7 consejos para que un jugador se comprometa contigo
So, you’ve met this guy who makes you feel so special and he’s cute, caring and kind.
Pero te dice que nunca ha tenido una relación seria y eso te hace pensar si tiene problemas de compromiso o no.
Also, he doesn’t show any signs that he wants to start a relationship with you.
He’s surrounded by beautiful girls who make you feel uncomfortable and awkward and you get to the point where you see that you’ve been dealing with a player.
Of course, this doesn’t change the fact that you still want to show him how relationships are a wonderful thing.
Pero, antes de que te metas de lleno en este lío, déjame que te cuente algunos consejos sobre how to get a so-called ‘player’ to commit en 7 sencillos pasos:
1. Demuéstrale lo que vales
There is nothing sexier than a confident woman who knows what she wants in her life and she’s eager to get it.
Sabes lo lista que eres, lo atractiva y también lo buen partido que estás hecho.
He’s not going to play with you that easily. And even if he does play with you a bit, it’s because you let him.
You are a busy woman who doesn’t have time to wait around for him forever, so make sure that he knows that.
Si te manda un mensaje para salir, hacéis un plan y lo que hace es cancelarlo en el último momento, hazle saber que eres una señora con actitud.
“You know what, dear, how about you figure out what you want and then you can text me?” This is a way of making his ego run into the corner crying, because you didn’t break, but you played the player.
2. Know what you deserve and don’t settle for anything less
Sabes lo que quieres en una relación y no hay nada que pueda hacerte cambiar de opinión.
You have high standards and you don’t need to settle for anything less.
The thing with ‘players’ is that they need to have the woman they have their eye on, so they will do some crazy sh*t to get her.
So, you know what you want in a relationship (a best friend, someone who’s there for you, someone who respects and appreciates you), then he will become all that you want.
You will show him that it’s not that bad to be with someone who loves you dearly and he will get addicted to it.
3. No hablar del futuro
Le asustarás si empiezas a hablar de un futuro juntos. Se asustará y se esconderá en un rincón. Más bien, diviértete y disfruta del momento.
Make him think that you are as easy-going as he is and don’t scare him by talking about how you two could be a cute couple or something like that.
¿Quieres saber por qué? Bueno, le darás un susto de muerte si empieza a pensar en que serás la única persona con la que follará el resto de su vida.
4. Haz que su familia y amigos te quieran
Si te presenta a su grupo de amigos o a su familia, asegúrate de causar una buena impresión.
Quieres ser el hermano femenino entre sus amigos, pero también la mujer perfecta ante sus padres.
Probablemente ya eres lo suficientemente guay y maravillosa para ambos escenarios, pero asegúrate de que eres consciente del hecho de que a los hombres les encanta que su novia se lleve bien con las personas que él quiere y con las que pasa más tiempo.
Also, his friends will put in a good word for you if you chug down that beer—just sayin’.
5. Diviértete
Most men don’t want to hear a word about a committed relationship because they are afraid that the fun will be over and that they will turn their life into everything they didn’t want it to be.
They certainly don’t want someone who is boring and doesn’t have any fun in their life.
So go out and dance like there’s no tomorrow, because there isn’t. All you have is the right here and right now, so have fun!
Olvídate del compromiso y las relaciones y diviértete de verdad. Él vendrá a ti más rápido de lo que crees.
6. No mantener relaciones sexuales con él
At least not until you’re sure that there is an emotional connection coming together with the physical.
Sepa que a los hombres les encanta el sexo y que harán lo que sea para meterse en sus pantalones. Así que reducir la velocidad y esperar un poco.
Verá que no eres como las demás chicas y le demostrarás que tiene que intensificar su juego si quiere ver tus bragas.
7. Todo lo que necesita es comida y sexo (y tal vez una cerveza)
Men are very simple creatures. They don’t think about stuff as much as we do and they don’t complicate things.
There is a saying that a man will never cheat on you if you don’t let him out of the house horny and/or hungry.
So hand him a sandwich when he doesn’t have a boner and he’s yours for good.
This is the point where he will also do anything he can to please you, because he has finally realized that relationships and love aren’t scary, but rather fun. But only with the right person. And you? You are his right person.
