É permitido afastar-se

“You can never leave a place unless you leave that place in your mind!” ~ Mehmet Murat Ildan

Remember that it’s your life that you are living. Remember you have the first and final word—no one has the right to meddle with your thoughts and actions.

Ninguém tem o direito de segurar todos os cordelinhos da sua vida.

You are allowed to leave everything only to rediscover your life’s purpose. Maybe you’ve forgotten what your direction is—your plan for the future.

Something distracted you and you’ve lost your way. Don’t be afraid to break loose from everything that’s holding you back and find your old self, again.

É-vos permitido perseguir a vossa felicidade porque mereces ser feliz. É-lhe permitido encontrar uma razão para se levantar de manhã e esperar passar o resto do dia relaxado e satisfeito.

É-lhe permitido livrar-se de todas as pessoas tóxicas da sua vida. I know it’s not easy to cut off someone, but if those people are only making your life miserable, then it has to end.

Find the strength to say: “It’s enough!” Show them and show everyone that you are in charge now and you won’t permit anyone ‘bullying’ you.

É-lhe permitido deixar o passado para trás. A única coisa que todos nós fazemos mal e que só nos puxa para baixo é estarmos presos ao passado.

Why is that we all cling on to something that happened a long time ago? Are we afraid of the unknown—of the future?

Temos de nos permitir continuar a viver e, acima de tudo, temos de nos deixar ir. Forget about all the mistakes you made in the past because those things don’t define you.

The only thing that defines you is the process of accepting you were wrong and growing from that point on. Remember that your past is also a part of who you are, but it doesn’t conduct your life.

Utilize as suas experiências passadas e aprenda com os seus erros. Só assim poderá crescer ainda mais e tornar-se uma pessoa mais forte e independente.

É-lhe permitido deixar os seus traumas e injustiças que lhe foram cometidos.

É-lhe permitido enterrá-las nos cantos mais escuros da sua mente, mas não é permitido esquecê-las.

Keep those bad memories always around somewhere, to remind yourself what you’ve been through, and to never let them happen again.

I know you will never leave the pain—it’s impossible. The pain may fade out a bit in time, but it will never be gone. Use that pain to make yourself the best version you can be.

Use it in a positive way, because in the end, it’s all up to you. If you decide you’re going to hurt and cry—you will.

But, if you decide you’re going to come out even stronger than you were—you will.

You leaving is not you giving up—it’s just you getting a nice, clean start—a second chance which we all deserve.

Remember that you do have a set of ‘balls’ and that you can make anything you like happen. Remember that courage is crouching somewhere inside you, ready to be unleashed.

You are the one who has to give the permission—and you will. It’s the matter of time.

Remember that if you leave, you’ll start off your life clean. You’ll get new opportunities and new perspectives. You will be happy—just find the strength to leave if you want and have to.

Mas, se queres partir porque queres fugir, lembra-te que nunca poderás fugir de ti próprio.

Allow yourself to leave behind the old version of yourself so you don’t have to run.

Just don’t be afraid to do it!