Cómo amar a una chica rota y cómo ella te amará de vuelta

Amar a una chica rota será difícil. I don’t want to lie to you.

Loving her, in fact, will be the hardest thing there is. It will require a lot of effort and many times you’ll wonder if it’s even worth it.

The beautiful part about loving a broken-hearted girl is that only those who think it’s worth it get to see a butterfly born from the cocoon.

Sólo aquellos que se quedan el tiempo suficiente, llegan a ver la belleza que hay detrás del amor. una chica rota.

Amar a una chica rota estará lleno de inseguridades y dudaspero no sólo por tu parte.

She’ll have a hard time believing you’ll stay.

She’ll have a hard time trusting you because her past made her insecure; because her past made her doubt every single thing there is.

Tiene un corazón frágil, el corazón de una niña pequeña, insegura e inocente como una flor delicada.

The easiest thing you could do right now is break her. She’d snap like a twig, aching silently…in peace…all alone.

Even if you say you’ll stay, even when you promise you’ll be different, even though you do your best to hug and kiss out each and every doubt she has from her bones, there will always be a small dose of fear that you might turn out to be the same as the person that broke her.

Antaño una hermosa muestra de mujer fuerte, ahora se ha convertido en una niña asustadiza y tímida.

El dolor cambia a las personas y, sin duda, la ha cambiado por completo.

Doubt will be haunting her, and she’ll fight it, but there will be days when she won’t be able to be brave anymore, and even though you do make her happy, she’ll end up lying on her bedroom floor, crying her soul out because of the fear she feels.

Puede que nadie lo entienda nunca, pero su mundo es un mundo cruel y frío en el que vivir.

Few are those who could find the courage to live with and survive the emotional pain she’s feeling every minute of every hour of every day.

Sometimes, when you’re with her, she won’t be able to give you all she has. Sometimes, she’ll fail to be the best version of herself.

A veces she won’t be able to take it anymore . Sometimes, she’ll forget to smile. Sometimes, she will want to be alone. And then you’ll know what’s she thinking about.

You’ll try to fix her. Pero, ¿cómo arreglar a una chica rota? ¿Es posible?

You’ll try to make her do things that she isn’t sure she wants, thinking you’re helping.

You’ll try to make her be another version of herself, and you’ll do your best to fix what broke her.

Don’t. That won’t help. You’ll only push her away. You can’t fix her—only she can do that.

Ella es la única que puede tomar su frágil vida y reconstruirla desde las cenizas para volverla más fuerte que nunca.

Instead of wasting your energy on fixing her, why don’t you try and love her? Use your words to make her believe you’re staying.

Then turn your words into actions, and actually show her you’re staying.

Show her you love her. Give her more than words. Give her hope. Give her hope in tomorrow. Give her hope that one day, she’ll be complete again.

Hazle creer que sus cicatrices desaparecerán. Y cuando hagas todo esto,   don’t let her go.

Make her a part of the story of your life—a story with a happy ending for the both of you, especially her.

Si le demuestras que confías en ella y le das espacio para que confíe en ti, te querrá como nadie te ha querido antes. Te amará de forma diferente.

Sabe lo que se merece.

Despite everything she’s been through, she is still a chica romántica en el fondo.

And although she’s still a bit scared to sail on the sea of love, she will try once again because she’s not a quitter.

Sólo que esta vez, sus ojos estarán bien abiertos, y todos sus sentidos estarán preparados para sentir el peligro.

At the first sign of possible heartbreak, she will be out! This time, this lucky broken girl knows how much she’s worth.

This time, she’s aware of how strong she is.

She won’t allow tears of pain to touch her face anymore. She won’t cry because she’s helpless, alone, and hurt!

Sólo puede llorar de felicidad y orgullo. Ha conseguido levantarse, recoger los pedazos de su vida destrozada y seguir adelante. Nunca supo que podía hacerlo.

If you want her to love her, you’ll have to respect her strength and her stubbornness. She was once burnt because she trusted someone.

She has lost her strength because she gave herself to someone else. Don’t expect her to do the same this time, too.

Es reservada.

Her shields are up all the time because she’s not quite sure what to feel. She can hold you up one moment and move you away from her the other.

She only does this because she’s scared you’ll hurt her, so she tries to jump ahead of you by ‘removing’ you from her life before something bad happens to her.

She’s not lying about why she does it. She is very honest when it comes to her feelings and her reasons.

She is keeping her guard up for one simple reason—she’s been hurt like hell before and she’s not hiding it.

Ella lucha sus propias batallas.

Honestly, it’s pretty challenging to keep up with her. It’s challenging to understand her all of the time. But, it’s all worth her love.

She isn’t needy, and she’s not annoying.

Por el contrario, nunca te molestará con sus problemas porque lucha sus batallas ella sola.

Sometimes her independence will bother you because she will keep everything to herself. You’ll have to drag everything out of her because she won’t say it to you all by herself.

When she’s hurting, she backs down.

Maybe her hurting has nothing to do with you, so don’t make a big deal out of it.

Don’t pressure her into confessing what is wrong with her, never get her in that situation because you’re only going to make things worse.

Cuando se oscurece y se retira, hay que tener cuidado. En estas situaciones, la paciencia es la clave .

Déjala en paz. Déjala llorar esas lágrimas que se están forzando a salir.

Don’t let her keep her pain inside her, and don’t force her to open up to you. She will do that all by herself. There is no need for you to pressure her into doing anything.

Nunca te dejará ir.

She has found love in you after a devastating heartbreak. Do you really think she’s going to give up on you at the first sign of trouble?

She would never do that because you already know she’s a fighter, and she doesn’t give up.

Hará todo lo posible por retenerte, pero puede que interpretes mal sus intenciones.

Ella es diferente a todos los que te han amado hasta ahora. Ella hace las cosas de manera diferente, y ella ama de manera diferente.

Maybe you won’t recognize her fighting for you in the beginning, but believe me, she is.

Nunca renunciará al amor.

She will always have faith in love. Whether she’s left with just a few pieces of her broken heart, she will use them to love someone again.

She will be scared, she will be terrified to the bone, but she will go for it anyway. It’s because she has faith and she believes. She will never stop believing.

Quédate lo suficiente para ver cómo el capullo se convierte en una hermosa mariposa. Quédate lo suficiente para ver la belleza de amar a una chica rota.

Porque todas las mujeres tienen una belleza tremenda, pero las rotas ocultan su belleza.