7 señales alarmantes de que ahora es un señor correcto (y no lo es)

Vivir el presente no tiene nada de malo.

No hay nada malo en compartir tu tiempo con un hombre que te conviene en este momento, sin devanarte los sesos pensando en lo que pasará mañana.

Sin embargo, lo importante es ser realista y tener la capacidad de diferenciar entre un chico que es adecuado para ti en este momento y un chico que es el correcto para ti el resto de tu vida.

That is why we’re giving you these 7 eye-opening signs that you’re dealing with a Mr. Right Now and not your Mr. Right.

1. Ambos utilizáis términos vagos respecto a vuestra relación

When you’re with a temporary guy, you two simply don’t talk much about labels.

Yes, you are obviously dating but nobody has ever made the effort to have ‘the talk’ and to make things official.

En vez de eso, te vas por las ramas cuando se cuestiona ese tema.

You use vague terms while referring to one another and you successfully avoid the discussion about whether you’re both exclusive.

2. He didn’t make you forget your ex

La mayoría de las mujeres conocen a su Mr. Right Now después de terminar una relación duradera.

You want to be with someone because you’re used to being a part of a couple, you want someone to help you relax and to make your days more interesting without having to think too much about it.

Sin embargo, tu Mr. Right Now nunca te hará realmente olvídate de tu ex completamente.

Sí, puede que te lo pases muy bien con él, pero en el fondo, tu corazón seguirá roto.

Of course, he will be better than the jerk who hurt you to the bones and at least he won’t be giving you that much of a headache.

Nevertheless, he’ll never replace him.

Por otro lado, una vez que conozcas a tu persona para siempre, todo el sufrimiento y todas las lágrimas causadas por alguien de tu pasado desaparecerán por arte de magia.

Not only that—you’ll even wonder how you could have ever loved someone else before this perfect man, who is obviously your soulmate.

3. You are not a part of each other’s lives

When you come to think of it, you don’t know this guy’s friends, you don’t know how he spends his days in detail and you’re not involved in his interests. 

And it goes both ways—it’s not that you hide him from the rest of the world, you just never had the need to actually make him a part of your life or to introduce him to your loved ones.

It’s almost like you subconsciously know that he isn’t here to stay, so you don’t even want to bother.

4. Nunca habláis del futuro

Una de las señales más claras de que estás tratando con alguien temporal es el hecho de que nunca hagáis planes a largo plazo juntos.

In fact, you don’t even talk about the future and especially not about one which includes you two as a couple.

You don’t even make jokes about your potential children’s names or what your marriage would look like.

Ese tipo de debate está obviamente fuera de los límites y hay una razón de peso para ello.

5. Su intimidad es sólo sexual

Es probable que tengas una vida sexual increíble con este tipo.

He makes all of your wildest fantasies come true and he helped reveal a side of you you didn’t know existed.

Sin embargo, no es hasta que encuentras a tu hombre perfecto cuando comprendes que la intimidad es mucho más que sexo (a pesar de ser extremadamente importante).

Te das cuenta de que la intimidad también puede ser emocional, psicológica y mental, además de sólo físico.

Sin embargo, con un Mr. Right Now, no hay vínculo fuera del dormitorio.

You don’t have the need to spend hours next to this man without saying a word, to listen to him breathe, to look deeply in his eyes or just to hold his hand without it having to lead to anything more.

4. Le ocultas tus imperfecciones

Another red flag that you’re involved with a Mr. Right Now is the fact that you are not comfortable enough to be your true self in front of him.

I’m not saying that you’re pretending to be someone you’re not but the truth is that you do hide your flaws from him.

On the other hand, when you are with the right guy, you don’t mind him seeing you on a bad hair day or when you have a cold.

In fact, you’re sure of his love for you and you are not afraid that he will run for the hills at the first sign of imperfections.

5. Ninguno de los dos lucharía por su relación

Let’s face it—things between you and this guy are only working out because up to now, everything has been going smoothly.

You haven’t had any bumps in the road and life hasn’t challenged your relationship.

However, you’re perfectly aware that you wouldn’t stick to each other through thick and thin.

You know very well that you wouldn’t luchar unos por otros si vuestra relación se pusiera en entredicho y que ninguno de los dos haría sacrificios serios por ello.