7. Se ponen celosos por nada
Supongamos que salís por primera vez después de empezar a salir. No tiene nada de malo, pero él te hace sentir culpable.
He is saying things like: “I thought that we are doing something tonight?” , “ Are you really leaving me alone?”, “Do you really have to go? I will miss you.”
De este modo, te está culpabilizando para que te quedes a su lado en lugar de salir, y si vas, seguirás teniendo la impresión de que se siente muy solo en casa.
He also might have other types of jealous displays. In any case, it’s not a good sign and you should be careful about it.
It’s not easy to tell if somebody is genuinely in love and going over the top to make you happy or they are love bombing you because they have some hidden agenda.
En cualquier caso, hay que tener cuidado y estar atento a las señales de alarma.
The honeymoon period of a relationship is the most important part for the love bombers because that’s the part that lets them get under your skin.
So, later on, when their behavior shifts and starts getting worse and worse, you are unaware of what’s going on exactly.
You start convincing yourself that it’s just a phase and they will change back to who they were at the beginning.
It’s important to know the signs of love bombing, so you will be able to recognize and avoid it. But more importantly, you have to rely on your gut feeling.
Si sientes que algo no va bien, confía en esa sensación.
Leave any situation in which you don’t feel completely comfortable.