7 sinais alarmantes de que ele é um Sr. Certo agora (e não o Sr. Certo)
Não há nada de errado em viver no presente.
Não há nada de errado em partilhar o seu tempo com um homem que lhe convém neste momento, sem se preocupar com o que vai acontecer amanhã.
No entanto, o que é importante é ser realista e ter a capacidade de distinguir entre um rapaz que é adequado para si neste momento e um rapaz que é a correcta para ti para o resto da tua vida.
That is why we’re giving you these 7 eye-opening signs that you’re dealing with a Mr. Right Now and not your Mr. Right.
1. Ambos utilizam termos vagos relativamente à vossa relação
When you’re with a temporary guy, you two simply don’t talk much about labels.
Yes, you are obviously dating but nobody has ever made the effort to have ‘the talk’ and to make things official.
Em vez disso, faz rodeios quando o assunto está em causa.
You use vague terms while referring to one another and you successfully avoid the discussion about whether you’re both exclusive.
2. He didn’t make you forget your ex
A maioria das mulheres encontra o seu "Sr. Certo Agora" depois de terminar uma relação de longa duração.
You want to be with someone because you’re used to being a part of a couple, you want someone to help you relax and to make your days more interesting without having to think too much about it.
No entanto, o seu "Sr. Certo Agora" nunca o fará de facto esquecer o seu ex completamente.
Sim, pode ser que se divirta muito com ele, mas, no fundo, o seu coração continuará partido.
Of course, he will be better than the jerk who hurt you to the bones and at least he won’t be giving you that much of a headache.
Nevertheless, he’ll never replace him.
Por outro lado, quando encontrar a sua pessoa para sempre, todo o sofrimento e todas as lágrimas causadas por alguém do seu passado desaparecerão por magia.
Not only that—you’ll even wonder how you could have ever loved someone else before this perfect man, who is obviously your soulmate.
3. You are not a part of each other’s lives
When you come to think of it, you don’t know this guy’s friends, you don’t know how he spends his days in detail and you’re not involved in his interests.
And it goes both ways—it’s not that you hide him from the rest of the world, you just never had the need to actually make him a part of your life or to introduce him to your loved ones.
It’s almost like you subconsciously know that he isn’t here to stay, so you don’t even want to bother.
4. Vocês nunca falam sobre o futuro
Um dos sinais mais claros de que está a lidar com alguém temporário é o facto de nunca fazerem planos a longo prazo juntos.
In fact, you don’t even talk about the future and especially not about one which includes you two as a couple.
You don’t even make jokes about your potential children’s names or what your marriage would look like.
Esse tipo de discussão está obviamente fora dos limites e há uma forte razão para isso.
5. A vossa intimidade é apenas sexual
É provável que tenhas uma vida sexual fantástica com este tipo.
He makes all of your wildest fantasies come true and he helped reveal a side of you you didn’t know existed.
No entanto, só quando encontrar o seu homem perfeito é que compreenderá que a intimidade é muito mais do que sexo (apesar de ser extremamente importante).
Percebe que a intimidade também pode ser emocional, psicológica e mental, para além de apenas físico.
No entanto, com um "Sr. Agora", não existe qualquer ligação fora do quarto.
You don’t have the need to spend hours next to this man without saying a word, to listen to him breathe, to look deeply in his eyes or just to hold his hand without it having to lead to anything more.
4. Esconde-lhe as suas imperfeições
Another red flag that you’re involved with a Mr. Right Now is the fact that you are not comfortable enough to be your true self in front of him.
I’m not saying that you’re pretending to be someone you’re not but the truth is that you do hide your flaws from him.
On the other hand, when you are with the right guy, you don’t mind him seeing you on a bad hair day or when you have a cold.
In fact, you’re sure of his love for you and you are not afraid that he will run for the hills at the first sign of imperfections.
5. Nenhum de vocês lutaria pela vossa relação
Let’s face it—things between you and this guy are only working out because up to now, everything has been going smoothly.
You haven’t had any bumps in the road and life hasn’t challenged your relationship.
However, you’re perfectly aware that you wouldn’t stick to each other through thick and thin.
You know very well that you wouldn’t lutar uns pelos outros se a vossa relação fosse posta em causa e que nenhum de vocês fizesse sacrifícios sérios por causa dela.
