Às vezes as pessoas precisam de te deixar para poderem ver o teu verdadeiro valor

Há alturas em que a pessoa que mais amamos nos deixa como se nunca tivéssemos sido importantes para ela. Abandonam-nos quando mais precisamos deles, sem uma razão válida ou mesmo sem dizer uma palavra.

Momentos em que ficamos pendurados, apesar de termos feito o nosso melhor para manter a pessoa de quem gostamos ao nosso lado.

Momentos em que nos sentimos desiludidos e traídos, quando são as últimas coisas que merecemos sentir.

When something like this happens, you can’t help but wonder why you couldn’t be enough for them to stay. How come nothing you did for them was sufficient enough for them not to leave you?

How come all of the sacrifices you made weren’t enough? Did they not sense the depth of your love for them?

Foi exatamente isso que aconteceu com o seu ex-namorado, que a magoou da pior maneira possível. Partiu-te o coração como se nunca se importasse contigo e sem pensar duas vezes.

He walked away from you, convinced that he didn’t need you and that he could find someone better. Boy, how wrong was he!

I know you don’t see it now but the truth is that this guy just failed to see your true value. Não conseguiu ver que era uma pessoa extraordinária e uma beautiful woman you are and that is something he’ll regret as long as he breathes.

Or maybe he knew it all along? Maybe he got cold feet, being aware of the fact that he’d never be enough for you? Maybe ele estava de facto intimidado pela tua força e poder, sabendo que ele nunca te mereceu?

Either way, I just want you to trust me when it comes to one thing—letting you go was his loss, even though neither of you might not see it now.

No entanto, I promise you that there will come a time when this man will see what an awful mistake he made when he left you. A time when he’ll see that you are one of a kind and that he’ll never find a woman like you.

Porque, por vezes, as pessoas precisam de nos perder para verem o nosso verdadeiro valor. Por vezes, precisam de sentir a sua ausência para verem o valor da sua presença na vida deles.

Por vezes, precisam de ir à procura de algo melhor para perceberem que tu foste a melhor coisa que alguma vez lhes aconteceu.

I guarantee you that this is exactly what will happen with your ex—he will search for you in every woman who comes his way, just to see that you are nowhere to be found.

I guarantee you that he’ll spend the rest of his life lamenting the fact that he was the one who chose to live without you. That he’ll be para sempre assombrado by the memory of what he did to you and that he’ll understand the mistake he made before you know it.

Of course, once he realizes all of this, he’ll beg for a second chance. He’ll do everything in his power for you to take him back, as if nothing had happened.

No entanto, it will be too late to do anything because when he finally sees the consequences of his actions, you’ll be long gone.

Once he sees what he’s done, you’ll be happier than ever, far away from him, and he’ll be just a part of a distant memory.

Once he tries to come crawling back to you, you’ll be next to a homem de verdade who saw how worthy you were right from the start. Next to a man who didn’t have to lose you to see your true value.

So please, don’t lament over losing someone who was obviously never meant to be yours. Don’t cry over someone who failed to see your true value in time.

Em vez disso, be happy that you’ve gotten rid of this immature boy who didn’t know how to appreciate having someone as special as you by his side.

Agradeça por ele ter mostrado as suas verdadeiras cores a tempo e tenha fé que o karma lhe pagará por tudo o que lhe fez mais cedo do que pensa.