Ignorandola, le insegnerete a vivere senza di voi

A causa di quel mito sciocco e superato secondo cui giocare duro per ottenere l'attenzione che tanto desiderate, gli uomini perdono le donne più spesso che mai.

Avendo in testa questa falsa narrazione secondo cui se ignorano la donna su cui hanno messo gli occhi, lei sarà più attratta da loro, danno l'impressione esattamente opposta a quella che in realtà vogliono.

Alcuni uomini arrivano a pensare che se la trattano male e la fanno sentire male con se stessa, lei verrà strisciando da loro, bisognosa della loro approvazione e convalida.

They think that their manipulative ways will get them far, but they couldn’t be more wrong.

Vedete, quello che continuano a dimenticare è una cosa molto importante. Questo odioso trattamento funziona solo con le donne inesperte, se non altro. Le donne vere non ci cascano mai. Ed è così che le perdete.

A real woman know what she wants and how to get it. If you treat her badly, she won’t have time for your games. This woman has a very fulfilling life without you.

She has a lot on her plate, and she won’t give you attention if you make her beg for it.

She doesn’t stoop that low. If you treat her right, with love, kindness and understanding, she will reciprocate it and make you feel like the luckiest man on Earth.

But when you teach her that she deserves your attention only when you deem it appropriate, she’ll leave, and you’ll lose her for good.

When you are dishonest and manipulative, you push her away. When you act as if your time is more valuable than hers, she won’t tolerate it.

Quando la trattate come una visita di cortesia and don’t bother making plans in advance, you crush her spirit by making her feel inadequate.

See, she knows that when you love someone, you can’t hide it, and you don’t deny it. When you love your partner, you shower her with affection and prove your love in multiple ways.

You don’t give her that shitty treatment that makes her feel horrible about herself and shake her confidence like that.

Real love is commitment. It’s honesty, transparency, and respecting each other’s precious time. It’s knowing that she has a full plate today, so you send her a quick text to tell her how much you love her and can’t wait to see her.

It’s not going off radar for a few days because you want to make her miss you. No.

She will miss you while she’s at work anyway. She’ll miss you when she’s on a night out with her girls, and your song comes on.

She’ll miss you when she’s asleep, and you’re not by her side. And she’ll miss you when she’s having a shitty day, and you’re not there to comfort her.

Don’t you see? You already have her full attention and affection. Don’t make her regret giving it to you. She might put up with it for a short while because she loves you so much. But when she’s had enough, you’ll never feel her warmth again.

La base di qualsiasi relazione reale, significativa e a lungo termine è l'onestà. Se nascondete i vostri sentimenti, come potete aspettarvi che lei sia vostra?

She is an open book. She tells you she loves you. She gives you attention, and she is there when you need somebody to vent to. And she loves it. That’s what a commitment is!

If you don’t reciprocate it, you’re teaching her that she can live without you.

The thing about women is this. We are perfectly capable of being on our own. We don’t need a knight in shining armor to come sweep us of our feet.

We don’t need a man to help us make a living because we are successful and able all on our own. We don’t need you to rescue us and make us feel like we owe you something.

Tutto ciò che vogliamo è essere in una coppia impegnata in cui i nostri uomini ci trattino con lo stesso amore e rispetto con cui noi trattiamo loro.

If you love her, tell her! If you’re missing her, text her and make her eyes water with happiness! If you need her to come be your shoulder to cry on, call her, and she’ll be there!

Ignoring will get you nowhere. It doesn’t win you any points. All it does is make her see what a douche you are.

Give her your time, attention, and honesty. Don’t disappear when things get real, and prove to her that not all men are the same.

Be her man in good times and bad, and she’ll be yours for life.