Cómo saber si le gustas a una chica por SMS - 30 señales claras

¿Te has estado preguntando cómo saber si le gustas a una chica por SMS ? Admit it. You’ve been thinking about this question for some time now. 

It’s not that dating wasn’t already challenging enough without texting, right? But, here’s the thing: Conversaciones de texto son un aspecto importante de todo tipo de relaciones hoy en día. 

Permítame que se lo demuestre. You like a girl, so you text her. You’re dating, you text. You’re in a relationship, so you text each other! 

Almost every single romance starts with texting because this has become the main means of communication these days. So, once you dive into a “texting phase,” you will ask yourself many questions about that one girl you’re texting.

Uno de los más importantes será: ¿Cómo sé si le gusto por mensaje de texto? 

Yes, girls may seem complex and mysterious most of the time, but trust me, it’s not that hard to know if she likes you over text.

You just need to look for the right signs, and you’ll know if she likes you for sure! If you notice most of the signs below when you two text, congratulations, she’s TOTALLY into you!

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You Over Text: 30 Obvious Signs She’s Into You 

 

You’re not the only one initiating the conversation

Remember, guys: If you’re the only one initiating conversation ALL THE TIME, then there’s seriously something wrong with your (potential) romance. 

So, if the girl you’re texting makes sure to also initiate the conversation from time to time, this is a huge indicator that she likes you.

She wants to know what’s going on in your life, she wants to share things with you, and she wants to keep you updated on things that are happening in her life. 

If both of you initiate conversations, then your ‘texting phase’ is reciprocal, and there’s nothing you should worry about!

Responde en segundos o minutos 

You would be surprised how many girls refuse to reply the same second (or in a few minutes) after receiving a text because they don’t want to be seen as too available. 

Let me simplify it for you: We don’t want you to think that we’re sitting next to our cellphones the entire day waiting for you to text us. We want to appear busy, having an exciting life with minimal free time. 

BUT if a girl replies to you within seconds or minutes almost every single time, this means she no longer gives a damn about those unwritten rules and you’re really close to conseguir novia.

She wants to reply to your text the same second she receives it because she genuinely likes you and doesn’t care how anyone interprets her speedy responses (or lack thereof). 

However, note that things are slightly different if you’re salir con una chica que tiene una mente ansiosa porque la mayoría de las veces, pensará demasiado y se preocupará por las cosas (incluso por responder en cuestión de segundos).

Envía textos de novela con muchas preguntas de seguimiento.

Si te envía mensajes de texto largos, ¡es una buena señal! Una chica que no está interesada en ti NUNCA perdería el tiempo enviándote mensajes largos. 

I’m a girl. I have friends who are girls. So, trust me on this one. If I don’t like a guy, I would never bother sending a longer text than necessary or keeping the conversation going.

If she sends you long texts accompanied by follow-up questions, this means she’s making an effort to establish a meaningful conversation with you because she CARES.

If it weren’t so, she would send you one short sentence or a one-word reply. Why? Because she obviously doesn’t care.

Apart from sending you long texts, she also won’t worry about doble envío de mensajes you. Whether it’s on WhatsApp, SMS, Tinder, Instagram, or Facebook Messenger, if she double texts you, know that she LIKES you.

If you aren ‘t familiar with it, Los mensajes dobles se consideran uno de los mayores pecados en el mundo de las citas, así que si una chica decide hacerlo, imagínate lo mucho que le gustas.

Any change in your texting style doesn’t go unnoticed

In case you didn’t know, women notice EVERYTHING (and I really mean everything), especially when they like someone. So, if you usually send her a good morning text and one day, for some reason, you don’t, she will notice. 

Si sueles enviarle muchos emojis cuando le mandas mensajes y luego dejas de hacerlo, es probable que te pregunte si todo va bien. 

Una chica a la que le gustes notará cada cambio en tu estilo de enviar mensajes. Puede que entre en la zona de pensar demasiado y empiece a hacerse las siguientes preguntas: ¿Por qué dejó de mandarme mensajes de repente? ? ¿Debo enviarle un mensaje de texto o no?? 

Se expresa de forma impresionante e interesante

Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you over text ? When a girl is not really interested in you romantically, she won’t care about being fun, interesting, or catching your attention. 

Pero si realmente le gustas, se asegurará de expresarse de forma interesante. ¿Qué significa esto? 

Esto significa que evitará repetirse e introducirá muchos elementos nuevos en sus textos. Este es uno de los señales evidentes de que una chica quiere que te fijes en ella. 

For example, when I text a guy I’m into, I sometimes include the teddy bear emoji into our conversation and add a colon next to it, so it seems like a teddy bear is texting him. 

Se parece a esto: ? : “You can tell me anything you want. I promise I won’t tell her.”

A la mayoría de los chicos esto les parece mono e inusual, así que nuestras conversaciones son siempre divertidas porque quiero que él se lo pase bien cuando me envíe mensajes, y yo quiero expresarme de forma divertida. Hablando de una situación en la que todos ganan, ¿verdad?

Enviar montones de emojis se ha convertido en su afición.

Girls LOVE all kinds of emojis because they help us express ourselves in a fun way. If you ask me, emoticons are body language signs in the texting world, so you should definitely pay attention to them if you haven’t so far.

Sabes que le gustas si te manda un muchos emojis (especialmente caras sonrientes) because this is an obvious sign that she’s having a good time texting you. 

Girls sending laughing emojis are always a positive sign when it comes to dating. It is proof that you’re doing everything right because if you weren’t, trust me, she wouldn’t care about sending you a single emoji, let alone a few of them in one convo.

Te envía mensajes de texto con regularidad

Is she messaging you frequently? Do your conversations ever stop, or do you have continued conversations? For example, when I text a guy I’m totally into, our conversations become continual, meaning there is no “Hi” or “Bye,” but we just continue writing from where we stopped off.

Esto sucede cuando se tiene una fuerte química textual, porque nunca se pueden agotar los temas. You have so much to share with them, and you can’t get enough of them sharing things with you. 

It’s truly one of the most special moments of every ‘texting phase,’ and that is how you know that you’re on the same page. Of course, not every conversation can be continual from the beginning, but if she texts you regularly, it’s a great sign that this girl truly likes you. 

A veces copia tu estilo de enviar mensajes 

Did you know that in face-to-face conversations, mimicking the other person’s body language means that you’re attracted to them? The same thing applies to texting but in a slightly different way.

So, if she copies your texting style, you know that she’s attracted to you. Esta es una de esas señales sutiles a las que no todo el mundo presta atención, lo cual es totalmente comprensible.

For example, let’s say that you really like to use the word ‘Certainly’ when texting her, and you know that she seldom uses it. So, if she suddenly starts using it more frequently, then she’s copying your texting style because she LIKES you.

She’s doing it on a subconscious level, meaning she’s not really aware of it. The more you text, the more you’ll copy each other’s texting style, which is really cute if you ask me!

She finds time to text you even if she’s busy 

I know for a fact that when I’m writing (read: working), I don’t respond to any messages or calls (unless it’s something urgent). Well, I’ve noticed that this rule is regularly broken when a guy I like texts or calls me.

I just can’t help myself but share a few words with him because he really makes my day, and no matter how busy I am at the moment, I will always find time to, at least, tell him that I’m busy. 

So, if you aren’t sure whether this girl likes you, pay attention to this. Does she text you when she’s busy, and does she also tell you that she’s busy, but you are a ‘wonderful distraction’?

Se convierte en una profesional de las bromas

Las bromas son mi aspecto favorito de los mensajes de texto. ¿Por qué? Porque requiere esfuerzo, sentido del humor y ganas de bromear.

If her teasing efforts are really strong, then you know she’s totally into you. Se burlará de los dos con fotos, mensajes de texto, emojislo que quieras.

So, if you’re wondering cómo atraerla a través de mensajes de texto, just do what she’s doing. Reciprocate! Bromea con su espaldaser divertido, y hacerla reír. 

But make sure not to overdo it. Always pay attention to her mood; how she’s feeling at the moment. There’s no point in teasing her when she’s feeling off. This would only make things worse, so remember this piece of golden advice. 

Te piropea MUCHO 

Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you over text ? Wonder no more. If she compliments you frequently, this is a huge indicator that she’s attracted to you. 

At some point, you might feel like you couldn ‘t be that handsome, cute, and adorable in her eyes, but trust me, you are. Si te hace un cumplido, significa que quiere que te sientas apreciado, notado y deseado (por ella).

Esto también incluye hacerte cumplidos en las fotos que cuelgues en las redes sociales. Cuando le gustas a una chica, hará cumplidos tanto de tu personalidad como de tu aspecto físico. 

If you’re a regular at the gym, prepare to receive a deluge of compliments because she will be amazed by your strong will and effort to work on yourself. 

Te hace saber lo especial que eres para ella

¿Sabes lo difícil que es para una chica abrirse a ti y decirte lo mucho que significas para ella? En tiempos de jugadores, fóbicos al compromiso y otros individuos masculinos desafiantes, todas las chicas son cautelosas cuando se trata de conocer a alguien nuevo.

Don’t expect her to tell you how special you are to her after a few texting sessions because it’s too early for that. She’s still poniéndote a prueba. Give her some time, and if she expresses her feelings for you, then you know she thinks you’re special and enjoys texting you.

Si observa todas las demás señales excepto ésta, es un indicador de que le gustas a una chica tímida. If she’s shy, don’t force her to open up to you. 

Dale tiempo y espacio, y lo hará por sí sola. Sigue haciéndola reír y haciéndola sentir especial, y todo lo demás encajará.

Comparte contigo sus citas, memes, películas o canciones favoritas

I don’t know about you, but when I like someone, I enter this I-want-to-share-everything-with-you mode, and I often overdo it because I obviously can’t help myself.

Cuando me gusta alguien, quiero que sepa lo que me gusta, lo que no me gusta, mis películas favoritas, mis canciones, lo que sea. Si notas que ella siente lo mismo (que comparte todas esas cosas contigo), entonces sabes que le gustas.

She might also propose watching some movies together, which is another great sign of her affection for you. Once she starts sharing all these things, keep in mind to reciprocate and introduce her to your likes and dislikes. That’s how you’ll conseguir novia ¡seguro!

Te colma de atenciones

You’re probably thinking to yourself: How does one shower another person with attention in a texting environment? Simple.

Llenarte de atenciones significa hacerte cumplidos, encontrar siempre tiempo para contestarte sin importar lo ocupada que esté en ese momento, etc. 

But there’s one thing you need to pay attention to. Si te colma de atenciones y luego se aleja (deja de hacerlo durante algún tiempo), probablemente significa que le gustas pero se hace la difícil.

Sí. A la mayoría de las chicas les gusta hacerse las difíciles porque quieren que compitas por ellas, que intensifiques tu juego y que te esfuerces en tu cortejo. 

Don’t worry. This ‘playing hard-to-get game won’t last forever. After some time, she will stop doing it and start showering you with her undivided attention 24/7. Maybe we like doing this to help you appreciate our attention more than you usually would.

Te mantiene informado de lo que hace

Oh, yes. If a girl likes you, trust me, you will know about almost everything that’s going on in her life. 

You will know what time she wakes up, when she comes home from work, what she’s up to in her free time, what her dog/cat is doing, etc. Puede que me haya pasado con la última, pero ya te haces una idea.

If you want to know why we like doing this, it’s because it helps us stay connected with you. It’s our way of allowing you to be a part of our lives.

When you know her schedule, it’s easier for you to understand her type of personality and the way her mind operates. So, embrace it!

She’s interested in your future plans

Honestly, if I don’t care about the guy I’m texting, I certainly won’t ask him about his future plans or anything of the sort. 

So, if the girl you’re texting asks you about your future intentions, plans, and so on, it means she genuinely wants to know what is and will be going on in your life.

Maybe she wants to be a part of your future, and she wants to know if she stands a chance. For example, if you were to move to another city, it wouldn’t be easy for you to stay in touch.

When they like a guy, girls think of everything in advance. We even go so far that we start imagining how our future kids would look (if we decide to have them), and we haven’t even been on a first date yet. 

Yes, a female’s brain is incredibly complex, and don’t even try to understand it. I’ve tried and failed. (Note the sarcastic intention behind the last statement because I’m female.)

Se ríe de casi todo lo que dices

I know this will probably sound stupid, but when a girl likes you, she can’t help but laugh at almost everything you say or text her. I’ll try to explain this phenomenon in the simplest way possible.

So, when we’re talking or texting a guy we like, the positive energy spreads through our bodies, and it feels like you’re high on what you’re doing at that moment. 

Evidently, feel-good chemicals like dopamine play a part in this, so don’t think that you’re a stand-up comedian.

Joking aside, if she keeps sending you  ‘ LOL,’ ‘ROFL,’ ‘ LMAO,’ ‘ haha, ’ and other laughing variations, then you know she’s having a good time texting you. 

But if the only thing she ever does is send you one-word replies such as ‘ LOL,’ ‘yes,’ or ‘no,’ you should ask yourself the following: Is she ‘bad at texting’ or just not that into me?

Tienes química textual

Textual chemistry is one of the biggest signs a girl truly likes you! Do you know why? Because chemistry simply cannot exist if both parties aren ‘t on the same page. 

If she doesn’t like you and you’re into her, you won’t be able to establish textual chemistry. It’s as simple as that. 

But if she’s easy to talk to, open, reciprocating, compliments you, shares things with you, etc., it means she’s initiating a connection with you on a deeper level. If you’re doing the same thing, then química textual es inevitable.

Las conversaciones profundas existen

If you two have strong textual chemistry, you’ll never run out of deep and interesting topics to talk about. From alien invasion to the meaning of life, deep conversations will become your favorite activity.

Also, you won’t shy away from talking about real life issues. You will enjoy learning each other’s perspectives, contradicting each other and compromising, and so on.

Ahora es vuestro momento de brillar, hombres. La forma más fácil de get a girl’s attention es expresándote de forma creativa. That means you shouldn’t be generic when it comes to both texting and real life conversations.

Don’t text or say the first thing that comes to your mind. Think about the topic and thoughtfully express yourself. If you’re able to do that, I can guarantee you that she will be more than impressed with your texting performance.

Envía mensajes coquetos 

¿Te preguntas cómo saber si le gustas a una chica a través de un mensaje de texto? Bueno, una forma segura de saber que le gustas a una chica es si se pone coqueta.

¿Te envía textos seductores y coquetos where she teases you in a flirtatious way and displays her sense of humor like a true goddess? If she does, she’s doing it for a reason.

She wants to catch and keep your attention as you’re texting, and she knows that the easiest way to do so is by en coquetoingenioso y divertido. 

A flirtatious girl is a girl who is genuinely interested in you, so there’s no need to overthink it. You can trust me on this one.

Te envía fotos de sí misma

When girls like someone, they can’t help themselves but want to share everything with that person. This includes photos of themselves as well.

Si le gustas a esta chica, recibirás un montón de fotos de Snapchat, selfies y demás. También te enviará muchas capturas de pantalla divertidas porque quiere alegrarte el día.

Suddenly, she won’t really care about posting photos on social media for other people to see. Estará más preocupada por enviarte a TI sus mejores fotos. 

Why? Because she will be preoccupied with impressing you and not others. She will want you to be her man, and she won’t care about the others.

Te hace muchas preguntas personales

¿Cuál es su mayor temor? ¿Trabajas para vivir o vives para trabajar? ¿Qué opinas de las relaciones a distancia? ¿Has engañado alguna vez a una chica?

A girl who is into you will ask you these and similar questions because she’s interested in your personal life more than anything else. 

Memorizará todas y cada una de las respuestas, así que asegúrate de impresionarla. Por gracioso que parezca, tenemos un compartimento secreto en la cabeza donde recopilamos datos sobre alguien que nos gusta.

Actually, this applies to every single person on earth and not only girls. So, if this girl asks you lots of personal questions, maybe it’s high time you hacer un movimiento en ella.

Comparte muchos detalles personales sobre su vida

Además de hacerte un montón de preguntas personales, también te contará un montón de detalles personales sobre su vida. Hablará de su infancia, sus amigos, su trabajo, su familia, lo que le gusta, sus aficiones, etc.

Hará todo eso porque quiere que la veas, la sientas y comprendas su estilo de vida y su personalidad. Si cada vez que le envías un mensaje aprendes algo nuevo sobre ella, ¡ahí lo tienes!

She has probably developed a plan to give you info about herself bit by bit (so that she doesn’t overwhelm you and so you are left thirsty for more). Yup, that’s what we do when we really like a guy.

We REALLY want to share everything with you, but at the same time, we’re also scared of overdoing it. Por lo tanto, si parece reservada de vez en cuando, sepa que éste es el motivo. 

She’s interested in your love life

Does she ask you about your past romances or current ones (if there are any)? If a girl is interested in your love life, this is the surest sign that she hasn’t put you in the friend zone and that she probably genuinely likes you, yay!

This is pretty much self-explanatory. Why would she be interested in your life if she didn’t like you, right?

She wants to know if you’re single or dating anyone at the moment. Quiere saber qué fue mal en tus romances pasados para poder prepararse (es broma), pero aun así, esto no está lejos de la verdad.

If she asks you any of these questions, be prepared. Accentuate and highlight, if needed, that you’re single and totally ready to mingle! (God, I love that phrase so much.)

Enviarle mensajes de buenos días y buenas noches se ha convertido en parte de su rutina.

Si una chica te manda textos de buenos días and good night texts regularly, she wants you to know that you’re the first person she thinks of when she wakes up and the last thing she thinks of when she goes to sleep. 

Qué mono, ¿verdad? Hace poco un chico al que le mandé un mensaje me dijo: Me encanta cuando me envías buenas noches textos because it means I’m on your mind before you go to sleep. 

And, damn, he was right! I’m ashamed to admit that I think about him almost all the time. I’m even thinking about him when writing this because if I didn’t, I wouldn’t be mentioning him, right?

La cuestión es que, cuando a las chicas les gusta alguien, pensarán MUCHO en esa persona (como todos los seres humanos), y les resultará difícil resistirse a desearte buenos días o buenas noches.

Te envía una foto de sí misma sin maquillaje

Here’s the thing with photos: A girl would NEVER, EVER send you a picture of herself without makeup on if she doesn’t feel totally comfortable around you. 

Si te envía una foto sin maquillaje, es una gran señal de que confía en ti, se siente cómoda compartiendo su verdadero yo contigo y siendo quien es.

Enviar una foto sin maquillaje es un acto de valentía en sí mismo, sobre todo cuando tienes esas molestas ojeras (yo las tengo, y las odio). 

If I’m willing to send such a photo to a guy, it means I like him more than he could ever imagine. 

I mean, we live in times when the majority of girls literally sleep with makeup on in case of an emergency ( LOL ), so appreciate the fact that this girl is not afraid to contradict society’s imposed standards. 

She sends ‘thinking of you’ texts

Cómo saber si le gustas a una chica over text? If she sends you those sentimental ‘thinking of you’ texts, then you shouldn’t question her affection for you!

The same thing goes for those random texts where she’s in a store and sees something that reminds her of you. Podría ser la cosa más trivial del mundo, pero aun así te la envía porque esa cosa trivial significa el mundo para ella.

Remember when I said that when we really like someone, we think about that one person 24/7? Well, that’s exactly how we end up connecting the object of our affection with random things around us.

Cuanto más pensamos en ellos, más forman parte de nuestra vida cotidiana y de todo lo que hacemos, desde ir a la compra hasta salir a pasear.

Quiere llamarte/videollamarte

If this is not the ultimate sign of her genuine affection for you, then I don’t know what is. If this girl wants to talk to you over phone or video call, it means she wants to hear your voice, see you and connect with you on a deeper level.

En ese caso, aprender a mantener una conversación con una chica is a must if you want to avoid awkward silences. If you’re a shy guy, video calls might be too much for you, but don’t worry. You can always tell her that, and I’m sure she will understand. 

Then make sure to compensate in face-to-face conversations for the lack of video calls, and she’ll be more than satisfied.

Envía mensajes traviesos

Do you think a girl would ever send a naughty text to someone she wasn’t interested in? I thought so. Si realmente le gustas, los mensajes traviesos también formarán parte de su estilo.

No, no te enviará este tipo de mensajes todo el tiempo, pero te sorprenderá de vez en cuando. Lo hará porque quiere despertar tu deseo y tu lujuria. 

Cada Cómo saber si le gustas a una chica por SMS concurso te hará esta pregunta: ¿Alguna vez flirtea contigo? Los mensajes traviesos también son una forma de ligar, así que si tu respuesta es sí, ya sabes que le gustas.

Ella inicia una cita 

¿Quiere FaceTime en la vida real? ¿Te ha dicho algo como: Creo que deberíamos reunirse y tener un cara a cara conversación.

If a girl initiates a date (which is rare), then you’re a lucky guy! Prepare for plenty of deep eye-contact sessions and other magical moments of hanging out with someone you like.

If she doesn’t do it, don’t worry. There are plenty of formas brillantes de invitar a salir a una chica por SMS.

Este es mi favorito: “I’ve been gathering the courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I’d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.”

Seriously, don’t mess it up!

Espero que la cuestión de cómo saber si le gustas a una chica por SMS no longer bothers you because you finally know the truth. If this girl likes you, don’t mess it up.

Don’t let her think: He only texts me when he’s bored or lonely. Don’t let her wait too long for your reply. Don’t play games with her.

Si experimenta molestias al enviar mensajes, tómese un descanso e inténtelo de nuevo al día siguiente. Sé inteligente, creativo y diviértete.