7 sinais subtis de linguagem corporal de que ele está a mentir-te (e tu estás a acreditar)
It’s hard to spot a liar, especially because some people are too good at it. No matter what situation you put them in, they know how to tell you a believable story in a matter of seconds.
Fazem uma cara de poker e mentem para escapar a tudo o que os deixa desconfortáveis. Se o teu namorado te faz estas coisas, or you suspect that he’s lying, it makes you feel like crap.
Not only that you feel that way, but he causes you to have trust issues after you’ve hardly even begun to trust him in the first place.
You can’t have firm proof that someone is lying to you unless you catch them unprepared with their shield down and actually catch them in the act. However, there are physical body language signs that can help you cast aside your doubts.
No, he won’t grow a nose like Pinocchio, but he will present certain gestures and behaviors that will blow his cover.
1. His lips and mouth don’t match
It’s been scientifically proven that every mood has its own facial expression. For example, when you’re sad and crying and tears roll down your face, your mouth gets shortened to match with your eyes.
Or when you’re happy and you’re laughing, your mouth gets wider for a smile and your eyes perk up and glitter like they are smiling too. But when you’re dealing with a liar, his eyes and his mouth don’t get along.
That’s why lying does not have a natural response from your body to certain situations, as it’s a controlled reaction to the outside input. If you see this difference on his face while he’s talking to you, he is probably lying.
2. Ele está nervoso
He starts fidgeting or tapping nervously with his fingers or his legs because he’s trying to hide something. He wants to appear calm and relaxed, but he is showing completely the opposite behavior.
He’s probably trying to hide something from you and his lying presents itself in the way he behaves. His body actions give him away.
3. Ele brinca com a orelha
Quando as pessoas estão a mentir, o seu corpo faz coisas de que elas nem sequer têm consciência. O seu corpo rejeita as palavras que saem da sua boca porque não são naturais, são mentiras.
Dito isto, o seu corpo está literalmente a lutar contra a sua mentira, quer impedi-lo de ouvir a mentira que acabou de dizer.
That’s why with men, your guy starts pressing and playing with his ears, pulling them and scratching the insides. It’s a common telltale sign that someone’s lying to you.
Now, if he’s on the border of being a sociopata, he will be aware of these telltale signs and he will control them, but if he is just a regular liar, these things he does subconsciously will show he’s lying.
4. Evita olhar para si
He avoids looking you directly in your eyes because he is scared his eyes might give away the fact that he’s lying. He’s scared that you might recognize the unease he feels deep inside from just one look into his eyes.
So, the next time you see he is avoiding eye contact, you can be sure he has done something wrong and doesn’t want to face you because he’s lying.
5. Ele muda a sua voz
The tone of his voice becomes different and this is probably due to the fact that his heart races and his feelings become a bit more passionate inside. He is telling a lie and again his body is fighting it because it’s not its natural state.
His voice can become higher or lower, that depends, but make sure to pay attention to that the next time you ask him something you think he’s lying about.
Se a voz dele ficar diferente da sua voz normal, provavelmente tem um problema que precisa de resolver com ele.
6. A respiração altera-se
A falta de respiração surge quando se está a lidar com situações desagradáveis que o deixam nervoso e ansioso.
When your guy seems to be gasping for air when talking to you, it probably means that his heart is racing and his pulse has gone up because he’s telling you a lie which has caused a shortage of breath.
Esteja atento a este sinal, pois pode facilmente passar despercebido e ser vítima de mais uma mentira.
7. Ele esconde as mãos
Ou, para ser mais preciso, ele esconde as palmas das mãos, ou pelo menos está a tentar. Quando um homem quer partilhar algo sincero consigo, pega nas suas mãos e olha-o diretamente nos olhos (uma das mais valiosas conselhos de namoro para mulheres).
But when he’s lying to you, he will hide his hands behind his back or put them in his pockets.
