. Dance like nobody’s watching, date whoever you want, stay out late, do whatever makes you happy.
Just don’t think about the future too much. Relaxe e desfrute do facto de ser solteiro.
5. Concentrar-se em si próprio
Don’t waste time just sitting there and waiting for the love of your life to appear. Finding a person who’ll love you and being in a relationship doesn’t have to define your life.
There are plenty of other things in life to enjoy other than love. While you’re single, you can focus on those things.
Work on yourself. Learn new skills that you’ve always wanted to learn. Try some things you’ve never tried before.
Ler livros. Experimentar novas receitas.
Change your appearance. You’ve always thought that dying your hair is a big commitment and that’s why you’ve never had the courage to try those shades you like so much.
Agora é a oportunidade de ser corajoso e fazer experiências com essas cores brilhantes.
Seja mais produtivo de todas as formas possíveis. Arranje algum tempo para correr na natureza ou dar um passeio no parque. You’ll see how relaxing it can be. Who knows, maybe that’s where you’ll meet your soulmate.
6. Rodeie-se de pessoas que o amam
Being around those who care for you is soul food. They’ll make you feel better because your well-being is important to them.
They’ll do whatever it takes to cheer you up. They can’t be happy if you aren’t. They’ll encourage you to work on yourself every day. Those people are your true friends.
You’ll realize that you’ve found love within those friendships. After all, true friends are rare and they are love too. Maybe a different kind of love, but still…
Sair com uma pessoa que conhece todos os seus segredos e nunca o traiu.
Um amigo who’s ready to ride with you through the good and the bad times. That’s what a soulmate actually is, right?
7. Maybe your heart still isn’t ready?
After your last relationship and your heartbreak, you may think that you left it in the past already – that you have healed and are ready to move on.
But your heart doesn’t agree with you. It needs more time to heal. It needs some time more before it decides to love someone again.
Give yourself more time. Your heart deserves it. Your last love broke it into hundred pieces and it’s not easy to put them back together.
It’s scared of a new love and the possibility of getting broken again. It’s normal that your heart is afraid that a new heartbreak might be too much and you wouldn’t be able to recover from it.
Don’t bother too much about finding love, because it will find you when you least expect it.
O universo vai surpreender-te ao enviar-te uma pessoa who’ll be all you ever looked for – without looking!
Um dia, o teu amor eterno chegará. E esse dia está mais próximo do que pensa. Só tens de ser paciente, ter fé e confiar em Deus com todo o teu coração.
That day you’ll thank me for not losing hope. You’ll understand how many great things you’d have missed if you had given up.
