Por vezes, a pessoa que mais desejamos é aquela sem a qual estamos melhor
We give ourselves so much to people who don’t know how to give us what we deserve. We tend to ignore all the signs because we think that the person will change or that we will change them for the better. They will love us. They will cherish and appreciate us.
Or at least that’s what goes through our minds.
You are loved. And if it doesn’t seem like that right now, you are loved, adored! If he’s not the one who can love you, there is someone else out there, just waiting for you to make your appearance in their life and be the center of their Universe.
After so much time spent with him, spent in this constant suffering, you are starting to believe that that’s the only form of love that exists.
Even though you see the suffering you endure and the words you swallow, you still have the courage to call the feeling you have ‘love’. But it’s not. It will never be. Love will never be hurtful.
It’s not about the way you treat him. You know that you are giving everything you have to make him feel loved and you are giving him everything you are.
You are giving him yourself unconditionally. But ask yourself: “Is he doing the same for you? Or does he, just maybe, take advantage of your generosity?”
Your bank account has been drained since he’s in your life. Your energy has been drained and your skin can’t handle any more hits. But you confuse those hits with sparks flying. Or at least something you deserved. Ninguém merece ser tratado desta forma.
Strong. That’s what you are. Tu és forte. Mas, por vezes, a maior força está escondida na pessoa em que nos tornamos depois de deixar alguém tão tóxico como ele.
Porque, quando se sai de uma relação abusiva, a luta ainda agora começou. Agora é preciso reconstruir-se a partir dos pequenos pedaços que ele deixou para trás.
É preciso tempo e esforço. Levará tempo a apaixonar-se por si própria da mesma forma que o amava. Vai ser difícil e vai quebrar-se muitas vezes. Mas vai correr tudo bem. Ficarás mais forte a cada dia que passa. Mas deixa-o ir agora.
Let go of him and everything he has done. Because looking at him kissing someone else and not being able to breathe aren’t signs of love.
It’s more than just kissing another girl. It’s making you see that you are not enough for him. You are not able to keep him on your side and he makes it clear.
Even if you left now, he wouldn’t mind. Asking yourself ‘why’ is not necessary because he’ll find another victim. He will find someone else to torture. But make sure it’s not you anymore.
As much as you would want it to be OK again, as much as you would want to make it work, love isn’t enough when it comes from one person only.
You don’t want to be around someone who is OK with losing you. You might want him in your life more than anyone else, but you’re better off without him. Time will show you that clearly.
Estás melhor sem o homem who doesn’t know how to love you properly. Leave and find the right way to love yourself because you might have forgotten how to do that. So, pack your stuff and keep moving.
Every step of the way you will feel freer and more alive. Just keep moving and never look back at the man you once thought to be your soulmate because he turned out to be everything you didn’t need in life.
Por isso, continua. A vida é melhor do outro lado.
No one is worthy of your heart if they don’t know how to carry it with respect.
