Ela esperou que te recompusesses, mas tu afugentaste-a

Pensaste que ela ia esperar por ti enquanto tu levavas o teu precioso tempo a organizar as tuas coisas?

Sorry, but no. She’s got better things to do! Life is not a movie.

It’s not some romantic comedy in which the guy acts like a complete jerk the whole way through, and in the final 5 minutes he realizes what an asshole he was and wants to make amends.

E a pior parte? A rapariga cai sempre na armadilha. Bem, esta rapariga não!

She doesn’t have time to fazer uma pausa na sua vida while you’re busy deciding whether or not she’s worth getting your act together.

She doesn’t have time to feel like she’s não é suficiente for you to act the way she deserves and mull over your options while she sits there, wondering if you’ll stay committed when you get it together and see how special she is.

You see, people eventually get tired of having to fix someone all the time. For a while, she’ll try. She’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and hope she doesn’t regret it.

But the minute you show her that her effort and her kindness are in vain, she’s out the door, and you’re never seeing her again.

She’s off finding somebody worthy of her time and her effort. She is nobody’s fool. She has a life which she no longer plans putting on hold all because of some asshole who can’t make up his mind.

Love only takes you so far, and now she’s had it. You only have yourself to blame for this. She gave you her best, and you wasted her time.

She has reached the point of no return. And when she decides that she’s done with you, she really means it.

By the time this gets through to you, she’ll be living her best life with somebody who knows how to value her.

Agora, ela provou finalmente como é a vida sem ti. Agora, ela vê o que tem estado a perder.

Agora, ela sabe que nem todos os homens são manipuladores e jogar jogos . Agora vê que é possível encontrar um igual que a aprecie e a ame.

Agora apercebe-se que perdeu tanto tempo com um tipo que nunca se iria comprometer.

Um homem que a retinha para poder usá-la o máximo de tempo possível, porque é fraco e cobarde.

But guess what? She’s not even mad! Ela está grata por lhe ter mostrado o que nunca mais deve suportar.

Agora ela pode apreciar o verdadeiro tipo de romance e nunca mais olhar para trás.

Now, you can go on and list all the reasons why she should’ve stayed and how you are the best she’ll ever get.

But look at her now. You’re no longer a presence in her mind. You are a mere memory that has taught her a valuable and tough lesson.

Ela está a viver a sua melhor vida com uma pessoa que lhe dá amor, honestidade e apreço, e tu continuas a ser essa triste e patética desculpa para um ser humano, preso aos seus velhos hábitos, recorrendo a jogos mentais e amargura para conseguir o que se quer.

But now, you see that it’s no longer working, and you’re left alone with no one willing to put up with your shit again. And she is out there without a care in the world.

Ela ganha.

Sorry to disappoint, but nobody deserves to spend their life dealing with another person’s bullshit on a regular basis, trying to fix that person when he is unwilling to fix himself.

Nobody deserves the drama and pain that comes with being with you, all the while wondering if you’re going to choose her in the first place.

Now all that is behind her. She’s had it with your shady ways and shitty days.

And now, I’m guessing you’re slowly realizing what you’ve lost—a person who was willing to go to war for you, giving you her complete loyalty and dedication, until she realized it was no longer worth it.

Deixaste-a ir. Afugentaste-a.

Now, she’s living her happy, healthy life, while you’re dwelling in misery trying to convince yourself you didn’t need her anyway.

Boa sorte com isso, porque adivinha? She really doesn’t care anymore.