8 razões pelas quais os homens deixam as mulheres que amam
They tell us they love us. They keep talking about our future and the moment we believe them… they leave.
Os homens deixam-nos de coração partido e marcadas para o resto da vida e confundem-nos com a forma como nos tratam e mesmo assim decidem partir.
Todos nós sabemos que ligação emocional aos olhos de um homem é algo difícil, mas será que tem mesmo de ser assim tão difícil?
Well, let’s finally resolve this issue and learn why men leave the women they love.
Ele sente-se ameaçado
This happens mostly when you’re more successful than he is.
When you have a job, a career that you’re proud of and he simply can’t keep up with you, he will feel threatened and leave no matter how much he loves you.
This also happens when he feels like you’re outgrowing him, when you’re becoming better than him in any possible way.
Men get intimidated by women’s success even if they don’t want to admit it.
You’re nagging all the time
Women go for what they want and they don’t know when it’s enough. Let’s be honest, we do get a little crazy from time to time.
We are mostly right but wanting to control him simply doesn’t work in a relationship.
He might love you with all of his heart but if you’re clingy, if you’re nagging constantly and if you’re needy and don’t allow him any space, no matter how much he loves you, he’ll leave.
Sexo mau ou nenhum sexo
You’ve guessed it. It’s sad but true: men love sex!
But be sure that he’ll leave you and then go have sex with another woman, rather than cheat on you just for some one-night pleasure.
It’s up to you to decide whether you want to have sex with him or not, or if you want to improve the act, but it’s just very important for you to know how amazingly satisfying sex is to men and that they crave it like air.
Tédio
Na maioria das vezes, acredite-se ou não, a razão pela qual os homens deixam as mulheres que amam é o tédio.
Os homens querem ação, querem que as coisas sejam diferentes e cheias de novidades.
Quando ficam presas num círculo de fazer constantemente as mesmas coisas, aborrecem-se e anseiam por algo novo que as ajude sair de uma rotina.
Codependência
Os homens adoram ser independentes e, no momento em que um homem se apercebe de que se encontra numa relação codependente, tende a afastar-se lentamente.
Mesmo que isso o magoe, a ideia de depender de alguém assusta-o.
A codependência traz consigo muitos outros problemas, como deixar de passar tempo com os amigos e a família ou simplesmente a falta de tempo para si próprio.
If a relationship is about giving up other parts of your life, guys simply aren’t up for that.
You’re trying to change him
Ele pode simplesmente não se sentir ele próprio outra vez. Quer dizer, todos nós mudamos quando entramos numa relação, mas para os homens, perder-se a si próprio é como perder o orgulho.
His friends might start to tease him that he has turned into a ‘pussy’ or that he isn’t who he was before because he is now spending too much time with his girlfriend.
Also, if he starts noticing that he’s watched chick flicks with you for five nights in a row, you have a problem.
Comparação
Porque é que ele quereria estar com uma mulher que o compara constantemente com a ex?
É que o problema pode nem sequer estar em si.
Ele pode comparar-se com o seu ex sem que o tenha mencionado.
His mind simply won’t let him have a moment of peace and he continues to think that he’s not suited to you, because your ex was way better than him.
Falta de apreço
If a man loves a woman to the point where he is willing to do anything for her, be sure that he doesn’t do it just for fun.
He wants to be appreciated. Just like there’s no woman out there who wants to be taken for granted, it’s the same with men.
