Como amar uma rapariga quebrada e como ela o vai amar de volta

Amar uma rapariga destroçada será difícil. I don’t want to lie to you.

Loving her, in fact, will be the hardest thing there is. It will require a lot of effort and many times you’ll wonder if it’s even worth it.

The beautiful part about loving a broken-hearted girl is that only those who think it’s worth it get to see a butterfly born from the cocoon.

Só aqueles que ficam por cá tempo suficiente conseguem ver a beleza por detrás do amor uma rapariga quebrada.

Amar uma rapariga quebrada será cheio de inseguranças e dúvidasTambém, mas não só, do seu lado.

She’ll have a hard time believing you’ll stay.

She’ll have a hard time trusting you because her past made her insecure; because her past made her doubt every single thing there is.

Ela tem um coração frágil, o coração de uma menina, insegura e inocente como uma flor delicada.

The easiest thing you could do right now is break her. She’d snap like a twig, aching silently…in peace…all alone.

Even if you say you’ll stay, even when you promise you’ll be different, even though you do your best to hug and kiss out each and every doubt she has from her bones, there will always be a small dose of fear that you might turn out to be the same as the person that broke her.

Outrora uma bela exibição de uma mulher forte, transformou-se agora numa rapariga assustada e tímida.

A dor muda as pessoas e, sem dúvida, mudou-a profundamente.

Doubt will be haunting her, and she’ll fight it, but there will be days when she won’t be able to be brave anymore, and even though you do make her happy, she’ll end up lying on her bedroom floor, crying her soul out because of the fear she feels.

Talvez ninguém o compreenda, mas o mundo dela é um mundo cruel e frio para se viver.

Few are those who could find the courage to live with and survive the emotional pain she’s feeling every minute of every hour of every day.

Sometimes, when you’re with her, she won’t be able to give you all she has. Sometimes, she’ll fail to be the best version of herself.

Por vezes she won’t be able to take it anymore . Sometimes, she’ll forget to smile. Sometimes, she will want to be alone. And then you’ll know what’s she thinking about.

You’ll try to fix her. Mas como consertar uma rapariga quebrada? Será sequer possível?

You’ll try to make her do things that she isn’t sure she wants, thinking you’re helping.

You’ll try to make her be another version of herself, and you’ll do your best to fix what broke her.

Don’t. That won’t help. You’ll only push her away. You can’t fix her—only she can do that.

Ela é a única que pode pegar na sua vida frágil e erguê-la das cinzas para a tornar mais forte do que nunca.

Instead of wasting your energy on fixing her, why don’t you try and love her? Use your words to make her believe you’re staying.

Then turn your words into actions, and actually show her you’re staying.

Show her you love her. Give her more than words. Give her hope. Give her hope in tomorrow. Give her hope that one day, she’ll be complete again.

Faz com que ela acredite que as suas cicatrizes vão desaparecer. E quando fizeres tudo isto,   don’t let her go.

Make her a part of the story of your life—a story with a happy ending for the both of you, especially her.

Se lhe mostrar que confia nela e se lhe der espaço para confiar em si, ela vai amá-lo como nunca ninguém o amou antes. Ela vai amar-te de forma diferente.

Ela sabe o que merece.

Despite everything she’s been through, she is still a rapariga romântica no fundo.

And although she’s still a bit scared to sail on the sea of love, she will try once again because she’s not a quitter.

Só que, desta vez, os seus olhos estarão bem abertos e todos os seus sentidos estarão prontos para sentir o perigo.

At the first sign of possible heartbreak, she will be out! This time, this lucky broken girl knows how much she’s worth.

This time, she’s aware of how strong she is.

She won’t allow tears of pain to touch her face anymore. She won’t cry because she’s helpless, alone, and hurt!

Ela só consegue chorar de felicidade e orgulho. Conseguiu levantar-se, apanhar os pedaços da sua vida despedaçada e seguir em frente. Ela não sabia que tinha isso em si.

If you want her to love her, you’ll have to respect her strength and her stubbornness. She was once burnt because she trusted someone.

She has lost her strength because she gave herself to someone else. Don’t expect her to do the same this time, too.

Ela é cautelosa.

Her shields are up all the time because she’s not quite sure what to feel. She can hold you up one moment and move you away from her the other.

She only does this because she’s scared you’ll hurt her, so she tries to jump ahead of you by ‘removing’ you from her life before something bad happens to her.

She’s not lying about why she does it. She is very honest when it comes to her feelings and her reasons.

She is keeping her guard up for one simple reason—she’s been hurt like hell before and she’s not hiding it.

Ela luta as suas próprias batalhas.

Honestly, it’s pretty challenging to keep up with her. It’s challenging to understand her all of the time. But, it’s all worth her love.

She isn’t needy, and she’s not annoying.

Pelo contrário, ela nunca o incomodará com os seus problemas, porque trava as suas batalhas sozinha.

Sometimes her independence will bother you because she will keep everything to herself. You’ll have to drag everything out of her because she won’t say it to you all by herself.

When she’s hurting, she backs down.

Maybe her hurting has nothing to do with you, so don’t make a big deal out of it.

Don’t pressure her into confessing what is wrong with her, never get her in that situation because you’re only going to make things worse.

Quando ela se torna escura e se retira, é preciso ter cuidado. Nestas situações, a paciência é a chave .

Deixa-a estar. Deixa-a chorar as lágrimas que se estão a forçar a sair.

Don’t let her keep her pain inside her, and don’t force her to open up to you. She will do that all by herself. There is no need for you to pressure her into doing anything.

Ela nunca te deixará ir.

She has found love in you after a devastating heartbreak. Do you really think she’s going to give up on you at the first sign of trouble?

She would never do that because you already know she’s a fighter, and she doesn’t give up.

Ela fará tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para o manter, mas poderá interpretar as suas intenções de forma errada.

Ela é diferente de todos os que te amaram até agora. Ela faz as coisas de forma diferente e ama de forma diferente.

Maybe you won’t recognize her fighting for you in the beginning, but believe me, she is.

Ela nunca desistirá do amor.

She will always have faith in love. Whether she’s left with just a few pieces of her broken heart, she will use them to love someone again.

She will be scared, she will be terrified to the bone, but she will go for it anyway. It’s because she has faith and she believes. She will never stop believing.

Fica o tempo suficiente para ver o casulo a transformar-se numa bela borboleta. Fique o tempo suficiente para ver a beleza por trás de amar uma garota quebrada.

Porque todas as mulheres têm uma beleza tremenda, mas as que estão quebradas escondem a sua beleza.