As suas lições mais difíceis empurram-no para as suas maiores bênçãos

I won’t lie to you: nobody’s life is all roses and butterflies. Yes, there are some people who pretend that they have it all figured out and their every day is perfect, but that is nothing more than deception. 

De facto, a verdade é que todos nós temos momentos, dias, semanas, meses ou mesmo anos maus. Todos nós passamos por algumas coisas que preferíamos não viver, se tivéssemos a opção.

A verdade é que todos nós temos a nossa quota-parte de tristeza. Temos a nossa batalhas que mais ninguém conheceA nossa vida é uma vida de fracassos, que escondemos do resto do mundo (incluindo de nós próprios), e de derrotas que gostaríamos de esquecer. 

The worst part is that sometimes, life isn’t fair, whether we like to accept it or not. 

Sometimes, you do everything by the book, you’re extra careful about other people’s feelings, and you make sure that you don’t hurt anyone, but you simply don’t get the same treatment in return. 

As hard as you try to be the good guy, there are moments where you go through some things you don’t deserve.

Passa por um duro desgosto causado por um homem a quem deu todo o seu amor. É despedida de um emprego pelo qual fez tantos sacrifícios. 

Isso a melhor amiga que trataste como a irmã que nunca tiveste apunhala-nos pelas costas quando menos esperamos.

You can’t seem to make ends meet when it comes to money, even though you’ve been working hard ever since you can remember, while it seems that other people’s cash is falling from the sky without them ever doing anything to earn it.

When you look at things from this point of view, you can’t help but see yourself as cursed.

It’s like you are some kind of a magnet for all the misfortune that exists in this world, even though you don’t deserve it.

You can’t see the point of life. Where is the justice and why do bad things have to keep on happening to good people?

Bem, deixem-me revelar-vos um pequeno segredo: Everything you’re going through now will at one point serve as a lesson.

You don’t have to see it at the moment, but eventually, when time passes, you’ll notice that each one of your experiences, including the bad ones, taught you something.

You will learn that all of your pain, sadness, and heartbreaks happened for a reason. That they all shaped you into the person you’re today.

Most importantly, one day, you’ll realize that what you initially thought of as your worst curses actually turn out to be your toughest yet most valuable lessons.

No final do dia, estas lições empurram-nos para as nossas maiores bênçãos. 

Ensinam-nos a estar gratos por tudo o que a fé nos envia. A estar grato por todas as pessoas que se cruzam no teu caminho, mesmo quando a sua intenção é magoar-te. 

These lessons shape you into a better, improved, and updated version of yourself. They build you into the woman you’ve been destined to become all along. 

Todas as suas más experiências tornam-no mais sábio e inteligente. Além disso, elas tornar-vos mais fortes do que alguma vez te imaginaste ser. 

E essa é a maior bênção de todas: tornar-se mais poderoso e ter a força e a capacidade de obter o que quiser da vida.

Tudo aquilo por que passaste vai ajudar-te a abrir os olhos. As tuas maldições vão ensinar-te que podes viver sem todas as pessoas sem as quais pensavas que nunca poderias sobreviver.

It will help you take off your rose tinted glasses and see reality. It will make you realize that you’re way better off without all those toxic people in your life.

These curses will give you the most valuable lesson out there: Sometimes, when you think that you’ve lost someone or something, you’ve actually won a lot. 

After all, you can’t open your heart or your path to the ones who deserve you until you get rid of those who don’t. 

Basically, you can’t have happiness until you go through sadness and you can’t receive your blessings until you show that you have what it takes to truly understand your curses.