7. Ficam com ciúmes por nada
Digamos que está a ter uma noite de raparigas pela primeira vez depois de terem começado a namorar. Não há nada de errado nisso, mas ele está a fazê-la sentir-se culpada.
He is saying things like: “I thought that we are doing something tonight?” , “ Are you really leaving me alone?”, “Do you really have to go? I will miss you.”
Ao fazer isto, ele está a fazer com que se sinta culpada por ficar ao lado dele em vez de sair e, se sair, continuará a ter a impressão de que ele está muito sozinho em casa.
He also might have other types of jealous displays. In any case, it’s not a good sign and you should be careful about it.
It’s not easy to tell if somebody is genuinely in love and going over the top to make you happy or they are love bombing you because they have some hidden agenda.
Em todo o caso, é preciso ter cuidado e estar atento aos sinais de alerta.
The honeymoon period of a relationship is the most important part for the love bombers because that’s the part that lets them get under your skin.
So, later on, when their behavior shifts and starts getting worse and worse, you are unaware of what’s going on exactly.
You start convincing yourself that it’s just a phase and they will change back to who they were at the beginning.
It’s important to know the signs of love bombing, so you will be able to recognize and avoid it. But more importantly, you have to rely on your gut feeling.
Se sentir que algo não está bem, confie nesse sentimento.
Leave any situation in which you don’t feel completely comfortable.