10 sinais de alerta de mensagens de texto que nunca deve ignorar
Lembra-se dos tempos em que o amor era muito mais simples e não havia ghosting, mensagens de texto ou Snapchat?
Quando podias ver como era um homem com base no seu comportamento para contigo e no quanto ele te queria ver?
When you didn’t need help from all your female friends to understand what the hell his last text meant? Me neither.
Então, como saber quais os comportamentos de mensagens de texto que são bandeiras vermelhas? Continue a ler e verifique se o seu potencial homem é um dos "fuckboys" das mensagens de texto!
Bombardeamento de texto
It’s really great when you hit it off with him, when you’re texting all day and night and you’re just excited to get to know each other.
But if you’re at work and you told him that you won’t be able to text and he is still bombing your phone, that’s just a sinal de um homem demasiado pegajoso.
Uma conversa requer dois, não apenas um homem perturbadoramente apegado. Desculpem, rapazes!
His phone is on airplane mode when he’s with you
There is no need to explain this one, actually. If he’s always super-active on social media but when he’s with you, his phone is on airplane mode, then you’re constantly wondering what the hell he is hiding.
E se ele der a desculpa de que quer concentrar-se em si, não há necessidade de desligar o telemóvel.
Ele pode simplesmente deixá-lo no casaco ou algo do género, mas desligá-lo é um sinal de alerta.
Respostas de uma palavra
Either the dude doesn’t know how this whole conversation thing works or he’s just not into you.
If you already know that he’s into you and that it’s just because he’s busy, then it’s okay.
But if you just met and all he is giving you is one-word answers, it just means that he’s not that interested in talking to you. Or he’s playing a game to make you work around him, which is still a red flag.
Ele demora uma eternidade a responder
How is it possible that he missed your message if his phone is with him all the time? Let’s be real here, we are unable to function properly without our phone.
Precisamos dele para o despertador, para encomendar comida e táxis, para comunicar com os amigos, o trabalho e a família, etc.
How on earth can you miss a text? Or be so busy that it takes you days to respond? If he’s not making time for you, stop making time for him. It’s as simple as that. Don’t text him and he will text you.
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Textos bêbados
Se estiveres numa relação e ele te mandar uma mensagem bêbado a dizer o quanto te adora e ama-te, that’s cute.
Even a romance-phobe like me knows it. But if you just met and he’s texting you when he’s falling over from alcohol and wants to come over to your place, don’t answer.
Ever again. If he’s only texting you when he’s drunk, you’re nothing more than his late-night booty call and you deserve more than that.
Ele ignora-a para usar o telemóvel
If it seems like the only woman in his life is Siri, head for the door. If you’re out on a date and he’s on his phone all the time, what are you even doing there?
It won’t get any better, trust me on that. If he’s not interested in getting to know you in the early stages of dating, walk away.
Mensagens de texto a altas horas da noite
You’re only texting when it’s late at night and it’s never anything deeper than ‘Come over, I’m bored’.
It makes you wonder what he’s doing all day so he’s only available at night.
And if you’re nothing more than a late-night call for some bedroom activity.
Ele pede nus
Seriously? You guys just met and bam! ‘Send nudes’. When you’re in a relationship and you’re up for a little bit of fun while you’re at work, go for it!
It’s always a good thing to spice up your sex life. But if there is no sex life to spice up, what the hell?
Ele nunca manda mensagem antes
É sempre o primeiro a enviar a primeira mensagem e o último a enviar a última? És sempre tu que inicias as conversas?
Ele nunca envia uma mensagem de texto primeiro, mas responde sempre às suas mensagens.
That’s just a sign of a one-sided conversation that will turn into a relação unilateral.
You can see from his text messages if he’s into you but this is a sign that he’s not. If he doesn’t text you back for daysA sua atitude é também um sinal da sua indiferença e falta de afeto.
Fotos de pénis
For the love of God, we don’t want unsolicited dick pics! I repeat, we don’t want them! It’s one thing if you’re sexting and you actually asked for them but sending them after no request and to top it off, asking for a nude in return, is just sick.
Deixa-o e procura alguém que te mande uma mensagem de bom dia e não a sua salsicha triste e enrugada!
