7 razões para "ir em frente" com o seu novo namorado

You two have been having a great time right from your first date till now, but you still have doubts regarding whether you should “go for it” (jump all in) with your new guy or wait for another one with whom you might be more compatible.

Está consciente do facto de que quanto mais se afeiçoar a ele, maiores são as probabilidades de acabar com o coração partido.

But, that’s just how dating works. Just like poker, dating is a gambling sport where you can never be prepared for potential losses, but you can never forgive yourself for not taking a risk.

To help you with your decision to “go for it” with your new guy, here are 7 reasons to put your fears aside and give him a chance to be o teu novo namorado. You’ll never know until you try!

1. Gostam muito um do outro

You appreciate every second spent together and you simply can’t get enough of each other.

Every time you’re about to part, he says that he had a wonderful time with you and he wants to see you again.

Este é o maior indicador de que os dois estão realmente interessados um no outro e não é apenas numa base física.

Então, por que não lhe dar uma oportunidade de provar que merece ser seu namorado?

2. You’ll have a companion

Having a companion means having someone who understands your inner fears and desires, one who will be there for you all the time and with whom you’ll have the time of your life.

If you “go for it” with your new guy, you’ll have a companion and your connection will be much deeper than it is now.

You’ll be happy, he’ll be happy, and you’ll ooze positivity!

3. He’s given you a sign / signs

If you’re still skeptical of his intentions, think about his behavior and potential clues and signs that he might have been giving you all this time.

Ele olha-a nos olhos a toda a hora? Ele esforça-se por mostrar as suas maneiras cavalheirescas?

Ele surpreende-a sempre com pequenas coisas, telefona-lhe primeiro e fazer-te sentir especial?

If the majority is yes, girl, all this time he’s been giving you signs that he’s crazy about you and the only thing you need to do is to make things official!

4. Podes conseguir o que sempre quiseste

Don’t even think of telling yourself that you’ll never have what you want and your dreams will simply never be fulfilled no matter who you date.

Tu próprio sabes que isso não é verdade.

If you don’t give him a try, you will never know whether he’s the man of your dreams and whether you’ll get what you always wanted.

Always be positive when it comes to taking risks and making your dreams come true, because it’s all in your head.

Lembrem-se que se acreditarem na beleza dos vossos sonhos, irão realizá-los!

5. You’ve been putting it off too long

If you’ve had bad experiences in your past, the chances are that you won’t be willing to enter another relationship, regardless if the guy is the embodiment of a gentleman.

Fazer isto é um grande erro que não se perdoará facilmente num futuro próximo.

Não deve permitir-se perder um bom rapaz só por causa do seu passado.

Let go of everything that happened before and enjoy the present, because that’s the only way to true happiness.

Ver também: É assim que se descobre o tipo simpático numa multidão de falhados tóxicos

6. It’s nice to have a date

If you’re still not convinced to jump all in into a new relationship, just think about the feeling of knowing that someone is waiting for you to show up and make their day.

It’s nice to have a date to places, to laugh together, to go for drinks, and to talk about your goals and dreams.

When you have someone like that, your life becomes an adventure and it is way more fun than only overthinking about “what if.”

7. Todos os teus amigos têm rapazes

Eu sei que esta não é uma razão válida, mas se todas as tuas amigas têm rapazes, deves ter pensado como seria se fosses tu a ter um rapaz.

Para o ajudar a responder: seria fantástico!

Your connection with your friends will become so much stronger and you will create a happy little community of love, fun, and more love. So, it’s worth a try, right?