7. Si ingelosiscono per niente
Diciamo che state organizzando una serata tra donne per la prima volta dopo aver iniziato a frequentarvi. Non c'è nulla di male, ma lui vi fa sentire in colpa.
He is saying things like: “I thought that we are doing something tonight?” , “ Are you really leaving me alone?”, “Do you really have to go? I will miss you.”
In questo modo, vi sta facendo sentire in colpa per farvi rimanere al suo fianco invece di uscire, e se ci andate, avrete comunque l'impressione che si senta così solo a casa.
He also might have other types of jealous displays. In any case, it’s not a good sign and you should be careful about it.
It’s not easy to tell if somebody is genuinely in love and going over the top to make you happy or they are love bombing you because they have some hidden agenda.
In ogni caso, è necessario essere prudenti e prestare attenzione alle bandiere rosse.
The honeymoon period of a relationship is the most important part for the love bombers because that’s the part that lets them get under your skin.
So, later on, when their behavior shifts and starts getting worse and worse, you are unaware of what’s going on exactly.
You start convincing yourself that it’s just a phase and they will change back to who they were at the beginning.
It’s important to know the signs of love bombing, so you will be able to recognize and avoid it. But more importantly, you have to rely on your gut feeling.
Se sentite che qualcosa non va, fidatevi di quella sensazione.
Leave any situation in which you don’t feel completely comfortable.