7 cosas que deberían saber quienes luchan por encontrar el amor

You’ve been searching for love for some time now and started thinking that maybe it’s time to give up. You’ve resolved that some people are destined to stay single forever – and you’re one of them.

Wrong. You won’t find love if you merely give up. Every person has a soulmate and you are no exception.

Tu alma gemela está ahí fuera, en algún lugar, también dispuesta a conocerte y esperando pacientemente.

Tal vez todas tus relaciones fallidas te dejó con tantas inseguridades y te hizo pensar que no eres adorable.

Perhaps think it’s time to accept that you don’t deserve to be loved.

Otra vez equivocado. Todo lo contrario. Dios te envió a esas personas para hacerte comprender que no todo el mundo merece tu amor.

Quería mostrarte cómo debe ser el amor verdadero. Que, pase lo que pase, tienes que apreciarte a ti mismo y no dejar que los demás te traten menos de lo que mereces.

Nunca pierdas la esperanza ni renuncies al amor. Todos tenemos diferentes caminos en la vida, pero todos nos llevan a nuestras almas gemelas. Solo tienes que ser paciente y confiar en el universo.

He aquí algunas cosas a las que debe prestar atención toda persona que esté luchando por encontrar el amor desde hace algún tiempo.

1. El amor está dentro de ti

You shouldn’t be trying so hard to find love, because love is already there. Love is within you.

You need to love yourself first, then you’ll be ready to love another person.

Fall in love with yourself so you can enjoy your own company. Fall in love with yourself because you are stuck with yourself for the rest of your life, so it’s your duty to make that time wonderful.

When you learn to love yourself properly, you won’t let anyone else love you less than that.

Sabrás lo que vales y no dejarás que los demás te hagan sentir menos que la joya inestimable que eres.

Without sufficient self-love, you’ll never be capable of truly loving someone else. El amor propio es el amor más grande de todos.

2. Confía en el tiempo de tu vida

Don’t rush anything. You should know that your soulmate is somewhere waiting for you too. They can’t wait to meet you because you’ll be everything they’ve been looking for.

You don’t need to search for your soulmate. Believe in fate – it’ll do the work for you.

Destiny will always find its way to bring soulmates together. It’s her job!

Maybe her timing isn’t always on your clock, but when you finally meet your soulmate, you’ll see that it was worth waiting for.

3. Dios siempre está de tu lado

Always trust in God’s plan because He has good reasons for all of His actions. Sometimes we can’t understand it, but trust me, God is always doing what’s the best for you.

Él puede apartar a alguien de tu vida porque esa persona no era adecuada para ti, o porque alguien mejor está por llegar.

Sometimes, He even may allow some toxic people in your life. It’s not because He wants you to suffer, but because He wants to teach you a lesson.

He wants you to learn that not all people are worthy of your love and that you shouldn’t blindly trust the people who only say that they love you, without showing it.

4. Disfruta de tu libertad

What’s wrong with being single? You’ll have the rest of your life to share it with someone else, so why shouldn’t you enjoy your freedom?

Believe me, one day you’ll regret these solo-flying days and be sorry for all the dreams that you could’ve fulfilled yet didn’t.

You won’t be able to do it later because of all those responsibilities that life will bring you afterwards.

This is the only time you’ll be free to do all the things you’ve always wanted to. This is the time of your life when you’ll be free to enjoy time spent with friends whenever you want.

You’ll never be able to get these days back. Dance like nobody’s watching, date whoever you want, stay out late, do whatever makes you happy.

Just don’t think about the future too much. Relájese y disfrute de la soltería.

5. Centrarse en uno mismo

Don’t waste time just sitting there and waiting for the love of your life to appear. Finding a person who’ll love you and being in a relationship doesn’t have to define your life.

There are plenty of other things in life to enjoy other than love. While you’re single, you can focus on those things.

Work on yourself. Learn new skills that you’ve always wanted to learn. Try some things you’ve never tried before.

Leer libros. Probar nuevas recetas.

Change your appearance. You’ve always thought that dying your hair is a big commitment and that’s why you’ve never had the courage to try those shades you like so much.

Ahora es la oportunidad de ser valiente y experimentar con esos colores brillantes.

Sé más productivo de todas las formas posibles. Encuentra tiempo para correr por la naturaleza o pasear por el parque. You’ll see how relaxing it can be. Who knows, maybe that’s where you’ll meet your soulmate.

6. Rodéate de gente que te quiera

Being around those who care for you is soul food. They’ll make you feel better because your well-being is important to them.

They’ll do whatever it takes to cheer you up. They can’t be happy if you aren’t. They’ll encourage you to work on yourself every day. Those people are your true friends.

You’ll realize that you’ve found love within those friendships. After all, true friends are rare and they are love too. Maybe a different kind of love, but still…

Sal con una persona que conozca todos tus secretos y nunca te haya traicionado.

Un amigo who’s ready to ride with you through the good and the bad times.  That’s what a soulmate actually is, right?

7. Maybe your heart still isn’t ready?

After your last relationship and your heartbreak, you may think that you left it in the past already – that you have healed and are ready to move on.

But your heart doesn’t agree with you. It needs more time to heal. It needs some time more before it decides to love someone again.

Give yourself more time. Your heart deserves it. Your last love broke it into hundred pieces and it’s not easy to put them back together.

It’s scared of a new love and the possibility of getting broken again. It’s normal that your heart is afraid that a new heartbreak might be too much and you wouldn’t be able to recover from it.

Don’t bother too much about finding love, because it will find you when you least expect it.

El universo te sorprenderá enviándote una persona who’ll be all you ever looked for – without looking!

Un día, tu amor eterno llegará. Y ese día está más cerca de lo que crees. Sólo tienes que ser paciente, tener fe y confiar en Dios con todo tu corazón.

That day you’ll thank me for not losing hope. You’ll understand how many great things you’d have missed if you had given up.