Ao ignorá-la, está a ensiná-la a viver sem si

Devido a esse mito tolo e desatualizado de que jogar duro para conseguir a atenção que tanto deseja, os homens perdem as mulheres com mais frequência do que nunca.

Ao terem esta falsa narrativa na cabeça de que, se ignorarem a mulher que têm debaixo de olho, ela será mais atraída por eles, dão a impressão exatamente oposta à que realmente querem.

Alguns homens chegam ao ponto de pensar que se a tratarem mal e a fizerem sentir-se mal consigo própria, ela virá a rastejar até eles, precisando da sua aprovação e validação.

They think that their manipulative ways will get them far, but they couldn’t be more wrong.

O que eles estão sempre a esquecer é uma coisa muito importante. Esse tratamento hediondo só funciona com mulheres inexperientes, se tanto. As mulheres a sério nunca caem nessa merda. E é assim que as perdes.

A real woman know what she wants and how to get it. If you treat her badly, she won’t have time for your games. This woman has a very fulfilling life without you.

She has a lot on her plate, and she won’t give you attention if you make her beg for it.

She doesn’t stoop that low. If you treat her right, with love, kindness and understanding, she will reciprocate it and make you feel like the luckiest man on Earth.

But when you teach her that she deserves your attention only when you deem it appropriate, she’ll leave, and you’ll lose her for good.

When you are dishonest and manipulative, you push her away. When you act as if your time is more valuable than hers, she won’t tolerate it.

Quando a tratas como uma chamada para sexo and don’t bother making plans in advance, you crush her spirit by making her feel inadequate.

See, she knows that when you love someone, you can’t hide it, and you don’t deny it. When you love your partner, you shower her with affection and prove your love in multiple ways.

You don’t give her that shitty treatment that makes her feel horrible about herself and shake her confidence like that.

Real love is commitment. It’s honesty, transparency, and respecting each other’s precious time. It’s knowing that she has a full plate today, so you send her a quick text to tell her how much you love her and can’t wait to see her.

It’s not going off radar for a few days because you want to make her miss you. No.

She will miss you while she’s at work anyway. She’ll miss you when she’s on a night out with her girls, and your song comes on.

She’ll miss you when she’s asleep, and you’re not by her side. And she’ll miss you when she’s having a shitty day, and you’re not there to comfort her.

Don’t you see? You already have her full attention and affection. Don’t make her regret giving it to you. She might put up with it for a short while because she loves you so much. But when she’s had enough, you’ll never feel her warmth again.

A base de qualquer relação real, significativa e duradoura é a honestidade. Se esconder os seus sentimentos, como é que pode esperar que ela seja sua?

She is an open book. She tells you she loves you. She gives you attention, and she is there when you need somebody to vent to. And she loves it. That’s what a commitment is!

If you don’t reciprocate it, you’re teaching her that she can live without you.

The thing about women is this. We are perfectly capable of being on our own. We don’t need a knight in shining armor to come sweep us of our feet.

We don’t need a man to help us make a living because we are successful and able all on our own. We don’t need you to rescue us and make us feel like we owe you something.

Tudo o que queremos é estar numa parceria empenhada em que os nossos homens nos tratem com o mesmo amor e respeito com que nós os tratamos.

If you love her, tell her! If you’re missing her, text her and make her eyes water with happiness! If you need her to come be your shoulder to cry on, call her, and she’ll be there!

Ignoring will get you nowhere. It doesn’t win you any points. All it does is make her see what a douche you are.

Give her your time, attention, and honesty. Don’t disappear when things get real, and prove to her that not all men are the same.

Be her man in good times and bad, and she’ll be yours for life.