7 cose che chi sta lottando per trovare l'amore dovrebbe sapere
You’ve been searching for love for some time now and started thinking that maybe it’s time to give up. You’ve resolved that some people are destined to stay single forever – and you’re one of them.
Wrong. You won’t find love if you merely give up. Every person has a soulmate and you are no exception.
La vostra anima gemella è là fuori da qualche parte, pronta ad incontrarvi e ad aspettare pazientemente.
Forse tutte le tue relazioni fallite ti ha lasciato tante insicurezze e vi ha fatto credere di non essere amabili.
Perhaps think it’s time to accept that you don’t deserve to be loved.
Sbagliato di nuovo. È proprio il contrario. Dio vi ha mandato quelle persone per farvi capire che non tutti meritano il vostro amore.
Voleva mostrarvi come non dovrebbe mai essere il vero amore. Che, a prescindere da tutto, dovete apprezzare voi stessi e non lasciare che gli altri vi trattino meno di quanto meritate.
Non perdete mai la speranza e non rinunciate all'amore. Tutti abbiamo percorsi diversi nella vita, ma tutti ci portano alla nostra anima gemella. Bisogna solo avere pazienza e fidarsi dell'universo.
Ecco alcune cose a cui prestare attenzione per ogni persona che sta lottando per trovare l'amore da qualche tempo a questa parte.
1. L'amore è dentro di voi
You shouldn’t be trying so hard to find love, because love is already there. Love is within you.
You need to love yourself first, then you’ll be ready to love another person.
Fall in love with yourself so you can enjoy your own company. Fall in love with yourself because you are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life, so it’s your duty to make that time wonderful.
When you learn to love yourself properly, you won’t let anyone else love you less than that.
Conoscerete il vostro valore e non permetterete agli altri di farvi sentire meno del gioiello inestimabile che siete.
Without sufficient self-love, you’ll never be capable of truly loving someone else. L'amore per se stessi è l'amore più grande di tutti.
2. Fidarsi dei tempi della propria vita
Don’t rush anything. You should know that your soulmate is somewhere waiting for you too. They can’t wait to meet you because you’ll be everything they’ve been looking for.
You don’t need to search for your soulmate. Believe in fate – it’ll do the work for you.
Destiny will always find its way to bring soulmates together. It’s her job!
Maybe her timing isn’t always on your clock, but when you finally meet your soulmate, you’ll see that it was worth waiting for.
3. Dio è sempre dalla vostra parte
Always trust in God’s plan because He has good reasons for all of His actions. Sometimes we can’t understand it, but trust me, God is always doing what’s the best for you.
Può allontanare qualcuno dalla vostra vita perché era sbagliato per voi o perché deve arrivare qualcuno di meglio.
Sometimes, He even may allow some toxic people in your life. It’s not because He wants you to suffer, but because He wants to teach you a lesson.
He wants you to learn that not all people are worthy of your love and that you shouldn’t blindly trust the people who only say that they love you, without showing it.
4. Godetevi la vostra libertà
What’s wrong with being single? You’ll have the rest of your life to share it with someone else, so why shouldn’t you enjoy your freedom?
Believe me, one day you’ll regret these solo-flying days and be sorry for all the dreams that you could’ve fulfilled yet didn’t.
You won’t be able to do it later because of all those responsibilities that life will bring you afterwards.
This is the only time you’ll be free to do all the things you’ve always wanted to. This is the time of your life when you’ll be free to enjoy time spent with friends whenever you want.
You’ll never be able to get these days back. Dance like nobody’s watching, date whoever you want, stay out late, do whatever makes you happy.
Just don’t think about the future too much. Rilassatevi e godetevi la vita da single.
5. Concentrarsi su se stessi
Don’t waste time just sitting there and waiting for the love of your life to appear. Finding a person who’ll love you and being in a relationship doesn’t have to define your life.
There are plenty of other things in life to enjoy other than love. While you’re single, you can focus on those things.
Work on yourself. Learn new skills that you’ve always wanted to learn. Try some things you’ve never tried before.
Leggere libri. Sperimentare nuove ricette.
Change your appearance. You’ve always thought that dying your hair is a big commitment and that’s why you’ve never had the courage to try those shades you like so much.
Ora è l'occasione per essere coraggiosi e sperimentare con questi colori vivaci.
Siate più produttivi in ogni modo possibile. Trovate il tempo di correre nella natura o di fare una passeggiata nel parco. You’ll see how relaxing it can be. Who knows, maybe that’s where you’ll meet your soulmate.
6. Circondatevi di persone che vi amano
Being around those who care for you is soul food. They’ll make you feel better because your well-being is important to them.
They’ll do whatever it takes to cheer you up. They can’t be happy if you aren’t. They’ll encourage you to work on yourself every day. Those people are your true friends.
You’ll realize that you’ve found love within those friendships. After all, true friends are rare and they are love too. Maybe a different kind of love, but still…
Frequentate una persona che conosce tutti i vostri segreti e non vi ha mai tradito.
Un amico who’s ready to ride with you through the good and the bad times. That’s what a soulmate actually is, right?
7. Maybe your heart still isn’t ready?
After your last relationship and your heartbreak, you may think that you left it in the past already – that you have healed and are ready to move on.
But your heart doesn’t agree with you. It needs more time to heal. It needs some time more before it decides to love someone again.
Give yourself more time. Your heart deserves it. Your last love broke it into hundred pieces and it’s not easy to put them back together.
It’s scared of a new love and the possibility of getting broken again. It’s normal that your heart is afraid that a new heartbreak might be too much and you wouldn’t be able to recover from it.
Don’t bother too much about finding love, because it will find you when you least expect it.
L'universo vi sorprenderà inviandovi una persona who’ll be all you ever looked for – without looking!
Un giorno, il vostro amore per sempre arriverà. E quel giorno è più vicino di quanto pensiate. Dovete solo essere pazienti, avere fede e fidarvi di Dio con tutto il cuore.
That day you’ll thank me for not losing hope. You’ll understand how many great things you’d have missed if you had given up.
