É por isso que os empáticos são as melhores pessoas para se ser amigo

“Friendship… is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.” – Muhammed Ali

O Google diz que um empático é uma pessoa com a capacidade paranormal de perceber o estado mental ou emocional de outro indivíduo.

We’ve been looking for superheroes in Marvel’s movies, and we’ve imagined so many times how cool would it be to have a friend like that when we, in reality, had even better ones—we were just too oblivious to notice.

Os empáticos sabem coisas

That’s the catch; you don’t really need to tell them anything. Just by looking at you, they can say if something is wrong.

No mask you wear is good enough to hide the truth from them. It is something beyond intuition, that’s why we call it a paranormal ability.

Raramente se enganam e quanto mais sintonizados estão com as pessoas, mais forte é o seu dom.

And they have the ability to feel other’s emotions and take them as their own

In fact, this should be written in present continuous because it’s the thing they do 24/7—literally all the time. It ’s just something they can’t shut down.

Maybe they don’t even want to. Whatever it is that you are feeling, they feel it, too. Maybe this is one of the reasons people enjoy being around empáticos.

Because empaths don’t ask stupid questions and don’t push you too hard, they know what to say and when.

Sabem quando devem dar-nos espaço e quando é a altura certa para se intrometerem no nosso espaço pessoal.

As tragédias e a violência no mundo são coisas insuportáveis para eles. Sentem cada tragédia e desprezam a violência.

Esforçam-se por fazer do mundo um lar acolhedor para todos os seres humanos e, se pudessem, tomariam a seu cargo todo o sofrimento deste mundo.

Sentem a dor dos outros que estão longe. Só se pode imaginar como são atingidos pela dor das pessoas que lhes são mais próximas.

When they tell you not to welcome somebody in your life, don’t welcome que alguém na sua vida

No matter if you just met a new girl or a guy and you want to go out with her and have fun, you want to spend time with her and share some of your secrets, or if you’ve met somebody you’ve been thinking of dating.

If an empath tells you not to invite them into your personal space, listen to them—it’s not jealousy that’s speaking, it’s their intuition.

Because they know when somebody is dishonest. In most situations, they can recognize someone’s intentions and that’s why they are warning you. They are trying to spare you the pain.

Por vezes, pode parecer que querem ser amigos de toda a gente

They are always looking for the next ‘victim’. People who are suffering or being bullied often draw the attention of the empaths and they rush to save them.

A desvantagem é que muitas vezes acabam por ser um local de despejo. Até os estranhos descarregam os seus problemas nos empáticos e, por vezes, isso pode ser demasiado pesado.

São frequentemente arrastados por pessoas falsas

Sentem uma fadiga constante e ficam sem energia vampiros de energia.

They’re empathizing just way too much and what drains them the most are those people who take advantage of them.

Not every single person is a healer in this world and that’s OK. O que é mau aqui é o facto de as pessoas pensarem frequentemente que têm o direito de usar as pessoas boas deste mundo.

São intolerantes ao narcisismo e tendem a evitar pessoas demasiado egoístas

That’s why empaths have a great need for solitude. They just go crazy without ‘me’ time. They have no trouble lying in their beds and daydreaming for hours.

Por vezes, criam uma palavra ilusória para si próprios e vivem nela por um momento. Criam o lugar onde não há lugar e agarram-se a ele, só por um segundo.

It’s their way to recharge and be capable of devoting themselves to the world.

It’s futile to make them do things they don’t enjoy. If they don’t enjoy it, don’t push them.

They might go just to make you feel good, but why would you do those things to the person that’d never put themselves before you?

They need to know ‘why’. They need to know what good that will do them and if it’s just ‘because’, they don’t see the bigger picture.

Because you’ll only make party poopers out of them.

São espíritos livres

That’s why they don’t enjoy ordinary things as most people do.

São eles sempre pronto para uma aventura, eles amar a liberdade, e eles gostar de viajar. It’s something that fulfills them and in those things, they find fun.

Eles podem ser o melhor tipo de pessoas para fazer viagens de carro e, se decidir ir com eles, prepare-se para a melhor viagem de sempre.

Porque são extremamente criativos, cantar, dançar, representar ou a sua imaginação vívida é por vezes mais do que suficiente.

In fact, they’ll do anything that’ll make people around them feel better. They are the kind of people who are always up for spontaneous things that make people happy and they won’t ever be the ones to think twice when a bom surge a oportunidade de se divertir.

São excelentes ouvintes

Não são o tipo de pessoas que ouvem os seus problemas só para terem espaço para falar dos deles. Não, eles ouvem e tentam pôr-se no seu lugar.

Compreendem verdadeiramente e tentam encontrar a melhor solução, ou melhor ainda, fazem com que, juntamente com eles, dê uma conclusão final a tudo o que lhe aconteceu.

Porque se esforçam pela verdade (no matter how painful it sometimes gets), they’ll alway choose to slap you with the truth rather than to comfort you with lies.

But they’ll be there to hold your hand and they’ll never leave you alone till you pull yourself up.

The catch is that God gave them this gift because He knew they won’t misuse it. He knew they’ll be the guardian angels of their friends down on Earth just like those that are awaiting you in Heaven.  

Who wouldn’t like to walk through life with their guardian angel by their side?

É por isso que os empáticos são as melhores pessoas para se ser amigo.