É por isso que deve manter a sua relação fora das redes sociais
It’s 2020 and it is extremely hard to stay off redes sociais. Everything that’s happening is happening right there. Instagram is making people famous and also addicted. It seems like everyone’s life is now served up on a platter.
It’s like we’re all living in one big reality show.
Your social media profiles could easily get out of control if you’re not being careful. Not everything belongs on the Internet.
Pode partilhar com os seus amigos como está feliz e como é bom ter finalmente ido de férias. Mas o que é que as suas relações devem ser mantidas em segredo.
No one has to know what your boyfriend got you for your birthday or if you’re mad at him for some reason.
Se revelar toda essa informação, pode acabar com o seu namorado mais cedo do que pensa.
Eis as razões para tal:
Alguém pode sabotar a sua relação
You wouldn’t believe how many people are just waiting to get involved in someone else’s life.
They’re just sitting in their homes, scrolling through social media and looking for a new project to work on.
Their projects consist of ruining other people’s lives. You might know some of those people without knowing that that’s their hobby.
Estão cheios de ódio e ressentimento towards others and they don’t even care about them.
They think that if they can’t be happy, no one else should. Of course, with that type of mindset, they will never be happy because they’re not even trying.
They can’t wait to see someone being happy and finding a way to destroy it. Their resentment is stronger than any other feeling they have.
Seeing someone happy causes anger in their souls and they can’t wait to start gossiping around how the only reason your boyfriend buys you flowers is because he’s cheating on you.
A sua imaginação e o seu ressentimento são as duas únicas coisas que não têm limites. Cuidado.
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You’re building up a picture of the perfect couple
When you scroll through all the pictures you’ve posted with your boyfriend, you see only happy faces.
At that moment, you feel like you are that perfect couple—everyone’s real relationship goal. You forget that your relationship isn’t that perfect. Actually, no relationship is.
You’ve had your ups and downs and if you only keep seeing ups, you might end up living in an illusion.
Verá a sua relação como toda a gente a vê e parecerá que tudo o que tem com o seu namorado é simplesmente perfeito.
Isto pode ser muito mau se acabar com ele. Percorrer os seus perfis nas redes sociais depois de terminar o namoro pode fazê-la esquecer o motivo pelo qual terminou com ele.
You’d think that everything was indeed perfect and you’d want to get back together with him.
It’s better for you to keep the album of every moment you want and need to remember on your phone. It doesn’t matter if it’s good or bad.
You need to be aware of everything that’s going on between you two. It is important to have a reminder of your bad moments, so you can see what you survived together.
That can only make your relationship stronger. When you know how much you two have been there for each other, through thick and thin, your love can only grow until it’s reached the sky—because only the sky’s the limit for true love.
You’re giving people access to the most private part of your life
If you’re not careful, your relationship could become famous. You and your boyfriend could be that couple the whole town’s talking about.
Everybody could know who you are, even those people you’ve never even met. Your life would become a reality show without you even knowing it.
People love to gossip and to follow someone else’s lives.
Don’t give them a chance to gossip about you and your boyfriend. The fewer people know about your relationship, the happier you’ll be. It’s a golden rule of dating.
É o seu perfil nas redes sociais e pode publicar tudo o que quiser, mas deve ter em conta que tudo o que publicar pode ser utilizado contra si.
It’s always better to be active in real life than on social media. Instead of putting effort into choosing a filter for your new photo, it’s better to invest your effort into planning a trip with your boyfriend.
Ligação com ele na vida real é muito melhor do que qualquer ligação à Internet.
