8 razones por las que los hombres dejan a las mujeres que aman
They tell us they love us. They keep talking about our future and the moment we believe them… they leave.
Los hombres nos dejan el corazón roto y marcadas para el resto de nuestra vida y nos confunden con la forma en que nos tratan y aun así deciden irse.
Todos sabemos que apego emocional a los ojos de un hombre es algo difícil, pero ¿realmente tiene que ser tan difícil?
Well, let’s finally resolve this issue and learn why men leave the women they love.
Se siente amenazado
This happens mostly when you’re more successful than he is.
When you have a job, a career that you’re proud of and he simply can’t keep up with you, he will feel threatened and leave no matter how much he loves you.
This also happens when he feels like you’re outgrowing him, when you’re becoming better than him in any possible way.
Men get intimidated by women’s success even if they don’t want to admit it.
You’re nagging all the time
Women go for what they want and they don’t know when it’s enough. Let’s be honest, we do get a little crazy from time to time.
We are mostly right but wanting to control him simply doesn’t work in a relationship.
He might love you with all of his heart but if you’re clingy, if you’re nagging constantly and if you’re needy and don’t allow him any space, no matter how much he loves you, he’ll leave.
Mal sexo o nada de sexo
You’ve guessed it. It’s sad but true: men love sex!
But be sure that he’ll leave you and then go have sex with another woman, rather than cheat on you just for some one-night pleasure.
It’s up to you to decide whether you want to have sex with him or not, or if you want to improve the act, but it’s just very important for you to know how amazingly satisfying sex is to men and that they crave it like air.
Aburrimiento
Lo más habitual, lo creas o no, es que la razón por la que los hombres dejan a las mujeres que aman sea el aburrimiento.
Los hombres quieren acción, quieren que las cosas sean diferentes y llenas de novedades.
Cuando se quedan atrapados en un círculo de hacer constantemente las mismas cosas, se aburren y ansían algo nuevo que les ayude a salir de la rutina.
Codependencia
A los hombres les encanta ser independientes y en el momento en que un hombre se da cuenta de que se ha encontrado en una relación codependiente, tenderá a alejarse lentamente.
Aunque le duela, la idea de depender de alguien le asusta.
La codependencia conlleva muchos otros problemas, como dejar de pasar tiempo con los amigos y la familia o, simplemente, la falta de tiempo para uno mismo.
If a relationship is about giving up other parts of your life, guys simply aren’t up for that.
You’re trying to change him
Puede que no vuelva a sentirse él mismo. Es decir, todos cambiamos cuando entramos en una relación, pero para los hombres, perderse a sí mismos es como perder su orgullo.
His friends might start to tease him that he has turned into a ‘pussy’ or that he isn’t who he was before because he is now spending too much time with his girlfriend.
Also, if he starts noticing that he’s watched chick flicks with you for five nights in a row, you have a problem.
Comparación
¿Por qué querría estar con una mujer que le compara constantemente con su ex?
Puede que el problema ni siquiera esté en ti.
Puede que se compare con tu ex sin que tú se lo menciones.
His mind simply won’t let him have a moment of peace and he continues to think that he’s not suited to you, because your ex was way better than him.
Falta de aprecio
If a man loves a woman to the point where he is willing to do anything for her, be sure that he doesn’t do it just for fun.
He wants to be appreciated. Just like there’s no woman out there who wants to be taken for granted, it’s the same with men.
