É assim que uma mulher forte cura o seu coração partido

Just because she’s strong doesn’t mean that she can’t break under the weight of the world.

Even a strong woman can give her heart to a man who isn’t any good for her and all he does is pour acid into her after he opens her chest up to partir-lhe o coração.

A broken heart is never something easy to deal with…when you break down in the middle of the street because you remembered a beautiful memory and realise that you won’t have that ever again…when you stay up until four in the morning crying and thinking to yourself that love shouldn’t be this hard.

It’s seeing his face in every random passenger without being able to realise that you won’t get him back.

For every woman, a broken heart is the same experience. It’s the kind of pain that you wouldn’t want upon your biggest enemy.

Yes, that’s how hard it hurts and you’ve been through that, too.

Mas quando se trata de uma mulher forte, por alguma razão, esperamos sempre que elas lidem com separações e desgostos de uma forma em que ela se livra de tudo como se nada tivesse acontecido. Mas não.

É assim que uma mulher forte cura o seu coração despedaçado:

Ela chora. It’s no secret that it hurts like hell and no matter how strong a woman is, she will cry.

A broken heart isn’t something that will heal overnight, so it will continue on hurting.

She will remember him at night and she will dream of him before she wakes up crying because she has realised that he’s not by her side anymore.

Ela fala sobre isso. There’s no need to keep it inside anymore. So much pain isn’t good and she knows that.

Going to the people closest to her is the best way to cope with the pain because they will have the right words to cheer her up and to be honest, she doesn’t have the strength to deal with all these feelings herself.

Ela precisa de alguém que a abrace e lhe diga que vai ficar bem.

Ela é clemente. Ela perdoa-se a si própria e ao homem que a quebrou. Não há necessidade de guardar rancor e culpar alguém pelo que aconteceu.

She believes that everything happens for a reason and that her heart will feel much better if she forgives herself and the man who did this to her. It’s better this way. She deserves peace.

Ela transforma a sua dor em combustível. It isn’t a secret that pain makes the best artists. To uma mulher forteA dor é a melhor motivação para fazer algumas mudanças na sua vida.

Every time there is an outburst of pain inside her, she won’t just sit around and wait for it to pass because that won’t bring her anything.

Ela sai para correr, vai tomar um café com os amigos. Desta forma, não há energia negativa a acumular-se dentro dela.

Ela está a fazer coisas por si própria. Quando o nosso coração fica partido, seria uma perda de tempo não nos amarmos a nós próprios.

That’s why a strong woman loves herself and she knows that this way she will heal faster.

Sai consigo própria para encontros e jantares, prestando sempre atenção às coisas que precisa de fazer para se sentir melhor.

Come bem e veste-se melhor do que nunca, só para mostrar a si própria que é capaz de se manter de pé.

Ela nunca mais voltará para o homem que a quebrou. Esperar que o homem que a partiu a ajude a curar-se é a pior coisa que ela pode fazer!

He can only deepen her wounds and that’s not something she wants to do – not now, not ever. There’s no need to give him a second chance if he blew his first one! It’s as easy as that.

Ela terá medo de voltar a amar. Whenever someone tries to come near her, to flirt with her or text her, she gets defensive and she doesn’t want to do anything with that person.

But that’s just her first instinct because it’s scary to trust someone so soon after she has been broken. She has made boundaries to keep her heart safe. There’s nothing wrong with that.

But she won’t throw her life away because of one broken heart. Ela merece mais do que isso!

She won’t let a man be the reason she doesn’t love anymore. She won’t let someone who didn’t know how to love her keep her from someone who will.

She won’t rush into a new relationship. That would be irresponsible of her and there’s no need for her to do that.

She knows that her broken heart won’t survive another break down and that those pieces should come back together before she can fully give it to someone new. So she doesn’t rush anywhere!

She knows that true love will come when she’s ready to receive it.

Até se curar completamente e até se certificar de que o próximo homem por quem se apaixonar é digno dela, she won’t let herself fall in love.

Now, it’s time to love herself and show herself that it’s OK to treat herself with kindness, love and appreciation! This is her time and no one should interrupt it.

Ela cura-se a si própria. Um dia, ela acordará e aperceber-se-á de que conseguiu curar sozinha o seu coração partido.

Não é necessário nenhum homem para a ajudar, porque ela é suficientemente forte para carregar as suas próprias cicatrizes e a sua própria fraqueza!

Ela é a mulher forte que todos nós deveríamos admirar. Apesar de estar partida e magoada, apesar de lhe doer o peito, ela está a fazer um trabalho fantástico de cura.