Como saber se uma rapariga gosta de ti por mensagem - 30 sinais claros

Tem-se interrogado como saber se uma rapariga gosta de si por mensagem ? Admit it. You’ve been thinking about this question for some time now. 

It’s not that dating wasn’t already challenging enough without texting, right? But, here’s the thing: Conversas de texto são um aspeto importante de qualquer tipo de relação atualmente. 

Permitam-me que o demonstre. You like a girl, so you text her. You’re dating, you text. You’re in a relationship, so you text each other! 

Almost every single romance starts with texting because this has become the main means of communication these days. So, once you dive into a “texting phase,” you will ask yourself many questions about that one girl you’re texting.

Uma das mais importantes será: Como é que sei se ela gosta de mim por mensagem? 

Yes, girls may seem complex and mysterious most of the time, but trust me, it’s not that hard to know if she likes you over text.

You just need to look for the right signs, and you’ll know if she likes you for sure! If you notice most of the signs below when you two text, congratulations, she’s TOTALLY into you!

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You Over Text: 30 Obvious Signs She’s Into You 

 

You’re not the only one initiating the conversation

Remember, guys: If you’re the only one initiating conversation ALL THE TIME, then there’s seriously something wrong with your (potential) romance. 

So, if the girl you’re texting makes sure to also initiate the conversation from time to time, this is a huge indicator that she likes you.

She wants to know what’s going on in your life, she wants to share things with you, and she wants to keep you updated on things that are happening in her life. 

If both of you initiate conversations, then your ‘texting phase’ is reciprocal, and there’s nothing you should worry about!

Ela responde em segundos ou minutos 

You would be surprised how many girls refuse to reply the same second (or in a few minutes) after receiving a text because they don’t want to be seen as too available. 

Let me simplify it for you: We don’t want you to think that we’re sitting next to our cellphones the entire day waiting for you to text us. We want to appear busy, having an exciting life with minimal free time. 

BUT if a girl replies to you within seconds or minutes almost every single time, this means she no longer gives a damn about those unwritten rules and you’re really close to arranjar uma namorada.

She wants to reply to your text the same second she receives it because she genuinely likes you and doesn’t care how anyone interprets her speedy responses (or lack thereof). 

However, note that things are slightly different if you’re namorar uma rapariga que tem uma mente ansiosa porque, na maioria das vezes, ela pensa demais e preocupa-se com as coisas (incluindo responder em segundos).

Envia mensagens de texto longas com muitas perguntas de seguimento

Se ela lhe enviar mensagens de texto longas, isso é um bom sinal! Uma rapariga que não está interessada em si NUNCA perderia o seu tempo a enviar-lhe mensagens longas. 

I’m a girl. I have friends who are girls. So, trust me on this one. If I don’t like a guy, I would never bother sending a longer text than necessary or keeping the conversation going.

If she sends you long texts accompanied by follow-up questions, this means she’s making an effort to establish a meaningful conversation with you because she CARES.

If it weren’t so, she would send you one short sentence or a one-word reply. Why? Because she obviously doesn’t care.

Apart from sending you long texts, she also won’t worry about envio duplo de mensagens de texto you. Whether it’s on WhatsApp, SMS, Tinder, Instagram, or Facebook Messenger, if she double texts you, know that she LIKES you.

If you aren ‘t familiar with it, O envio de mensagens de texto duplas é considerado um dos maiores pecados no mundo dos encontros, por isso, se uma rapariga ainda decide fazê-lo, então só pode imaginar o quanto ela gosta de si.

Any change in your texting style doesn’t go unnoticed

In case you didn’t know, women notice EVERYTHING (and I really mean everything), especially when they like someone. So, if you usually send her a good morning text and one day, for some reason, you don’t, she will notice. 

Se costuma enviar-lhe muitos emojis nas mensagens de texto e depois pára, é provável que ela lhe pergunte se está tudo bem. 

Uma rapariga que esteja interessada em si vai reparar em todas as mudanças no seu estilo de envio de mensagens. Ela pode entrar na zona do pensamento excessivo e começar a fazer a si própria as seguintes perguntas: Porque é que ele deixou de me enviar mensagens de repente ? Devo enviar-lhe uma mensagem ou não?? 

Ela exprime-se de uma forma impressionante e interessante

Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you over text ? When a girl is not really interested in you romantically, she won’t care about being fun, interesting, or catching your attention. 

Mas se ela gostar mesmo de si, fará questão de se exprimir de uma forma interessante. O que é que isto significa? 

Isso significa que ela evitará repetir-se e implementará muitos elementos novos nos seus textos. Esta é uma das sinais óbvios de que uma rapariga quer que repares nela. 

For example, when I text a guy I’m into, I sometimes include the teddy bear emoji into our conversation and add a colon next to it, so it seems like a teddy bear is texting him. 

Tem o seguinte aspeto: ? : “You can tell me anything you want. I promise I won’t tell her.”

A maioria dos rapazes acha isto giro e invulgar, por isso as nossas conversas são sempre divertidas, porque quero que ele se divirta quando me envia mensagens e eu quero exprimir-me de formas divertidas. Falando de uma situação em que todos ganham, certo?

Enviar muitos emojis tornou-se o seu passatempo nas mensagens de texto

Girls LOVE all kinds of emojis because they help us express ourselves in a fun way. If you ask me, emoticons are body language signs in the texting world, so you should definitely pay attention to them if you haven’t so far.

Sabes que ela gosta de ti se te enviar um muitos emojis (especialmente rostos sorridentes) because this is an obvious sign that she’s having a good time texting you. 

Girls sending laughing emojis are always a positive sign when it comes to dating. It is proof that you’re doing everything right because if you weren’t, trust me, she wouldn’t care about sending you a single emoji, let alone a few of them in one convo.

Ela envia-lhe mensagens de texto regularmente

Is she messaging you frequently? Do your conversations ever stop, or do you have continued conversations? For example, when I text a guy I’m totally into, our conversations become continual, meaning there is no “Hi” or “Bye,” but we just continue writing from where we stopped off.

Isto acontece quando se tem uma forte química textual porque nunca se esgotam os temas. You have so much to share with them, and you can’t get enough of them sharing things with you. 

It’s truly one of the most special moments of every ‘texting phase,’ and that is how you know that you’re on the same page. Of course, not every conversation can be continual from the beginning, but if she texts you regularly, it’s a great sign that this girl truly likes you. 

Por vezes, ela copia o teu estilo de envio de mensagens 

Did you know that in face-to-face conversations, mimicking the other person’s body language means that you’re attracted to them? The same thing applies to texting but in a slightly different way.

So, if she copies your texting style, you know that she’s attracted to you. Este é um daqueles sinais subtis a que nem toda a gente presta atenção, o que é totalmente compreensível.

For example, let’s say that you really like to use the word ‘Certainly’ when texting her, and you know that she seldom uses it. So, if she suddenly starts using it more frequently, then she’s copying your texting style because she LIKES you.

She’s doing it on a subconscious level, meaning she’s not really aware of it. The more you text, the more you’ll copy each other’s texting style, which is really cute if you ask me!

She finds time to text you even if she’s busy 

I know for a fact that when I’m writing (read: working), I don’t respond to any messages or calls (unless it’s something urgent). Well, I’ve noticed that this rule is regularly broken when a guy I like texts or calls me.

I just can’t help myself but share a few words with him because he really makes my day, and no matter how busy I am at the moment, I will always find time to, at least, tell him that I’m busy. 

So, if you aren’t sure whether this girl likes you, pay attention to this. Does she text you when she’s busy, and does she also tell you that she’s busy, but you are a ‘wonderful distraction’?

Torna-se uma profissional a provocar-te

A provocação é o meu aspeto preferido das mensagens de texto. Porquê? Porque requer esforço, um bom sentido de humor e vontade de nos provocarmos uns aos outros.

If her teasing efforts are really strong, then you know she’s totally into you. Ela vai provocar-vos com fotografias e mensagens de texto, emojis; é só dizer.

So, if you’re wondering como atraí-la através de mensagens de texto, just do what she’s doing. Reciprocate! Provocar-lhe as costasser divertido, e fazê-la rir. 

But make sure not to overdo it. Always pay attention to her mood; how she’s feeling at the moment. There’s no point in teasing her when she’s feeling off. This would only make things worse, so remember this piece of golden advice. 

Ela elogia-o MUITO 

Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you over text ? Wonder no more. If she compliments you frequently, this is a huge indicator that she’s attracted to you. 

At some point, you might feel like you couldn ‘t be that handsome, cute, and adorable in her eyes, but trust me, you are. Se ela o elogia, isso significa que quer que se sinta apreciado, notado e desejado (por ela).

Isto também inclui elogiar as fotografias que publica nas redes sociais. Quando uma rapariga gosta de si, vai elogiar tanto a sua personalidade como a sua aparência física. 

If you’re a regular at the gym, prepare to receive a deluge of compliments because she will be amazed by your strong will and effort to work on yourself. 

Ela faz-te saber o quanto és especial para ela

Sabe como é difícil para uma rapariga abrir-se consigo e dizer-lhe o quanto você significa para ela? Em tempos de jogadores, fóbicos de compromissos e outros indivíduos masculinos desafiantes, todas as raparigas são cautelosas quando se trata de conhecer alguém novo.

Don’t expect her to tell you how special you are to her after a few texting sessions because it’s too early for that. She’s still testando-o. Give her some time, and if she expresses her feelings for you, then you know she thinks you’re special and enjoys texting you.

Se notar todos os outros sinais, exceto este, é um indicador de que uma rapariga tímida gosta de si. If she’s shy, don’t force her to open up to you. 

Dê-lhe algum espaço e tempo, e ela fá-lo-á por si própria. Continue a fazê-la rir e a fazê-la sentir-se especial, e tudo o resto se encaixará.

Partilha consigo as suas citações, memes, filmes ou canções favoritas

I don’t know about you, but when I like someone, I enter this I-want-to-share-everything-with-you mode, and I often overdo it because I obviously can’t help myself.

Quando gosto de alguém, quero que essa pessoa saiba o que gosto, o que não gosto, os meus filmes preferidos, as minhas canções, etc. Se reparares que ela sente o mesmo (partilha todas essas coisas contigo), então sabes que ela gosta de ti.

She might also propose watching some movies together, which is another great sign of her affection for you. Once she starts sharing all these things, keep in mind to reciprocate and introduce her to your likes and dislikes. That’s how you’ll arranjar uma namorada de certeza!

Ela dá-te muita atenção

You’re probably thinking to yourself: How does one shower another person with attention in a texting environment? Simple.

Dar-lhe atenção significa fazer-lhe elogios, arranjar sempre tempo para lhe enviar uma mensagem, por muito ocupada que esteja nesse momento, etc. 

But there’s one thing you need to pay attention to. Se ela lhe dá muita atenção e depois se afasta (deixa de o fazer durante algum tempo), isso significa provavelmente que ela gosta de si mas está a fazer-se difícil.

Sim. A maioria das raparigas gosta de se fazer de difícil, porque querem que compita por elas, que melhore o seu jogo e que se esforce nas suas tentativas de cortejar. 

Don’t worry. This ‘playing hard-to-get game won’t last forever. After some time, she will stop doing it and start showering you with her undivided attention 24/7. Maybe we like doing this to help you appreciate our attention more than you usually would.

Mantém-nos actualizados sobre o que está a fazer

Oh, yes. If a girl likes you, trust me, you will know about almost everything that’s going on in her life. 

You will know what time she wakes up, when she comes home from work, what she’s up to in her free time, what her dog/cat is doing, etc. Talvez tenha exagerado com a última, mas já perceberam a ideia.

If you want to know why we like doing this, it’s because it helps us stay connected with you. It’s our way of allowing you to be a part of our lives.

When you know her schedule, it’s easier for you to understand her type of personality and the way her mind operates. So, embrace it!

She’s interested in your future plans

Honestly, if I don’t care about the guy I’m texting, I certainly won’t ask him about his future plans or anything of the sort. 

So, if the girl you’re texting asks you about your future intentions, plans, and so on, it means she genuinely wants to know what is and will be going on in your life.

Maybe she wants to be a part of your future, and she wants to know if she stands a chance. For example, if you were to move to another city, it wouldn’t be easy for you to stay in touch.

When they like a guy, girls think of everything in advance. We even go so far that we start imagining how our future kids would look (if we decide to have them), and we haven’t even been on a first date yet. 

Yes, a female’s brain is incredibly complex, and don’t even try to understand it. I’ve tried and failed. (Note the sarcastic intention behind the last statement because I’m female.)

Ela ri-se de quase tudo o que tu dizes

I know this will probably sound stupid, but when a girl likes you, she can’t help but laugh at almost everything you say or text her. I’ll try to explain this phenomenon in the simplest way possible.

So, when we’re talking or texting a guy we like, the positive energy spreads through our bodies, and it feels like you’re high on what you’re doing at that moment. 

Evidently, feel-good chemicals like dopamine play a part in this, so don’t think that you’re a stand-up comedian.

Joking aside, if she keeps sending you  ‘ LOL,’ ‘ROFL,’ ‘ LMAO,’ ‘ haha, ’ and other laughing variations, then you know she’s having a good time texting you. 

But if the only thing she ever does is send you one-word replies such as ‘ LOL,’ ‘yes,’ or ‘no,’ you should ask yourself the following: Is she ‘bad at texting’ or just not that into me?

Tem química textual

Textual chemistry is one of the biggest signs a girl truly likes you! Do you know why? Because chemistry simply cannot exist if both parties aren ‘t on the same page. 

If she doesn’t like you and you’re into her, you won’t be able to establish textual chemistry. It’s as simple as that. 

But if she’s easy to talk to, open, reciprocating, compliments you, shares things with you, etc., it means she’s initiating a connection with you on a deeper level. If you’re doing the same thing, then química textual é inevitável.

As conversas profundas são uma coisa

If you two have strong textual chemistry, you’ll never run out of deep and interesting topics to talk about. From alien invasion to the meaning of life, deep conversations will become your favorite activity.

Also, you won’t shy away from talking about real life issues. You will enjoy learning each other’s perspectives, contradicting each other and compromising, and so on.

Agora é o vosso momento de brilhar, homens! A forma mais fácil de get a girl’s attention é exprimir-se de forma criativa. That means you shouldn’t be generic when it comes to both texting and real life conversations.

Don’t text or say the first thing that comes to your mind. Think about the topic and thoughtfully express yourself. If you’re able to do that, I can guarantee you that she will be more than impressed with your texting performance.

Ela envia mensagens de texto sedutoras 

Quer saber como saber se uma rapariga gosta de si através de uma mensagem de texto? Bem, uma forma segura de saber que uma rapariga gosta de si é se ela se tornar sedutora.

Ela envia-lhe textos sedutores e de flirt where she teases you in a flirtatious way and displays her sense of humor like a true goddess? If she does, she’s doing it for a reason.

She wants to catch and keep your attention as you’re texting, and she knows that the easiest way to do so is by ser sedutor, espirituoso e divertido. 

A flirtatious girl is a girl who is genuinely interested in you, so there’s no need to overthink it. You can trust me on this one.

Ela envia-te fotografias dela própria

When girls like someone, they can’t help themselves but want to share everything with that person. This includes photos of themselves as well.

Se esta rapariga gostar de ti, vais receber muitas fotos do Snapchat, selfies, etc. Ela também te vai enviar muitas capturas de ecrã hilariantes, porque quer fazer-te ganhar o dia!

Suddenly, she won’t really care about posting photos on social media for other people to see. Ela estará mais preocupada em enviar as suas melhores fotografias para si. 

Why? Because she will be preoccupied with impressing you and not others. She will want you to be her man, and she won’t care about the others.

Ela faz-lhe muitas perguntas pessoais

Qual é o seu maior receio? Trabalha para viver ou vive para trabalhar? O que pensas das relações à distância? Já alguma vez traíste uma rapariga?

A girl who is into you will ask you these and similar questions because she’s interested in your personal life more than anything else. 

Ela vai memorizar todas as respostas, por isso não se esqueça de a impressionar. Por mais engraçado que possa parecer, temos um compartimento secreto na nossa cabeça onde recolhemos dados sobre alguém de quem gostamos.

Actually, this applies to every single person on earth and not only girls. So, if this girl asks you lots of personal questions, maybe it’s high time you fazer-se a ela.

Partilha muitos pormenores pessoais sobre a sua vida

Para além de lhe fazer muitas perguntas pessoais, ela também se certificará de partilhar muitos pormenores pessoais sobre a sua vida. Falará sobre a sua infância, amigos, trabalho, família, coisas de que gosta, passatempos, etc.

Ela fará tudo isso porque quer que a vejam, a sintam e compreendam o seu estilo de vida e a sua personalidade. Se, de cada vez que lhe enviar uma mensagem, aprender algo novo sobre ela, já está!

She has probably developed a plan to give you info about herself bit by bit (so that she doesn’t overwhelm you and so you are left thirsty for more). Yup, that’s what we do when we really like a guy.

We REALLY want to share everything with you, but at the same time, we’re also scared of overdoing it. Por isso, se ela parecer reservada de vez em quando, saiba que é essa a razão por detrás disso. 

She’s interested in your love life

Does she ask you about your past romances or current ones (if there are any)? If a girl is interested in your love life, this is the surest sign that she hasn’t put you in the friend zone and that she probably genuinely likes you, yay!

This is pretty much self-explanatory. Why would she be interested in your life if she didn’t like you, right?

She wants to know if you’re single or dating anyone at the moment. Ela quer saber o que correu mal nos vossos romances anteriores para se poder preparar (estou a brincar), mas, mesmo assim, isto não está longe da verdade.

If she asks you any of these questions, be prepared. Accentuate and highlight, if needed, that you’re single and totally ready to mingle! (God, I love that phrase so much.)

Enviar-lhe mensagens de bom dia e boa noite tornou-se parte da sua rotina

Se uma rapariga te mandar textos de bom dia and good night texts regularly, she wants you to know that you’re the first person she thinks of when she wakes up and the last thing she thinks of when she goes to sleep. 

Que giro, não é? Recentemente, um tipo a quem envio mensagens disse-me: Gosto muito quando me envias boa noite textos because it means I’m on your mind before you go to sleep. 

And, damn, he was right! I’m ashamed to admit that I think about him almost all the time. I’m even thinking about him when writing this because if I didn’t, I wouldn’t be mentioning him, right?

A questão é que, quando as raparigas gostam de alguém, vão pensar MUITO nessa pessoa (tal como todos os seres humanos), e será difícil para elas resistir a desejar-lhe bom dia ou boa noite.

Ela envia-lhe uma fotografia dela sem maquilhagem

Here’s the thing with photos: A girl would NEVER, EVER send you a picture of herself without makeup on if she doesn’t feel totally comfortable around you. 

Se ela lhe enviar uma fotografia sem maquilhagem, é um excelente sinal de que confia em si, de que se sente à vontade para partilhar o seu verdadeiro eu consigo e de que é quem é.

Enviar uma fotografia sem maquilhagem é um ato de coragem por si só, especialmente quando se tem aquelas bolsas irritantes debaixo dos olhos (eu tenho-as e odeio-as). 

If I’m willing to send such a photo to a guy, it means I like him more than he could ever imagine. 

I mean, we live in times when the majority of girls literally sleep with makeup on in case of an emergency ( LOL ), so appreciate the fact that this girl is not afraid to contradict society’s imposed standards. 

She sends ‘thinking of you’ texts

Como saber se uma rapariga gosta de si over text? If she sends you those sentimental ‘thinking of you’ texts, then you shouldn’t question her affection for you!

The same thing goes for those random texts where she’s in a store and sees something that reminds her of you. Pode ser a coisa mais trivial do mundo, mas ela envia-lha na mesma porque essa coisa trivial significa o mundo para ela.

Remember when I said that when we really like someone, we think about that one person 24/7? Well, that’s exactly how we end up connecting the object of our affection with random things around us.

Quanto mais pensamos neles, mais eles se tornam parte da nossa vida quotidiana e de tudo o que fazemos, desde as compras de supermercado até ao passeio.

Ela quer telefonar-lhe ou fazer-lhe uma videochamada

If this is not the ultimate sign of her genuine affection for you, then I don’t know what is. If this girl wants to talk to you over phone or video call, it means she wants to hear your voice, see you and connect with you on a deeper level.

Nesse caso, aprender a manter uma conversa com uma rapariga is a must if you want to avoid awkward silences. If you’re a shy guy, video calls might be too much for you, but don’t worry. You can always tell her that, and I’m sure she will understand. 

Then make sure to compensate in face-to-face conversations for the lack of video calls, and she’ll be more than satisfied.

Ela envia mensagens de texto maliciosas

Do you think a girl would ever send a naughty text to someone she wasn’t interested in? I thought so. Se ela gostar mesmo de si, as mensagens marotas também farão parte do seu estilo de mensagens.

Não, ela não lhe vai enviar este tipo de textos a toda a hora, mas vai surpreendê-lo de vez em quando. Fá-lo-á porque quer despertar o seu desejo e a sua luxúria. 

Todos Como saber se uma rapariga gosta de ti por mensagem questionário vai fazer-vos esta pergunta: Ela costuma namoriscar contigo? As mensagens de texto maliciosas são também uma forma de namoriscar, por isso, se a sua resposta for sim, sabe que ela gosta de si.

Ela inicia um encontro 

Ela quer fazer-lhe um FaceTime na vida real? Ela disse algo como: Penso que devemos encontrar-se e ter um cara a cara conversa.

If a girl initiates a date (which is rare), then you’re a lucky guy! Prepare for plenty of deep eye-contact sessions and other magical moments of hanging out with someone you like.

If she doesn’t do it, don’t worry. There are plenty of formas brilhantes de convidar uma rapariga para sair por mensagem de texto.

Este é o meu favorito: “I’ve been gathering the courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I’d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.”

Seriously, don’t mess it up!

Espero que a questão da como saber se uma rapariga gosta de si por mensagem no longer bothers you because you finally know the truth. If this girl likes you, don’t mess it up.

Don’t let her think: He only texts me when he’s bored or lonely. Don’t let her wait too long for your reply. Don’t play games with her.

Se sentir desconforto ao enviar mensagens de texto, faça uma pausa e tente enviar-lhe novamente uma mensagem no dia seguinte. Seja inteligente, criativo e divirta-se!